Fremont, Union City, Newark, Hayward Munch

Welcome to all kinky, curious, and community-minded people in the Fremont, Union City, Newark, and Hayward area! Let’s come together, make connections, build friendships, and create a welcoming local community. Whether you’re experienced, brand new, or just looking to meet like-minded people, you are welcome here.

This is a brand-new munch for an area that could really benefit from more community and connection. Some friendships may stay friendships, some may grow into play partnerships or FWBs, but the focus is on meeting good people in a relaxed, respectful environment.

The location has not been finalized yet. Please RSVP by emailing lm@bayareablindmom.com. The address will be sent the night before the event. We’ll most likely meet at a restaurant in Fremont, but if anyone has suggestions for good meetup spots, please feel free to share them!

What is a munch?

A munch is a casual, non-play social gathering for people interested in kink, BDSM, alternative relationships, and related communities. Munches are usually held in public places like restaurants or cafés and are focused on conversation, community, and getting to know people in a low-pressure environment. No play or scenes happen at a munch—it’s simply a chance to meet others, make friends, ask questions, and connect with the community.