A Guiding Compass for the New and Nervous: BDSM 101

Dungeons, Dominants, submissives, power exchange, bondage, masochism, and more…it is completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and intimidation with so many different terms out there but this workshop is meant to be an enlightening introduction to help ease those nerves. Whether your curiosity was sparked by a book, a movie, a conversation with a friend, or just a lingering question about your own hidden desires, this class provides actionable advice in a safe, welcoming, and non-judgmental space to explore the possibilities.

Our time is designed to give you a foundational understanding of the ethics and practical skills you need to navigate kink in a way that is authentic and deeply fulfilling. The scene can feel like a minefield of dangers and that’s why we created this workshop: to cut through the confusion, demystify the myths, and help you start your adventure with confidence, clarity, and safety at the forefront. Discover ways to mitigate the physical and emotional risks including how to build your own aftercare kit and vetting new play partners. No prior knowledge is required, just an open mind and a willingness to learn.

More topics that will be discussed include:

• Overcoming stigma and shame
• Roles and responsibilities for everyone
• Managing expectations to avoid disappointment
• Dungeon and other lifestyle etiquette
• Dos and Don’ts of negotiations and informed consent
• Understanding the lingo and structure of a scene
• Self-reflection exercises to know yourself deeper
• Establishing boundaries for protection
• Navigating insecurities as a newbie

This workshop is meant to be an inclusive environment that is accommodating for all types of people. You can participate in a way that feels comfortable for you, whether that’s having your camera on, joining in the chat, or remaining anonymous while taking in all the information. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any accessibility needs.

This workshop is held on Zoom which includes closed captioning for more accessibility. Information and instructions for joining the event will be sent in your confirmation email so be sure to check the spelling with checking out. It is being recorded so if you can’t join live, don’t worry because you will receive a link to view the recording after it’s completed to watch at your convenience.

Discounts are offered to those on my mailing list so be sure to sign up so you don’t miss the promotional codes.

If cost is a barrier for your attendance, please fill out this short form to be considered for a scholarship ticket.

Presenter Information:

Miss Mackenzee (She/Her) comes from a queer, neurodivergent perspective. She is a Board-Certified Sexologist, BDSM and Intimacy Educator, Certified Hypnotist, Sex Therapy Practitioner, Certified Trauma-informed Relationship and Sexual Wellness Coach, Kink Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Mentor, Owner of Elysium Dungeon and Playful Pinz, Host of Kink, Intimacy, and Cannabis Lounge Podcast, Content Creator, and Author. She is also the founder of BDSM and Intimacy University. Miss Mackenzee has written and been quoted in numerous publications, been hired as an expert for various media outlets, and is highly sought after for private lessons with individuals and folks in relationships as well as presenting at conventions and graduate programs at major universities. She has taken over 10,000 hours of continued education at universities and other organizations to become a better educator and coach. She hosts virtual workshops multiple times a week on topics including but not limited to energy play, sex magick, bondage, power exchange, reveling in pleasure, sadism, bedroom skills, and spirituality. One of her driving forces is to be the person she wishes she had when she first started her exploration of kink and sexuality. She loves helping others to have hotter, safer, and more fulfilling intimacy. Miss Mackenzee prides herself on creating a fostering and inclusive environment that is safe from societal judgments for people to explore their desires and individuality.

To view her full offerings, visit her website: www.MissMackenzee.com

Parker Leigh (they/them) is a queer, neurodivergent professional switch and has been in the kink lifestyle for 16 years. For 11 of those, they have been happily collared by Miss Mackenzee and have taught alongside Her at many events and organizations across the nation including Kink.com, Widener University, Kinky Kollege, Wicked Grounds, Voxbody Studios, Adventures in Sexuality, Black Thorn, and more. Hearing a bottom’s perspective and experience is an important aspect of kink and sexuality education which they love providing. They are also a professional mentor for switches, submissives, and other folks on the receiving end of sensations. They love impact play, sharps, bondage, sensory deprivation, power exchange, and so much more.

They pride themselves on their openness and approachability. Consent is a huge part of their teaching and believes it is one of the key elements to a successful dynamic of any kind. Parker aims to create a warm, welcoming, and inclusive learning atmosphere where people feel they can ask whatever questions they have.