Welcome to IMPULSE NYC!

IMPULSE NYC is a gay men’s kink and pleasure play party built around erotic touch, restraint, impact, edging, orgasm control, rope, bondage, power exchange, and negotiated scenes.

IMPULSE NYC is a gay men’s kink and pleasure play party built around erotic touch, restraint, impact, edging, orgasm control, CBT, rope, bondage, power exchange, and negotiated scenes.

Built for gay, bi, queer, and trans men, IMPULSE is not a mixed-gender party.

This is not a sex party, however, sexual play may happen

when negotiated into a scene, but the focus is kink, pleasure, sensation,

control, and connection through play.

This is not a social with furniture in the background.

The play spaces are meant to be used, with benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more.

IMPULSE is self-led. Attendees are responsible for their own choices, negotiations, boundaries, scenes, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene conversations, especially for people meeting or negotiating play in the room.

Click here for more details on MITPISA

🎟️ Tickets:

$30 Solo (1)

$50 Partners Ticket (2)

Click here to pre-register and get your ticket online

What to Expect

8PM Doors Open

Entry Payment, Rules, & Ettiquite

1. Pay online or at the door
2. Read over Rules, Consent, and Ettiquite protocol
3. Explore the space

• Arriving late? You are still welcome!

The Entry process is the same no matter what time you arrive

The social lounge is open for conversation, connection, grounding, and pre-scene negotiation before play begins

EARLY Arrival discount...

• Arrive between 7 - 8PM
• Pay At The Door VIA CASH, VENMO, ZELLE, CASHAPP, ETC
• Receive $10 off your ticket

After 8PM tickets resume normal pricing

9:00 PM | The Room Opens

• Naturally as connecitons are being made in the lounge area,

you are free to begin enjoying the night.

• Gain Consent, Negotiate, Play, Hook-Up, Connect...
• Move between the lounge and active play spaces at your own pace.

1 AM | Party Ends

The Space

IMPULSE a uses both the social and active play areas.

Socializing, conversations, grounding, and aftercare happen in the lounge.

Kink, BDSM, Erotic Play and Active Play Scenes happen in the degnated play areas.

Attendees are responsible for their own choices, negotiations, boundaries, scenes, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

Expect:A dark, masculine, erotic forward environment where tension, desire, and control can build with consent and clarity

• Ambient lighting and immersive music

• Furnished stations for impact, restraint, bondage, and erotic play

(Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, a sling, St. Andrews Cross, and more)

What to Bring

• Implements, toys, gear, rope, safety gear etc
• lube, safer-sex supplies, or comfort items you plan to use.
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs.

Dress Code

Dress for the energy of the party.

• Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome.
• Nudity is allowed throughout the space.
• If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately.

The dress code isn't manditory for entry or to attend this party, you may show up any way that makes you comfortable and confident!

Meet Your Host

IMPULSE NYC is hosted by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective.

We are grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration.

Click here To read more about our Team,

The team holds the space, reviews expectations, supports the room, and

helps maintain the container.

We do not manage individual scenes, hookups, or sexual encounters.

Consent, respect, communication, and clear boundaries are required.

Everyone attending is responsible for their own negotiations, boundaries, choices, consent, safer-sex practices, and aftercare.

Location + Entry

Where: Studio125

Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Forno on 125th. Look for 113 in the window above.

• Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total.

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!.

Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

🎟️ Tickets:

$30 Solo (1)

$50 Partners Ticket (2)

Click here to pre-register and get your ticket online