Happy for your partner, jealous, or somewhere in between?

You can enjoy ENM and still feel insecure, confused or alone.

Perhaps you’re happy about one of your partner’s connections but uncomfortable about another. Maybe you’ve felt excited for them one day and unexpectedly jealous the next. Or hearing others talk about compersion leaves you wondering why it doesn’t come as easily to you.

Even when you know other poly people, it can be difficult to say, “I’m struggling with this,” especially if everyone else seems confident.

You deserve somewhere to explore your feelings without having to prove you’re good at non-monogamy.

Many cities have opportunities to meet other ENM people. Our Circle gives you a regular space to deepen those connections, talk honestly and build practical skills with a small group that gets to know you over time.

Whether you’re opening a relationship or have been practising polyamory for years, you’re welcome to bring the feelings you actually have.

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What we’ll explore

Through guided reflection and facilitated discussion, Jealousy, Compersion & Everything in Between explores:

- What jealousy can reveal about your needs, fears and circumstances.

- Why your feelings may change between partners, situations or moments.

- What can create conditions for more compersion and less jealousy.

- How jealousy and happiness for someone can coexist.

- How to make room for your emotions while choosing how you respond.

Perhaps your partner has a date planned and you want to feel happy for them, but you also need reassurance. Perhaps meeting their new connection brought up feelings you weren’t expecting. We’ll make space for these everyday experiences and the nuance within them.

Jealousy does not mean you are failing at ENM. You do not have to feel compersion to belong here.

Reflect, hear other perspectives and participate at your own pace. You can share openly or listen until you feel ready.

What you will take away

Our aim is for you to leave feeling understood, with practical ways to:

- Recognise what may sit underneath difficult feelings.

- Put your needs into words with greater clarity.

- Approach conversations about jealousy with more confidence.

- Respond thoughtfully when uncomfortable emotions arise.

- Accept your feelings without comparing yourself to someone else’s experience.

Alongside the learning, there’s room to laugh, share stories and meet people you can get to know beyond a single workshop.

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This Circle is a space for friendship, support and learning. It is not a dating or matchmaking event.

We welcome different relationship structures, identities and experiences. You can explore a difficult feeling without being judged for your relationship style or pressured to follow someone else’s approach.

This online community connects people worldwide through intimate, ongoing private groups.

More than one workshop

Your subscription gives you a place in an ongoing ENM & Poly Circle with weekly online sessions.

Every other week features a focused workshop. The weeks in between offer space for sharing, questions, connection and support, so you can return to what you’ve learned and talk about how it’s unfolding in your life.

Each private group has around 5 to 7 members, with a maximum of 9, giving everyone time to be heard and build trust. Facilitators bring lived ENM/Poly experience to structured, non-judgmental sessions.

Join from home in anywhere without adding a trip across the city to your evening.

Build confidence in your relationships while building friendships with people who get them.

Connections can continue outside the sessions through messages, phone calls and, where location and mutual interest allow, meeting in person.

All ENM relationship styles are welcome. Current members range from their 20s through their 70s.

Reduced rates are available for students and public servants, including teachers, nurses and social workers. Ask during your vetting call!

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Coming up on the curriculum

1. Jealousy, Compersion & Everything in Between: (Oct 18 - 22)

2. Meeting the Meta: (Nov 1 - 5)

3. Money Management in ENM & Polyamory: (Nov 15 -19)

4. How to Communicate in ENM & Polyamory: (Nov 29 - Dec 3)

5. Deconstructing Religion: (Dec 13 - 17)

6. Funny Story Time: (Dec 27 - 31)

These dates show each workshop week. Your session takes place on your group’s usual meeting day, with support and sharing weeks in between.

Vetting and confidentiality

Everyone completes a free vetting call and signs a confidentiality agreement before joining, helping protect privacy and establish respectful participation.

The call is a friendly conversation about your needs, availability and whether the Circle is a suitable fit.

It is not an attractiveness assessment or a test of your ENM knowledge. We welcome heart-centred, respectful people seeking genuine connection.

We agree to respect different relationship structures, allow nuanced conversation and honour one another’s boundaries.

How to join

1. Book your free vetting call to discuss your needs and availability.

2. Subscribe and join a suitable small group.

3. Meet weekly to learn, laugh and make ENM friends.

Sundays: 7 p.m. Eastern Time

Tuesdays: 8 p.m. Eastern Time

Times don’t suit? Reach out. New groups open regularly across different days and time zones.

Paid subscription: $17 per week for individuals or $24 per week for couples.

Groups: Sundays at 7 p.m. or Tuesdays at 8 p.m. Eastern Time.

Join online from anywhere!

The introductory vetting call is free.

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