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Demand Your Desires

Dirty talk becomes expansion. Practice asking for what you want, owning your voice, building confidence, and taking pleasure beyond bedroom.

Unblock the fear that keeps you from voicing your deepest, most tantalizing fantasies.

Demand Your Desires

Dirty Talk, Confidence & Pleasure Beyond the Bedroom & into the Boardroom

Event Description

What if dirty talk was never really just about sex?

What if the bedroom could become your playground for practicing something much bigger:

Knowing what you want.

Saying what you want.

Holding your boundaries.

Asking for more.

Being seen in your desire.

Because someone may struggle to say:

“I want a $20,000 raise.”

“I want you to choose me.”

“I don’t agree with that.”

“I want more.”

“No.”

“This is what I expect.”

…but suddenly, inside play, they’re practicing:

“Come here.”

“Look at me.”

“Give me what I want.”

“Slower.”

“More.”

“No, not like that.”

“Ask me properly.”

And underneath those sexy words, something much bigger is happening.

You are practicing desire recognition, confident communication, boundaries, receiving, command, vulnerability, and being witnessed wanting something.

Most people love pleasure.

They love sex.

They love orgasms.

They love flirting.

They love that moment when their body wakes up and they feel electric, magnetic and alive.

But then they leave that version of themselves in the bedroom.

This class is about learning how to take the confidence, pleasure and boldness you access during play and begin practicing it in the rest of your life.

The bedroom becomes your laboratory.

Dirty talk becomes the practice.

Your life becomes the place you apply it.

We’ll explore how your body recognizes desire, why practicing bold expression can increase your sense of capability, and how to consciously begin carrying that embodied confidence into conversations, relationships, work, money and everyday life.

This isn't about memorizing a list of “sexy things to say.”

It's about learning to recognize:

What do I want?

Can I say it?

Can I tolerate being seen wanting it?

Can I hear no without abandoning myself?

Can I receive yes without shrinking?

Can I ask for more?

Because confidence isn't only something you think.

It's something you practice with your breath.

Your voice.

Your posture.

Your body.

Your choices.

Your words.

Science might call some of this interoception, self-efficacy and embodied learning.

I call it magic.

And we're going to practice activating yours.

Come play with your voice, your pleasure and your desires—and begin living a life where you're a whole lot less afraid to say what you fucking want.

Inside Velvet House, we call this work: Domme Your Life.

Class Details:

Date: Tuesday, August 25, 2026

Time: 6 PM PT / 9 PM ET

Duration: 1.5 Hours

Investment: $22 USD

Reserve your spot HERE

Location: Online. Sign up to gain access to the Zoom link.

If you are unable to make the class live, DM us to receive the class recording.

What to Expect:

  • First 1.5 hours: Lesson on dirty talk techniques.
  • 25 minutes: Practice and play in breakout groups.
  • Last 5 minutes: Group closing.

What to Bring:

  • Your intention
  • 2-3 specific desires
  • Pen/pencil
  • Notebook
  • Your radiant energy
  • An open mind

About the Educator

Cami Romero helps people break free from fear and shame so they can feel alive, embodied, and turned on by their own truth. With over a decade of experience as a sensuality and intimacy coach, she guides the shy, the self-critical, and the curious into confidence through voice, expression, and play. Holding a B.A. in Communication Studies and having traveled the world to research kink, sexuality, and cultural narratives, her work weaves education with transformation. Her masterclass is a soft landing for those who believe they’re too much—or not enough—to find their voice. Equal parts commanding domme and light-hearted tea fairy, Cami believes tea is a ritual of presence, a grounding place to meet ourselves before we speak our desires. In her world, eroticism and everyday moments dance—creating magic through contrast.

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