Diaper Debauchery | A KrINKles Diaper Event - A Diapers + Kink Play Party

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery...

This is a party where you can freely show up exactly as you are—diapered and kinky!

About This Event

Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful.

This is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all.

The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, aftercare and other forms of consensual exploration. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom.

While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation.

The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene conversations, especially for people meeting or negotiating play in the room.

Click here for more details on MITPISA

What to expect

7:30 PM | Doors Open

• The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after

arrival.

9 PM Brief check in & Rules

• Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to review the flow of the night, consent expectations, house rules, diaper etiquette, and how the space works
• if you arrive after this welcome, you are still welcome. A facilitator will give you the essential room agreements at check-in before you enter the play space

9:15 PM | Play Opens

• The party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace.
• You are welcome to socialize, cuddle, negotiate, watch, play, explore, discover, and move between social and play areas as you wish.

1AM Party Ends

The Vibe

• Separate social, cuddle, and play areas

• Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room.

• Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and exploration

(St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, Buzzy bench, floor beds, and more)

• A playful, queer-friendly room where Diapers and Kink can coexist with consent respect and care

What to Bring

• Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use.
• Diapers, outfits, buzzies, adult toys, and more
• lube or safer-sex supplies, if needed
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs.

Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️

This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating

relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play.

Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression.

This event has a facilitated welcome and a held container, but the play itself is self-led. The facilitator supports the room, reviews expectations, and helps maintain the container, but does not manage individual scenes or interactions.

Everyone attending is responsible for their own negotiations, boundaries, choices, consent, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

Diaper Debauchery is grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, respect, communication, and care shape the experience.

Location + Entry

The Sanctuary of East Harlem

113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Enter through the door to the right of Forno on 125th. Look for 113 in the window above.

Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility |No elevator. 20 steps total.

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery.

Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Tickets 🎟️

$20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Partner Tickets (2)

For Advanced tickets, Click HERE.

Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal)

A look at The Sanctuary Of East Harlem

Each event is set up to match the energy and purpose of the night. For DIAPER DEBAUCHERY, the space is arranged to support connection, negotiation, and self-led scenes. A separate social and play space, while also equipped with a changing area.

Diaper Debauchery Terms Explained

BDSM, ABDL, & Other terms that need a definition can be seen here.

• ABDL: an umbrella term often used for adults who enjoy diapers, age play, little space, caregiving dynamics, or related forms of comfort, play, and identity expression.
• Diaper play: Consensual play or expression involving diapers, which may be comforting, playful, erotic, identity-based, sensory, or part of a negotiated dynamic.
• Kink expression: The way someone explores, shares, or embodies their kink interests, desires, roles, style, or identity. At Diaper Debauchery, kink expression is not limited to diapers. It may include diapers and chastity, pup or pet play, furry expression, rope and bondage, rubber, gear, sensation, power exchange, caregiving energy, or other forms of consensual exploration.
• Scene: An agreed-upon exchange between people, discussed ahead of time with clear boundaries, consent, expectations, and aftercare.
• Negotiation: The conversation before play where people talk through interests, limits, roles, safety needs, intensity, and aftercare.
• Boundaries: The personal limits and needs someone communicates before or during play, including what is welcome, what is not, and what must stop if crossed.
• MITPISA: The Kink Collective’s consent and negotiation framework, designed to help people talk through interests, boundaries, safety needs, intensity, and aftercare before play begins.
• Voyeurism: consensual watching or being watched. Watching does not mean participation, and participation should never be assumed.
• Group play: consensual play involving more than two people, with clear negotiation, boundaries, and agreement from everyone involved.
• Aftercare: the care, grounding, rest, or connection someone may need after play to help their body and emotions settle.
• Consent: a clear, informed, and ongoing agreement between people. Consent can be changed, paused, or withdrawn at any time.