CoCo D/s Munch - Topic: Service: Anticipatory or Instructed

Balancing Structure and Intuition in BDSM Relationships

Join us for the CoCo D/s Munch at La Pinata in Pittsburg every 3rd Monday of the month, hosted by @Shamama. We've got a secret back room that's tucked away from the ordinary dining crowd, complete with access to a bar and, of course, mouthwatering Mexican cuisine to tickle your taste buds.

Arrive between 6:15-7:00 pm to place your food order and get settled in. Discussion starts at 7:00 pm sharp.

We embrace those who choose to or aspire to take lifestyle-BDSM to the core of their kinky experiences, providing a supportive space for exploration and growth. People of all stripes, from wide-eyed newbies to seasoned veterans, are welcomed with open arms.

Discussion Topic:

This munch we will delve into soul-focused BDSM, inspired by the thought-provoking insights from "The Psychology of BDSM and Kink." by Douglas Thomas.

Let's explore what soul-focused BDSM means to each attendee, delving into its personal significance and impact. Together, we'll investigate the depths of Freudian and Jungian theories, considering how these frameworks shape our understanding of power dynamics and spiritual connections in BDSM relationships. Furthermore, we'll unravel the concept of syzygy and its relevance in our BDSM dynamics, reflecting on its manifestation in our experiences of negotiating power, vulnerability, and authenticity.

Bring your own perspectives and stories to the table as we collectively explore the transformative potential of soul-focused BDSM for personal growth, connection, and self-discovery.

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We believe in having spirited discussions that ignite your passion. So remember, when you walk down this road with us, it's all about respect and dignity.

To make sure everyone gets a chance to join the conversation, we've got a "stacking" system in place. Just wave your hand, and you'll be next in line to share your thoughts, ask questions, or throw in your two cents.

📚You must have heard by now that we have a lending library! Go to the @DenOfRoses page find out more info and explore our book list.

Do not "FL stalk" my attendees. If I find that you are messaging and friend requesting my attendees prior to the munch, you will be banned from future munches. We're all about keeping things classy and consensual. If that's not clear as day, I suggest that you look into community etiquette.

xoxo

Shamama 🌹

Click here to join our group for updates about this and other related discussions and events: East Contra Costa County D/s Munch Group.