PLAY: FOR YOUR RELATIONAL & EROTIC DESIRES
THIS IS AN INTRO TO LEVEL 1 (3 MONTHS)
SEPT 19 - DEC 19, IN SEBASTOPOL, CA (7TH COHORT)
YOU ARE:
- Seeking an embodied community of practice (we practice dance, energy skills, breaking life long reactive patterns, grief & eros ritual)
- An intimacy facilitator, therapist, embodiment guide, sacred space holder, or performing artist (or you aspire to be)
- Ready to heal your attachment system for deep healthy secure bonds
- Desiring to explore Dominance & submission as a spiritual path to grow your erotic power
- Energized by dancing & moving big energy 5+ hours a day
BENEFITS:
- Increase your embodied energy awareness
- Learn energetic armoring patterns (from Wilhelm Reich) that interrupt presence, access to eros, & secure attachment
- Grow competence to consistently shift from reactive pattern to presence (including noticing & interrupting co-dependence)
- Expand your body’s capacity to feel, organize, metabolize & exchange more energy (including grief, eros & desires)
- Cultivate receptivity for more spiritual, energetic & erotic aliveness in your body
- Grow emotional & erotic sovereignty that frees you to make more aligned relational choices
- Dismantle social conditioning around sex, power, kink & gender
- Connect more authentically & euphorically with your experience of gender
- Release shame & grief so your body can feel your true essence & desires
- Express your attachment, erotic, dominance & submission desires
- Explore dominance & submission through partner dance
- Distinguish who touch is for in the moment, refine how you play with sensation vs power
- Get to the root of what needs to heal to have secure attachment with yourself
- Build shame resilience & grace for receiving tender feedback from loved ones
- Grow secure attachment with loved ones & community
- Clarify your vision for your relationships & erotic life within these 3 months
- Bring your vision to life with community & 1:1 support
- Embody more love in erotic embodied dance community
- Experience your personal eros as a part of a larger collective embodiment of passion & liberation
WHAT DOES IT LOOK LIKE ?
https://vimeo.com/232932199
COHORT DATES
All applicants are required to attend 1 intro, if you have not already.
Intros
- Sat, Aug 1, 2 - 6 pm (Sebastopol)
- Sat, Aug 8, 2 - 6 pm (Oakland)
- Sat, Aug 22, 2 - 6 pm (Berkeley)
- Sat, Sept 5, 2 - 6 pm (Sebastopol)
- Or if you attend my Dominance & Submission workshops at Frequency, Firelight, SoulPlay, or Revel.
Immersion (Sebastopol)
- Sat, Sept 19, 2 - 7 pm
- Sat, Sept 26, 2 - 7 pm
- Sat, Oct 3, 2 - 7 pm
- Mon, Oct 5, 6:30 - 8:30 pm Relational Mapping (online, open to loved ones & community)
- Sat, Oct 10, 12:45 - 9 pm Grief Eros Ritual (open to community)
- Sat, Oct 17, 2 - 7 pm
- Sat, Oct 31, 2 - 7 pm
- Nov 14, 1 - 7 pm Deep Dive Weekend
- Nov 15, 1 - 7 pm Deep Dive Weekend
- Nov 21, 2 - 7 pm
- Dec 12, 2 - 11 pm Grad Party! (invite your loved ones)
- Dec 19, 2 - 7 pm
HOW TO JOIN PLAY
- Hold the dates in your calendar & budget for tuition
- Attend an intro
- Apply
- Select applicants will be invited to interview
- If you are invited to join, confirm your space with payment

FACILITATION TEAM
🏳️🌈 Z Griss (lead facilitator, they/them)
has guided dance for erotic liberation since 1999! Z is a relationship coach passionate about secure attachment, kink, & erotic embodied dance community. Z has been poly for 25+ years & loves supporting students to create the soul based relationships of their dreams. You may read the full bio here.
🏳️🌈 E Lowry (assistant, they/them)
a trauma informed kink explorer, an erotic energy channeler, & dancer who has been holding space for people on healing journeys for 20+ years.
🏳️🌈 We love teaching together & sharing from our experience as life & kink partners.