🌈 What to Expect
An exclusive vetted space for YBK members and their invited guests.
An immersive K i n k y Pride Play Party atmosphere filled with bold, colorful, expressive, and celebratory energy.
A high-energy soundtrack playing throughout the night with dance, pop, queer anthems, throwbacks, and party favorites.
Interactive tastings and demos hosted by experienced volunteers.
Attendees exploring scenes, connection, celebration, and community throughout the evening.
A vibrant, playful environment inspired by Pride, self-expression, chosen family, freedom, and the joy of being seen.
✨ Dress Theme: K i n k y Pride
Come dressed in your best Pride-inspired look with a kinky twist. Think bold, colorful, rebellious, seductive, playful, and expressive.
Dress to impress:
Rainbow fits, leather, latex, mesh, fishnets, harnesses, collars, chokers, glitter, body chains, platform boots, pride colors, flag-inspired outfits, bold makeup, queer club kid looks, drag-inspired pieces, punk-inspired pieces, or your own K i n k y Pride interpretation.
Let the decor, dress, and energy transform the night into a celebration of community, kink, and Pride.
💋 Who’s Invited
Vetted YBK members ages 21–39 and their approved guests only.
Only vetted attendees may bring guests, and each guest must have their own ticket.
NOTE: We ask that you educate your guest on the rules and important information about these events before attending. Their behavior reflects your status as a vetted YBK member, so please make sure they understand our expectations around respect, consent, privacy, and community guidelines.
📍 Location
Private San Diego venue — details shared after RSVP confirmation.
🎟️ Tickets
Space is limited, and this event is expected to sell out.
📅 Date
July 4th
8:00 PM – 1:00 AM
🌈 Come celebrate Pride, play, freedom, and chosen family with us at the YBK Pride Play Party.
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To attend, you must have previously attended a YBK munch and our YBK 101 class, which will prepare you for your first event or serve as a refresher on the rules of our Private BDSM YBK party and BDSM 101 Foundational Information.
Our event is focused on BDSM and we prioritize consent, negotiations, safety, and ethical play. Please note that this is NOT a sex party, but rather a safer and fun place for those interested in exploring the BDSM community.
We have an amazing private venue in San Diego that will host our play party. To attend, you must be fully vetted, and our [FAQs](https://fetlife.com/users/13271272/posts/7987228) on FetLife will guide you through the process. Once you are vetted, you will be added to our mailing list with regular emails of our private events. Also don't forget to fill out our active dance card on our Private YBK Discord server.
Our event is BYOB with non-hard liquor drinks such as seltzer, beer, wine, or cider. However, we do provide soda,water and light refreshments. Please drink responsibly and always discuss alcohol during your negotiations as consent is key.
Party schedule:
- Doors Open and Social time 8:00pm.
- Announcements and rules 9:00 pm
- Dungeon will open for play at 9:15 pm.
- Our tasting rooms with volunteer Tops/Bottoms will also open at 9:15 pm offering you the chance to top/bottom to a kinky activity.
- The doors will close at 11 pm
- Party ends at 1am
Remember that only fully vetted attendees can buy tickets, and each attendee and guest must purchase a ticket to attend the play party. Passwords for vetted attendees and their guests have been mailed out. If you didn't receive it, please message the host.
We are always looking for volunteers such as DJ, Bartenders, DMs and experienced volunteer tops and bottoms and you do not have to be 21-39 to give back to our community.