Hussy

The Gay Barn is taking over the back room at Peacock PDX for HUSSY, our newest sexy, kinky play party for dykes and the queers who love them!

With more privacy in the back room, we're letting loose at Peacock in a space by us, for us. Socialize and cruise by the bar, and see what the night brings for you in our pop-up dungeon in the back.

The Gay Barn provides: safer sex materials including gloves, condoms, and chucks (pads); impact toys and restraints; two St. Andrew's crosses and a spanking bench, plus some very sexy air mattresses; and privacy screens to create a dyke-centered play space!

Please note, the (gay) bar is open to the public but the back room is for our guests only, no looky-loos allowed. Hussy is ABCD (Anyone But Cis Dudes).

Note: The Gay Barn's events are exclusively for dykes, lesbians, and dyke-adjacent homos who are 21 and older. TERFs, SWERFs, and zesty straights need not apply. We do not tolerate racism, transphobia, or fatphobia at our events! No cis men at Hussy, please!

Learn more about The Gay Barn and our upcoming events at TheGayBarn.com.

If you are a person of color and need a ticket discount code, please email us at TheGayBarn@proton.me.

HUSSY RULES:

• Get consent before making physical contact with anyone (sexual or non-sexual).
• Before playing, all parties must give enthusiastic consent. Being able to say no is just as important as being able to say yes. Know your yes’s, boundaries and limits, and communicate them.
• Do not pressure, or try to convince anyone to do something they do not give an enthusiastic yes to.
• Before playing, check-in with your partner(s) about your STI risk status and the utilization of safer sex materials.
• Only engage in play in the back room. Do not play in the bar area or the bathroom (these spaces are open to the public).
• No photography of any kind in the playspace. Only take photos in the bar area with the full consent of everyone involved, including anyone in the background.
• No bodily fluids on the furniture! Use a towel or the chuck pads provided.
• Clean and wipe down surfaces with a disinfectant wipe and/or alcohol spray after use.
• Do not police or question anyone's gender identity, sexual orientation, or other identity.
• We ask that you not engage in play around/containing racism, homophobia, or transphobia.
• Be respectful of the space. No smoking, incense, art supplies, glitter, food play, messy play, open fire (i.e. no wax), or silicone lube. Water-based lube is provided.
• No choking or breath play.
• No piss, scat, vomit, or blood play.
• Be respectful when watching a scene to not disturb the people playing. Do not interrupt anyone’s scene unless there is a genuine and immediate safety concern. Never join a scene without an explicit invitation.
• Should you feel triggered by a scene, please seek care for yourself. If you anticipate that you will need extra emotional support or someone to process your feelings with, make arrangements with a friend who knows you outside of the event that you can call or message if needed.
• Please no processing, personal emotional drama, or whining about disappointments allowed in the designated play party spaces. Consider how your energy affects others and respect the intention and vibes of the play space.
• If something appears to be unsafe or non-consensual, alert The Gay Barn, a DM, or bar staff immediately.
• Don’t forget to seek out your enthusiastic yes’s! Do what feels authentically right for you in the moment - and not what you think you should be doing, or what you think other people think you should be doing. Put yourself out there and try to make things happen - but don’t take it personally if this isn’t the right time/place for a certain scene. If you came in with a very specific goal that remains elusive, be open to new possibilities of fun you had not planned for!
• Use substances responsibly! The rules of consent always apply, and intoxication negates consent. We trust you all to take care of yourselves, and each other.
• The Gay Barn is in charge and is ultimately responsible for the space. Follow their directions as well as these rules. Anyone who violates these rules or does not follow directions may be asked to leave. Also follow any directions or rules from Peacock staff and ownership.