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Daddy Dearest: Understanding Familial Roles and Caregiver Dynamics In Fetish Play with Ancilla L!

Explore communication, negotiation, and the design of taboo dynamics, caregiver relationships, and familial roleplay tailored to your unique dynamic!

When: Saturday, Jun 27, 2026 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Pacific Time

Where: Online, Zoom

Ticket Link: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/black-thorn/c35c73f41f

Fetlife RSVP: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/06/27/daddy-dearest-understanding-familial-roles-and-caregiver-dynamics-in-fetish-play-with-ancilla-l-smwdio

Please Note: This class is a live Zoom class and will be recorded. The recording will be available to ticket holders.

This class is designed around the practice of power and other fetishistic structures within dynamics like daddy/mommy and littles/middles etc.

Students can expect to learn the following:

  • Understanding what your role means to you.
  • Exploring identity and expression within your role.
  • Incorporating power: Figuring out the structures of power that could apply and which ones you want.
  • Social influences on such dynamics.
  • The taboo bits: leaning towards or away from incestuous play, regression or dark parental dynamics.
  • Safeguarding and negotiating that which is specific to the dynamics in question.
  • Integrating play and dynamic: When play doesn't quite look like play.
  • Power exchange as identity excavation.
  • Bad daddy: Familial top-traps and issues, and how to avoid them.

And much more!

Bring your questions and curiosity to this insightful and informative class. Everyone is welcome!

About Ancilla L

Ancilla L is kink-educator, erotic author and podcaster based in India. She identifies as a polyamorous, pansexual masochist. She is the founder of Ancillary Kink Support, a woman, queer and bottom-led educational platform for fetish and BDSM. Her classes focus on depth, individualised approaches to desire, research and are primarily experience-based.

Ancilla L is also the creator of The Sextbook Initiative, as part of that she writes stand-alone textbooks on individual fetishes that serve as detailed, adaptable frameworks. The three titles currently available are The Power-Exchange Sextbook, The Masochism Sextbook and The CNC Sextbook.