🖤👄 F*** Like a Pro: Deep Inside

A Workshop & After Hours

Go deeper. Find your rhythm. Change the way you experience connection.

The F* Like a Pro** series continues with a deep dive into internal pleasure, body awareness, movement, and the art of creating connection through intentional sensation.

This workshop explores internal stimulation across bodies, genders, anatomy, and preferences—because there is no single right way to experience pleasure, and there is certainly no single way to have sex.

We’ll look beyond the traditional “baseball model” of sex and explore how we can queer up our sex by expanding what intimacy, pleasure, penetration, and connection can mean. (Meant for all sexual orientations, we use Queer as an expansion which can work for all)

Level up your touch and refine your bedroom game in this unique event hosted by 2 long time Pros with a collective 38 years in the industry of intimate pleasure! Learn skills for both home and at parties!

Immerse yourself in a Pagans Paradise Signature exclusive offering: a themed gathering blending connection, education, and demonstrations hosted by Dominus Eros and Alana

EVENT DETAILS

💜 Workshop Doors Open: 7:00 PM (doors close at 7:10 PM sharp)

💜 After Hours: 10 PM

💜 Location: Near Union Square - Full address provided in your confirmation email

💜Accessibility: Note this location is a walk-up.

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the After Hours to practice what you learned and/or meet other like-minded folks!

What to Expect

💜Communication

Great sex starts before anyone touches anyone.

We’ll explore how to name what you want, communicate what you need, and create experiences that aren't dictated by a predetermined sexual script.

Together we'll examine:

• Naming desires, boundaries, and curiosities
• Moving beyond the traditional escalation model of sex
• Creating your own definition of satisfying sex
• Asking for what you want—and learning how to listen
• Exploring giving, receiving, switching, and changing roles

💜 Anatomy & Pleasure Mapping

Understanding the body gives us more possibilities to explore it.

We’ll look at primary, secondary, and tertiary erogenous zones and discuss how different bodies can experience internal sensation, including the G, C, and P areas.

Rather than treating anatomy as a roadmap with one destination, we'll explore how pressure, angle, movement, arousal, context, and individual anatomy all influence sensation.

💜 Positions, Angles & Mobility

Sometimes the difference between almost and wow is simply position.

We’ll explore how body positioning, mobility, strength, flexibility, leverage, and angles can change the experience for everyone involved.

You'll also learn ways to think about positioning as a shared movement practice rather than simply finding “the right position.”

💜 Strap Play

Strap play isn't about the size of the toy—it's about presence, confidence, connection, and how you use it.

We'll cover the basics of different strap-on setups, fit and comfort, body mechanics, and ways to feel confident stepping into the role regardless of your body or experience level.

Big Dick Energy is an attitude, not a measurement.

💜 Flow Mechanics

Good technique isn't just about what you do. It's about how you move between things.

We'll explore rhythm, pacing, teasing, anticipation, transitions, and creating a sense of flow rather than simply moving from one technique to another.

We'll also look at how different forms of sensation can be layered together—hands, toys, breath, sound, movement, and other forms of touch—to create more dynamic experiences.

💜 Hands & Internal Connection

We'll explore the role of hands in creating internal sensation, with an emphasis on communication, comfort, body awareness, positioning, and responsive touch.

The goal isn't simply to learn techniques—it's to understand how to listen with your hands and adapt to the person you're connecting with.

💜 Quality of Connection

Pleasure doesn't exist separately from relationship and intention.

What flavor of connection are you creating?

Possessive. Loving. Worshipful. Service-oriented. Playful. Intense. Devotional. Objectifying.

We'll explore how intention and dynamic can completely change the same physical experience—and how to consciously create the kind of connection you actually want.

💜 Kegels & Pelvic Awareness

What are pelvic floor exercises, how do they work, and what can they add to your intimate experiences?

We'll discuss pelvic floor awareness, basic Kegel exercises, relaxation versus contraction, and how developing greater awareness of these muscles can influence sensation, control, and connection. Last Longer!

💜 Breath & Sound

Your breath and voice are part of the experience.

We'll explore how breath, vocalization, rhythm, and sound can amplify sensation, communicate without words, build connection, and help keep you embodied rather than getting lost in your head.

✨ Benefits of the Workshop

This class is about expanding your possibilities—not chasing a single outcome.

You may discover ways to:

• Build confidence and body awareness
• Improve communication with partners
• Develop greater control and endurance
• Experience more intensity and satisfying sensation
• Create stronger rhythm and flow
• Deepen genuine connection with your partners
• Become more attuned to giving and receiving pleasure
• Expand your definition of what satisfying sex can look like
• Lasting longer, learning how to enjoy the journey and not racing to or focusing on the "end" release!

💜Q&A For The Pros

With a combined pro exp of 38 years and lots of personal fun times, the opportunity to bring your best questions is one not to miss. Come in prepared to pick our brains and other areas as well ;p

💜 After Hours

After the workshop, stay for After Hours—an opt-in space to socialize, connect, and explore the concepts from class in a relaxed environment.

You can participate, practice communication, experiment with movement and connection, or simply observe and enjoy the energy of the room.

As always, participation is entirely optional. There is no expectation to pair up, touch anyone, or participate in any activity. Come with a partner, come solo, or come simply to learn.

Deep inside isn't just about going deeper.

It's about becoming more connected to what you're feeling, what you're asking for, and what you're creating together.

Every component of the evening is Opt-In, you only do what you feel you are able to do. You can choose to just listen and observe. We do not force pairing people, only participate if that is a desire. Non-Sex Based Workshop.

WHAT TO WEAR/BRING

💜Comfortable attire—anything from casual wear to something playful or kinky!

💜A water bottle to stay hydrated.

💜A notepad or journal for personal reflections.

💜Any toys you would to use.

ABOUT US

At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.

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📧 Any questions or concerns? Email us at PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com.

Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.

The space is inclusive, welcoming, and consent-driven.

All genders, orientations, and experience levels are welcome.

Join the event chat, and connect with people before: https://plra.io/m/org/pagans-paradise

COSTS

General Admission: Workshop Only - $40

General Admission: Workshop and After Hours $75

Paired Tickets good for 2: Workshop Only $70

Paired Tickets good for 2: Workshop and After Hours $135

LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available. No Refunds for this event. Event is open to all, age 18+.

IMPORTANT NOTICE

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.

Pagans Paradise upholds Plura's community guidelines, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.