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Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group

ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP

This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (ENM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly...)

Struggles in ENM relationships often grow out of unclear expectations, passive communication, and a resistance to being accountable for your own emotions. This group is intended to be a resource for understanding and participating in these lifestyles from an emotionally healthy lens, for exorcising mononormative cultural conditioning, and ultimately engaging in personal growth. Expect to be challenged on issues of codependence, boundaries v rules, radical honesty, and others.

This Week's Topic

TBD

YOUR HOSTS

JnPplay

Patty and Jon have been navigating the wild, wonderful world of Ethical Non-Monogamy for 30 years—and they’re here to share the ups, downs, and all the juicy in-betweens! Married for 28 years and currently thriving in a poly quad, they’ve explored everything from polyamory to swinging to BDSM with an open heart and a healthy dose of curiosity.

Patty, who’s diving into the depths of psychology, loves unpacking relationship dynamics and the magic of meaningful connections. Jon is equally passionate about fostering trust, communication, and an inclusive space where people can be their most authentic selves. Together, they support sex positivity, LGBTQIA+ advocacy, and the belief that honesty, respect, and a dash of fun make for the best conversations.

Whether you’re new to ENM or a seasoned adventurer, their discussion group is a judgment-free zone where real talk happens, insights are shared, and laughter is always welcome. Come join the conversation, swap stories, and celebrate the beautiful, unconventional paths that make life exciting!

WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK?

House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community.

House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Clubwhich features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more!

House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot.

CONTACT US

Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions.

Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info:

First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental?

(We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+)

Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours?

Which Room(s) or Whole Facility?

What is the Purpose of Your Rental?

How did you hear about House of Black?

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