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๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ฌ๐’“๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ท๐’๐’‚๐’š๐’ˆ๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’… ๐Ÿ‘„ ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ with ๐‘ด๐’Š๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’†๐’ ๐‘ด๐’„๐‘ซ๐’๐’๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐Ÿ”ฎโœจ

๐‘ฐ๐’ ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š ๐’•๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’š ๐’•๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰. ๐‘จ๐’๐’… ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š ๐’Ž๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’š ๐’Ž๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•.

๐‘บ๐’‚๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ is an exploration of infusing your touch with ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’„. Where the simplest little touch in just the right spot elicits oohs and ahhs and "How did you know?!"s. Where it's not a matter of following instructions, but deepening your ๐’†๐’“๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’–๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’. Where it's not a matter of experience, but of ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”. โœจ

This hands-on class and temple space are an invitation to learn new ways of navigating ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’”๐’–๐’‚๐’ ๐’„๐’๐’๐’๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’. Unlike other touch classes this isn't about learning techniques โ€“ it's about leveraging ๐’„๐’๐’๐’”๐’„๐’Š๐’๐’–๐’” ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” and ๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ โ€“ the 'X factor' that can turn even the most mundane of techniques, like a hand on the back, into an ๐’†๐’๐’†๐’“๐’ˆ๐’†๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐’‚๐’…๐’—๐’†๐’๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’†. ๐Ÿ”ฎ

It is through ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” that our touch becomes sacred. Whether fast or slow, big or small, exotic or basic, social or sexy โ€“ ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’Œ๐’†๐’š.

โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•โ•

We will be exploring the ๐‘ญ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ณ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’๐’” ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰:

โœจ ๐‘ฎ๐‘น๐‘ถ๐‘ผ๐‘ต๐‘ซ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฎ โ€“ The solid ground of ๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’†๐’๐’„๐’†, no agenda, stillness, and safety. Where every touch is the only touch, and there's nowhere to get to, and all experiences are welcome.

โœจ ๐‘ฉ๐‘ถ๐‘ต๐‘ซ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฎ โ€“ The mutuality of ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’–๐’๐’†๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•, ๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’†, nervous system regulation, belonging and being together. The dance of listening to each other, relationship, and ๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’”๐’•. The infinite cuddle.

โœจ ๐‘ฌ๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘น๐‘ฎ๐‘ฌ๐‘ป๐‘ฐ๐‘ช โ€“ The use and following of ๐’”๐’–๐’ƒ๐’•๐’๐’† ๐’†๐’๐’†๐’“๐’ˆ๐’š, ๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’–๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’, exploration, and experimentation. Touch as play, as healing, as being in service to energy that wants to move and mysteries that want to unfold.

โœจ ๐‘ฌ๐‘น๐‘ถ๐‘ป๐‘ฐ๐‘ช โ€“ The sharing, following, and directing of ๐’”๐’†๐’™๐’–๐’‚๐’ ๐’†๐’๐’†๐’“๐’ˆ๐’š, where ๐’‘๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’–๐’“๐’† and ๐’…๐’†๐’”๐’Š๐’“๐’† are both the way and an end in themselves.

These layers aren't separate modes, they complement and build on each other. The secret of ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ is that it's not just about touch: It's about ๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’†๐’๐’„๐’†. It's about ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’–๐’๐’†๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•. It's about ๐’„๐’๐’๐’”๐’†๐’๐’•. It's about following the intelligence of energy. This class has been impactful both for people new to sensual touch and for veteran erotic practitioners. ๐Ÿ’ซ

The flow of the class is that we will move through many partnered exercises, encouraging rotation, as we explore each layer of touch โ€“ each of which builds on the previous layers.

Everything is an ๐’Š๐’๐’—๐’Š๐’•๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’‚๐’ ๐’๐’ƒ๐’๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’. And each layer of the teaching adds its own layer of consent within the practices as well. ๐Ÿ™

After the class we will open up the container into a ๐’”๐’†๐’„๐’๐’๐’…-๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’”๐’† ๐’•๐’†๐’Ž๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐’”๐’‘๐’‚๐’„๐’† for continuing to explore sensual touch and subtle energy. 'Second-base' means that bottoms stay on, and no lingering genital touch.

๐‘บ๐’‚๐’„๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐‘ป๐’๐’–๐’„๐’‰ isn't about getting somewhere, but rather about allowing yourself to be ๐’๐’๐’–๐’“๐’Š๐’”๐’‰๐’†๐’… and ๐’ˆ๐’–๐’Š๐’…๐’†๐’…. It is at times settling, at times healing, at times incredibly hot. ๐Ÿ”ฅ

๐Ÿชท Attending options

Attend on your own, bring a partner, or come with trusted friends for meaningful play and connection.

Couples are welcome to explore together throughout the evening. Solo men may find the experience richer when bringing a female-identified friend or date to support group balance.

Whether you're discovering sensual play again for the first time or deepening existing skills, this nurturing environment offers both structure and spaciousnessโ€”an opportunity to learn, grow, and engage at whatever pace feels right.

We ask that all participants arrive and stay fully present and sober for the duration.

๐Ÿชท About Michael โœจ

Michael McDonald is a Transformational Coach and passionate explorer of subtle sexuality, embodiment, and healing. With over 15 years of experience, he brings a rich blend of relational facilitation, Luminous energy healing, neo-tantra, and spiritual clarity, creating profound spaces for exploration, consent, and deep connection.

Michael is the founder of Relational Alchemy, the art of creating an unusual amount of intimacy with people, since 2011. He teaches spiritual grounding through his online Insight Salon/Mastermind series, has been a regular facilitator every year at FireLight, and is the co-lead for culture of Naked Heart camp at Burning Man. He has been teaching Sacred Touch in this format since 2024.

Website: https://authenticintegrity.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelek

Email: michael@authenticintegrity.com

Join the Relational Alchemy announcements group on Whatsapp:

https://chat.whatsapp.com/HMwjHrSSe8m3rl631GrHYB?s=cl&p=i&ilr=4

"Michael is a master of his craft and has discovered a unique formula for understanding the ways to touch and be touched! This workshop will give you new insights and lots of juicy practice." ~Victoria

"I attended Michael's workshop about the four levels of touch and found it transformative. As someone who went into the workshop lacking sensual confidence, I was put at ease thanks to Michael's grace and grew personally thanks to Michael's expertise in the intricacies of interpersonal attunement." ~Jeremy

๐Ÿชท Time & Schedule

โฐ 7:00pm Arrival & mingling

๐Ÿšช 7:30pm Doors close, workshop begins (sensual/second base)

๐ŸŽญ 9:30pm Transition to open play space (sensual/second base)

๐ŸŒ™ 12:30am Closing circle

โœจ 1:00am The End

๐Ÿชท TICKETS

Please get your tickets to let us know you will be joining us for this very special event. Make sure to ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’”๐’‘๐’๐’• ๐’“๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’š as we always fill up. ๐ŸŽซ

๐Ÿ‘‰If you are a solo man we encourage you to help us create ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“ ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†! Invite a female friend to join you.

Please only come if you have a ticket, otherwise you might be turned away at the door, which is never fun. ๐Ÿšช

๐Ÿชท Gratitude and Acknowledgments about THE EROTIC PLAYGROUND & Philippeโ€™s events

"What an amazing night!!! I love feeling soo in my element, so safe and so turned on all at once. Thanks everyone for being so luscious and real, and big gratitude to Philippe and the whole crew who made it happen!โ€ ~ Leslie

โ€œWow, I am still gently floating back down to this dimension of consciousness. Wow wow wow. [...] I felt nervous about going to a space where I didn't know a ton of people, and feeling the usual apprehensiveness of how I'll be received as a trans woman in a new, cis-leaning community. from the opening ritual onwards, I've never felt more at home, more myself, more easefully confident than on that night.โ€ ~Jem

"I echo so many of the sentiments that have been shared in gratitude to you and the hosts, and also this: the communication that you offered before, during, and after the event was beyond touching to me. [...] I noticed from our very first contact the care and precision that you use in all of your words. ~Alise

๐Ÿชท Staying in Touch

๐Ÿ’ฌ ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ฌ๐’“๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ท๐’๐’‚๐’š๐’ˆ๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’… ๐‘จ๐’๐’๐’๐’–๐’๐’„๐’†๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•๐’” WhatsApp

Learn + play: Sexy workshops followed by free exploration

https://chat.whatsapp.com/JzdMIh8LKmOBONcyhDoKH7

๐Ÿ’Œ ๐‘ท๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’Š๐’‘๐’‘๐’† & ๐‘ฌ๐’™๐’’๐’–๐’Š๐’”๐’Š๐’•๐’† ๐‘ณ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐‘จ๐’๐’๐’๐’–๐’๐’„๐’†๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•๐’” WhatsApp

A wider variety of events by Philippe including workshops, play events, & retreats

https://chat.whatsapp.com/JzdMIh8LKmOBONcyhDoKH7

๐Ÿชท Volunteering

Our needs for volunteers are fairly light for this kind of event. If funds are truly tight for you and you would still really love to join us, please DM Philippe on WhatsApp (+14155050786) ๐Ÿ™

๐Ÿชท Cancellations

๐‘ช๐’๐’๐’”๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’Š๐’” ๐’„๐’“๐’–๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’ to us, and so we are happy to offer refunds up until 24h before the event โœ…

๐Ÿชท Location & Parking

๐Ÿ“ The address in Oakland will be shared with your ticket confirmation via email.

๐Ÿš— Street parking only. Please follow parking directions precisely. Please don't leave any valuables in your car.

๐Ÿชท What to Wear

We strongly suggest that you ๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’„๐’„๐’‚๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’. In our experience, those who do tend to have more fun and an easier time connecting with others. Here are some suggestions for what to wear: โœจ

- Outfits that make you feel ๐’‡๐’–๐’, ๐’”๐’†๐’™๐’š, ๐’‘๐’๐’‚๐’š๐’‡๐’–๐’, ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’„๐’‚๐’, ๐’”๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’Œ๐’๐’š โœจ

- Outfits that are comfortable and make you want to move and play in ๐Ÿ’ƒ

- Outfits that will have people say "oooooh, I love your outfit!" ๐Ÿ˜

- Outfits that offer ๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’š ๐’‚๐’„๐’„๐’†๐’”๐’” to skin or is easily removed

We discourage outfits that shed like feather boas, and outfits that get caught on other people like wings and headdresses. ๐Ÿšซ

This is a ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’†-๐’‡๐’“๐’†๐’† ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’๐’•. Please text/WhatsApp Philippe (+14155050786) if you absolutely need to wear shoes for any reason. ๐Ÿ‘ฃ

๐Ÿชท What to Bring

๐Ÿ’ง Water bottle

๐Ÿ‘— Comfortable outfits to kiss and roll around and play in, the sort of clothing that gives ๐’†๐’‚๐’”๐’š ๐’‚๐’„๐’„๐’†๐’”๐’” (or can be easily removed to give access) to bare skin.

๐ŸŽญ Any erotic toys you want to use (and know how to use) (though keep in mind that there is no genital touch for this event)

๐Ÿ›๏ธ A sheet or splash blanket to put under your body for massage if you want.

๐Ÿชท Food

๐ŸŽ We will be serving healthy, delicious snacks, and coffee/tea all night to keep you energized. Feel free to bring your own favorite snacks, drinks, and food if you need something in particular.

๐Ÿชท What is The Erotic Playground?

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ฌ๐’“๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ท๐’๐’‚๐’š๐’ˆ๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’… is a themed erotic learning space where we begin the night with a ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’Œ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’‘ aligned with the evening's theme. This opening segment offers ๐’•๐’๐’๐’๐’”, ๐’Š๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’•๐’”, ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’Š๐’๐’”๐’‘๐’Š๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ to support participants in exploring the nuances of erotic play. ๐ŸŽช

After the workshop, there is plenty of time for ๐’–๐’๐’”๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’„๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐’‘๐’๐’‚๐’šโ€”an invitation to deepen into what was just learned or follow your own thread of curiosity. It's a playground for ๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‚๐’„๐’š, ๐’„๐’๐’๐’๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’”๐’–๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š, and, for some events, sexualityโ€”all within a container of ๐’๐’‘๐’†๐’๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐’”๐’‚๐’‡๐’†๐’•๐’š, ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’‚๐’–๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’†๐’™๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’. ๐ŸŒˆ

Missteps and accidents are a normal part of the learning. This is a space where ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’†๐’”๐’• ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’Œ๐’†๐’” ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’˜๐’†๐’๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’†โ€”as long as we remain present and available for ๐’‚๐’‡๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’†, ๐’…๐’†๐’ƒ๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’‡๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’“๐’†๐’‘๐’‚๐’Š๐’“ ๐’„๐’๐’๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”. ๐Ÿ’š

Read more about the ๐‘ฝ๐’‚๐’๐’–๐’†๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘ช๐’–๐’๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’† of The Erotic Playground: https://tinyurl.com/3xxnj6yh

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