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JAMES BONDAGE: LICENSE TO KINK | FOLSOM SATURDAY AT THE KINK STORE

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Hosted by Danarama of Kink University and Two Knotty Boys!

On Folsom Saturday, get a view to a thrill in this fashion-forward, fantasy kink party with a glamorous, action-packed, James Bond theme. You'll step into a decadent world of spies, seductresses, villains, double agents, Dominants, submissives, femme fatales, leather daddies, latex assassins, glamorous henchpeople, queer Bond girls, Bond boys, Bond enbies, and everything in between.

Dress to kill in your finest tuxedos, stunning gowns, heart-stealing catsuits, non-descript uniforms, bikinis, gold body paint, or even just all black. Be creative — dress as your fantasy spy: black-tie secret agent, Bondage Bond, villainous mastermind, M, kinky Q, Money Penny, a vibrating-tentacled Octopussy, or whatever secret fantasy you've been hiding.

Kink Store's beautiful space will be transformed into a 007th heaven. Plenty of BONDage equipment will be available, or bring your own kinky accouterments. Discover and experience Kink Store's amazing gadgets and gear. Come with a spy who loves you, perform your Mistress's secret service, get your secrets beaten out of you (or sneak away with some fun new intimate secrets of your own).

Dress code enforced: no casual streetwear in the party space (cubbies and changing space available inside).

When in doubt, wear all black.

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About Your Host

A lifestyle Dom, performer, and BDSM educator for more than two decades, Danarama has taught at least a million people how to have better, safer, more creative sex and BDSM in the dungeon (or the bedroom). In addition to directing Kink University (Kink.com's educational site), he is a founder of the Two Knotty Boys, co-teaching workshops since 1999, and co-author of two best-selling rope bondage books (Showing You the Ropes and Back on the Ropes). He has rigged, directed, and performed in hundreds of instructional and hardcore fetish videos, including for several of Kink's other sites: The Upper Floor, The Training of O, and Public Disgrace. Danarama continues teaching BDSM and sex/intimacy classes online and at conferences worldwide.

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Play Party Guidelines & Rules

MUST READ BEFORE PARTICIPATING

Consent & Boundaries

Enthusiastic consent is required for all touch and play.

Never assume that someone's presence, participation, or proximity means they are available for interaction. When in doubt, ask. If you're uncertain whether you have received an enthusiastic yes, pause and check in.

Examples of enthusiastic consent:

“Can I give you a hug?” → “Yes! I'd love that!”

“Want to try ___ together?” → “Absolutely!”

Examples of unclear or non-enthusiastic consent:

“Can I hug you?” → “…sure, I guess.”

“Are you okay to continue?” → “Mmm, whatever.”

Pausing is always appropriate. A simple “Can we take a break and check in?” is enough.

Unsolicited comments, touching, or intrusion into someone's space are not permitted.

Spectating & Privacy

Spectating is only allowed with express consent. Do not lurk, hover, or watch someone's scene without first asking.

No photography or video during the play party. Phones must be put away.

Do not photograph or record other attendees.

Safer Space & Support

By entering the play space, you consent to being in a room where others may be engaging in sexual activity. You are always welcome to step out if something doesn't feel right. Staff and dungeon monitors will be present throughout the event to help maintain a safer, respectful environment.

If you need support, please find a staff member.

Protecting the Space

If using silicone or oil-based lubricants, please use a rubber sheet or protective barrier (waterproof throw, blanket, puppy pad, etc.). These products can permanently damage upholstery. We will have protective barriers available if needed, as well as Cavicide for disinfecting and isopropyl alcohol for removing lubricant residue.

After your scene: Clean and disinfect any surfaces that may have come into contact with fluids or lubricant.

Thank you for helping us protect and preserve this space for our community.

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KINK STORE EVENT CODE OF CONDUCT - By purchasing your ticket(s), you agree to comply with the entire CoC:

Golden Rules

Treat one another with kindness and respect.

Leave the space better than you found it.

Consent

Consent is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).

  • Never touch anyone without permission.
  • Negotiate all scenes in advance. No up-negotiation during play.
  • Do not assume anyone's presence implies availability.
  • Do not join or interrupt a scene without invitation.
  • If someone asks to be left alone, respect that immediately.
  • Obtain explicit consent before photographing or involving others in your scenes.

Privacy and Discretion

What happens here stays here. Treat all information about attendees and activities as confidential. Do not "out" anyone regarding their identity, orientation, kinks, or attendance.

Community Care

Don't yuck someone's yum. This means respecting that others may have different kinks, interests, and ways of expressing themselves. What isn't your thing may be someone else's joy. Keep negative reactions, comments, or judgments about others' consensual interests to yourself. This is an LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC-inclusive space. Everyone is expected to show up with respect and care for others. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for:

  • Discrimination or bias based on race, gender, sexuality, disability, or body size.
  • Harassment, intimidation, coercion, bullying, or unwanted advances.
  • Non-consensual behavior of any kind.
  • Misgendering, deadnaming, or invalidating anyone's identity.

Intoxicants & Altered States

We do not sell or serve alcohol at this venue.

We recognize that substances affect capacity to consent, and we prioritize everyone's safety. If you appear unable to give or receive clear consent, a host may check in with you privately. Continued concern may result in being asked to pause play or step outside. This is never a punishment, but a community care measure. Our priority is keeping everyone safe and able to enjoy the space.

Health and Hygiene

  • Please stay home if you are feeling sick or experiencing symptoms.
  • Be scent-aware: avoid heavy perfumes, colognes, or strongly scented products.
  • Be thoughtful and considerate of all bodily odors when attending and throughout events. Come prepared, as personal hygiene is your responsibility. If you need basic hygiene supplies, please ask a host.
  • Respect others' disclosed allergies or sensitivities.

Respect the Space

Treat staff, hosts, and the venue with care and courtesy. Return any equipment to its proper place and report any damage or safety concerns to a host immediately.

  • Wipe down any surfaces where fluid contact may have occurred.
  • If you need cleaning or disinfecting supplies, please ask a host.

Scenes and Play

  • Be mindful of those in active scenes or aftercare. Do not interrupt, crowd, or hover.
  • Respect established play areas, furniture, and equipment; ask a host before using anything unfamiliar.
  • Any play considered edge play must be disclosed in advance to event hosts. This includes rope suspension, any form of breath restriction, electrical play, and similar high-risk activities.
  • Allow adequate space between scenes and bystanders.

Safewords

Agree on safewords before any play begins.

  • "Red" or "Safeword" will immediately stop a scene. Alert hosts if necessary.
  • "Yellow" (or equivalent) indicates a limit or request to reduce intensity.
  • If verbal safewords are not possible, establish a clear nonverbal signal in advance. For example, three deliberate head shakes as a "no" signal, or dropping a held object.
  • Honoring a safeword is non-negotiable. Ignoring one is a serious violation.

Safer Sex

  • Communicate openly and honestly about STI status when relevant.
  • Safer sex supplies will be available when needed.
  • Respect others' safer sex boundaries and practices without question or pressure.

Safety Monitors & Dungeon Monitors

Dungeon Monitors (DMs) and hosts are here to support safety and consent. They have final say and may stop any scene. Please:

  • Inform DMs or hosts in advance of any edge or atypical play.
  • Follow their instructions promptly and without argument.
  • Seek them out immediately if you witness any consent violation.
  • Be patient; they may be attending to another matter.

Phones and Photography

No photography, video, or audio recording is permitted unless explicitly stated otherwise for a specific event. Keep your phone stored and screens dimmed in play areas. Violations of this policy are taken extremely seriously.

Aftercare

Aftercare is a vital part of responsible BDSM play. Check in with your play partners following a scene. Be mindful that aftercare needs vary; some may need space, others physical comfort, or time to decompress. Hosts may have a designated aftercare area or resources available. Please ask if you need support.

Newcomers & First-Timers

We welcome people who are new to events like this. If you're unsure about anything, ask a host. No question is too basic. We encourage experienced community members to be patient and welcoming mentors, not gatekeepers.

Concerns and Reporting

If you witness or experience a consent violation or safety concern, please speak with a host or event representative immediately. All reports will be handled with discretion and taken seriously. You will be believed and supported. You may also email dusty@kinkstore.com if you wish to remain anonymous. We are committed to accountability and learning.

Consequences for Violations

Violations of this code of conduct may result in:

  • A verbal warning from a host or DM.
  • Being asked to stop a scene or activity.
  • Being asked to leave the event immediately.
  • Being banned from future events.

Serious violations involving non-consent will result in immediate removal and may be reported to relevant community networks.

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Accessibility

We are committed to making Kink Store events as accessible and welcoming as possible.

The main floor entrance is wheelchair accessible. There is one step into the space; a built-in ramp provides easy access throughout. Please note that the upstairs loft area is not currently accessible to persons using wheelchairs or mobility devices. Both restrooms are ADA-compliant.

We welcome guests with all access needs and encourage you to reach out in advance so we can do our best to accommodate you. This includes communication access needs such as ASL or kink-friendly interpretation services, which typically require advance booking. Interpreters accompanying a guest are welcome at no additional charge in that capacity.

To request accommodations or ask about access, please contact us at events@kinkstore.com well in advance of the event.

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