Impact Men

IMPACT MEN | Men’s BDSM Play Party

Impact. Bondage. BDSM. Men playing with men.

IMPACT MEN is a Saturday afternoon BDSM play party for men who want to connect, negotiate, and play with other men.

Impact is at the center of the room, with bondage, restraint, rope, sensation, and other forms of BDSM play welcome. Play can be light or heavy, slow or intense, technical or primal. You decide how you want to play.

THE EXPERIENCE

Expect a space equipped for impact and BDSM play, including floggers, paddles, canes, straps, crops, rope, cuffs, restraints, benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, suspension points, and more.

This is also a room where men are encouraged to let their bodies respond. Moan. Yell. Scream. Cry. Breathe.

There is no prize for taking impact silently.

WHO IT'S FOR

Top. Bottom. Switch. Dominant. Submissive. Experienced. Curious.

IMPACT MEN welcomes men who already know what they enjoy and men who are still figuring it out.

Top doesn't automatically mean Dominant. Bottom doesn't automatically mean submissive. A Dominant can bottom. A submissive can Top. A switch can do either. And you don't need to use any of those labels at all.

No partner required.

HOW THE AFTERNOON FLOWS

3:00 PM — Doors Open

Arrive, settle in, meet other men, and get comfortable in the space.

3:45 PM — Rules + Introductions

A brief welcome, consent and play expectations, followed by introductions.

4:00 PM — Open Play

Connect, negotiate, and play. The room remains open for BDSM and impact play for the rest of the afternoon.

9:00 PM — Party Ends

COME READY TO PLAY

Bring the implements and gear you enjoy using. Wear whatever lets you comfortably participate in the kind of play you're looking for.

Most importantly, communicate what you want. Introduce yourself. Ask men what they're into. Negotiate before you play. Respect boundaries and pay attention to the person in front of you.

You don't need to wait for someone else to create your afternoon. Connect. Ask. Negotiate. Play.

18+ | Men of all orientations | Newcomers welcome

Tickets: $30 Solo | $50 Partners (2)

Studio125

113 East 125th Street, New York, NY

Second floor • Approximately 20 steps • No elevator

For complete event information, community guidelines, MITPISA negotiation resources, and what to expect:

Full IMPACT MEN details at Studio125

WANT TO BUILD YOUR SKILLS FIRST?

IMPACT 101: Flogging Fundamentals runs from 1:00–3:00 PM immediately before the party. It's a separate, hands-on class with separate admission for men who want to learn or strengthen their impact skills.