Power, Surrender, and Seduction

TICKETS HERE!

The strength and beauty of a confident woman in control is an inspiring sight to behold. Throughout the ages, strong women have always had an irresistible allure.

Are you curious about Topping but uncertain about how to get started? Are you looking to brush up on your skills to create a memorable and sizzling scene for you and your partner(s)? Are you looking for tips on how to locate and interact with the Domme of your dreams?

No matter what side of the slash you are on, this is the class for you!

Join kink legend Rain DeGrey for an intensive that will give you the tools and skill set to confidently explore the thrilling world of femme domme!

This class will cover:

• Negotiation
• Effective Communication
• How to create a strong scene
• Red flags/green flags
• How to effectively read body language
• What to do when a scene goes wrong
• Owning mistakes
• How to keep them coming back for more
• Top drop/subdrop/aftercare
• Various types of play including humiliation, water sports, strap-on, CBT, bondage, boot worship, domestic service, anal play, impact play and much more!

There will also be an extended discussion period for questions. Always had a question you wanted to ask? Now is your chance!

Don’t be shy; learn to own your strong female self and increase the skill sets in your toolbox. This pansexual class is open to all genders and orientations, all are welcome!

Doors open at 9:30AM. Complementary snacks and drinks (waters and soda) will be provided, with breaks will be built in. We will have a lunch break from 12:30PM-1:30PM. Complimentary lunch will be available in addition to refreshments and light snacks.

Those who successfully complete the class will receive a fun goodie bag including a complimentary ticket to the AURA party on 6/26. If we have at least 20 attendees, we will also raffle off a really nice toy from a local maker to enjoy on your kinky adventures.

Event Rules & Guidelines

This educational intensive is focused on learning, not a play party. This event is not for cruising and sex of any kind is not permitted. Guests are expected to respect the instructor, house manager, and staff. No photography or videography is allowed. All Praxium Events are 18+.

The Venue

This event will take place at Stopgap in San Francisco. The address will be provided to ticket holders for privacy and safety reasons. For planning purposes, it is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including lockers, social areas, play areas, and two accessible bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to praxium@afterdark-sf.com

Entry

• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.
• Advance tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• We have a limited number of financial access tickets available. If you are in need of a financial access ticket, please email us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com

Inclusivity & Safety

• We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructor

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, Kink Academy, Kinkfest, SOJ, PLA, Pure Pleasure, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon in Germany.

Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, RISK!, Bawdy Storytelling, Mystery Box Theatre, and she is a multiple crown winner of the Dirty Talk Game Show.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com