Welcome to Corrosion NYC!

A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party

CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom.

Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center.

There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas.

This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more.

This is a self-led BDSM and sex party.

Attendees are responsible for their own choices, negotiations, boundaries, hookups, scenes, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene conversations, especially for people meeting or negotiating play in the room.

Click here for more details on MITPISA

What to Expect

7 PM | Doors Open

• Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play.
• This is a good time to meet people, talk through interests, askk questions, and begin negotiating any scenes or connections you may want to explore

8 PM | Welcome & Room Agreements

• We gather briefly to review the flow of the event, consent expectations, safety agreements, and ettiquite.
• If you arrive after this welcome, you are still welcome. A facilitator will give you the essential room agreements at check-in before you enter the play space.

8:15 PM | BDSM + Sex Party Opens

• Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace.

12 AM | Party Ends

The Vibe

• Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room.

• A separate lounge for talking, aftercare, grounding, and connection.

• Designated play areas for BDSM & sexual activity

• Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration

(St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, floor beds, sling, and more)

• A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment where BDSM, sex, connection, and consent can exist together

What to Bring

• Implements, toys, gear, etc
• Safer-sex supplies, lube, gloves, etc
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs.

CORROSION Dress Code

Dress for the energy of the party.

• Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome.

• Nudity is allowed throughout the space.

• If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately.

The dress code isn't manditory for entry or to attend this party, you may show up any way that makes you comfortable and confident!

Meet Your Facilitators

CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink.

In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way.

Consent, respect, communication, and clear boundaries lead the way.

This is a space where sexual freedom and BDSM exploration can happen without losing sight of the people involved.

This is a self-led BDSM and sex party. The Kink Collective team holds the space, reviews expectations, supports the room, and helps maintain the container, but we do not manage individual scenes, hookups, or sexual encounters. Everyone attending is responsible for their own negotiations, boundaries, choices, consent, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

Location Details

Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem

Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Forno on 125th. Look for 113 in the window above.

• Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total.

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community.

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Tickets 🎟️

$30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2)

🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here

A Look at The Sanctuary of East Harlem

Each event is set up to match the energy and purpose of the night. For CORROSION, the space is arranged to support BDSM & sex, connection, negotiation, and self-led scenes.

orrosion Wording Explained

BDSM and other terms you might see and wonder what does that mean? Here is how we define those:

• Scene: An agreed-upon exchange between people, discussed ahead of time with clear boundaries, consent, expectations, and aftercare.

• Negotiation: The conversation before play where people talk through interests, limits, roles, safety needs, intensity, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

• Boundaries: The personal limits and needs someone communicates before or during play, including what is welcome, what is not, and what must stop if crossed.

• MITPISA: The Kink Collective’s consent and negotiation framework, designed to help people talk through interests, boundaries, safety needs, intensity, and aftercare before play begins.

• Pickup play: Play negotiated with someone you meet at the event. All pickup play should be clearly discussed and agreed to before anything begins.

• Power exchange: Consensual play where people intentionally explore roles, control, service, dominance, submission, or authority.

• Energy exchange: The felt connection between people during play — the way attention, emotion, sensation, intention, and response move back and forth between them.

• Hookup: A consensual sexual or intimate connection between people. Nothing is assumed, and all sexual contact should be clearly communicated and agreed to.

• Safer-sex practices: The conversations, supplies, and choices people use to reduce risk and care for themselves and others during sexual activity.

• Aftercare: The care, grounding, rest, or connection someone may need after play or sex to help their body and emotions settle.