🎃 ENM & Poly Halloween Mixer | San Francisco

A little spooky, a little playful, and a whole lot of connection.

Join us for a Halloween costume party for polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous people to make friends, meet new faces, and enjoy an evening of community.

If you’ve been curious about meeting people in the scene but feel a little shy about walking into an event, this is a welcoming place to start. Come solo, with a partner, or with friends. There’s room for you whether you’re new to ENM or have been exploring it for years.

👻 What’s happening?

Expect structured games to help get conversations flowing, time to mingle, and a best dressed competition. Bring your spooky, silly, glamorous, or wonderfully weird costume and give us something to scream about!

🎃 Connect at your own pace

Everyone will receive a wristband to help communicate what they’re looking for that evening:

1. Friendship & curiosity: Here to meet people and build community, without dating or flirting.
2. Open to flirting: Happy to explore a little chemistry alongside new connections.

You can take one of each and switch throughout the night if your mood changes. There’s no pressure to flirt, and friendship is every bit as welcome.

This is a social event, not a play party.

We’ll begin with a brief welcome covering consent and boundaries. A wristband signals openness to conversation or flirting; it never replaces asking, listening, and respecting someone’s answer.

✨ Meet your facilitator

Your host is Polly Mae, ENM & Poly educator and relationships coach, visiting San Francisco from Australia. Having hosted ENM and poly community events before, Polly brings experience helping people break the ice and connect. She’ll guide the games and help you settle in, especially if you’re arriving solo or feeling a little nervous.

📍 Folsom Community Center, San Francisco

🕗 Planned time: 8–11 pm, subject to confirmation

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More details coming soon...