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Hustle Matrimony: The Art of Making Time with JSJasmine & King Noire

RSVP: tinyurl.com/jsjkn

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Join real-life lovers and matrimonial hustlers, King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine, as they open up about how they keep the passion alive.

Does it feel like you and your partner can't often find "the right time" to be intimate? Are you scheduling your sex, or maybe just not having as much of it as you'd like?

Between shoots, jobs, deadlines, and diaper changes, they've had to get intentional about connection, and in this class, they're handing you the same tools they use.

One of the most common gaps between partners is timing: one of you is in the mood while the other's running on empty from work, the kids, or just life. It's no wonder intimacy keeps getting pushed to the next day, or the next day...

During a live demo, King and Jasmine will offer real tools for connection and worship with your partner, without a finish line rushing either of you toward the door. At the center of it all is communication: how they find their way back to each other, ask for what they want, and make space for desire instead of forcing it.

This is not your average "how to spice things up in the bedroom" class. This is Hustle Matrimony.

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Sometimes the spark you're looking for isn't found in your own bedroom, it's found by stepping outside of it. Trying something new, being in a room with other couples doing the same, and watching two people who've been together for years still choose each other- all of it can shake something loose that routine never will. That's exactly why tonight doesn't end when the class does...

When the class and live demo conclude, the night moves into the play portion of the evening. Jasmine and King will share an intimate moment together as the play party begins, and you're welcome to observe or start getting into the mood with your own partner right alongside them. If you came with a partner, this is your cue: stay and play.

Singles are welcome to attend the full event, from the class portion through the play party, with the following guidelines in place:

If you're here solo, you will not be engaging in any play. No solo masturbation, no trying to work your way into someone else's scene, and no negotiating with anyone to bring you in as a new partner for the evening. Solo attendees stay in the downstairs main space for the entirety of the play portion. Approaching couples, lingering close by, or hovering is not permitted. The downstairs space is for couples who are comfortable with being seen.

If you're a couple who wants more privacy, the loft area and private room upstairs are yours. This space is more secluded and is where you'll want to be if you'd rather not be watched. Solo attendees are not permitted upstairs at any point.

About Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire:

King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine are award-winning adult entertainers, filmmakers, sex educators, and co-founders of Royal Fetish Films, an independent Black-owned production company centered on ethical, cinematic, and culturally conscious erotic storytelling.

Their work explores pleasure, power, race, kink, relationships, and liberation while prioritizing consent, performer agency, and authentic representation. Jasmine brings more than two decades of experience as a licensed psychotherapist, sex educator, director, producer, and adult performer. King is an award-winning performer, recording artist, director, producer, educator, and advocate whose work challenges limiting narratives about masculinity and sexuality.

Together, they have presented at conferences, universities, community events, and sexuality-focused programs across the United States and internationally. Through Royal Fetish Films, they create work that is unapologetically Black, sex-positive, kink-informed, and grounded in the belief that pleasure can be educational, political, and transformative.

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Class 7~9pm

Solo Play Party ~9:15-10pm

VIP Only: 6-7 Meet & Greet, Class 7-9pm, Play 9-11pm

πŸ‘‘ VIP Ticket Holders arrive early for a photo op + meet & greet plus 1 hour of additional playtime!

Doors close promptly at 7:30 to create a safer and more comfortable environment for everyone.

This class is open to all relationship styles and dynamics: however you love, whoever you love.

We currently offer couples and singles ticket types, but if you've got a third, fourth, or fifth lover joining you, reach out to events@kink.com for a discount code. safer and more comfortable environment for everyone.

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What to bring:

  • Something to take notes with
  • An open mind and a willingness to get a little uncomfortable in the best possible way
  • Any toys, props, or tools you like to play with, and your own lube if you have a preference for type. We will have water-based lube on hand.
  • Please note: bring a towel or waterproof cover if you'll be using any silicone or oil-based lube or engaging in fluid exchange. Silicone and oil-based products can permanently damage upholstery, so we need to keep our space and equipment in good condition for everyone. We will have chuck pads on hand if needed.

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Play Party Guidelines & Rules (MUST READ):

Absolutely no photography during the play party portion of the event. No photos or videos of other attendees.

Consent to presence. By entering the play space, you are consenting to being in a room where others are engaging in sexual activity. Unsolicited comments, touching, or intrusion into someone's space is not permitted.

Check in with yourself. If something doesn't feel right, you can step out at any time. Staff will be available if you need support.

Wipe down any surfaces with disinfectant or degreaser where fluid/lube contact may have occurred. We will have cavicide for disinfecting and isopropyl alcohol for lube degreasing.

Watching/Spectating is only allowed with express consent. If someone is lurking, hovering, or watching without first asking for consent, please report it to a dungeon monitor or staff member immediately. We take this seriously and will ask anyone violating this policy to leave.

This play party is centered on Gender and Cultural Equity by welcoming all QTBIPOC: Queer/Gay/Lesbian, Transgender, and Black, Indigenous identities. If you are an ally, we request that you attend with someone by using the pal system (friend, lover, metamour). We will be prioritizing People of Color and their allies. We want this event to be as welcoming as possible.

If you do not plan to actively participate in the play portion of the evening, you must leave the venue after the class portion and live demo concludes.

ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).

Examples of enthusiastic consent:

"Can I give you a hug?" β†’ "Yes! I'd love that!"

"Want to try (blank) together?" β†’ "Absolutely, I've been wanting to try that!"

Examples of Non-Enthusiastic (or Absent/Unclear) Consent:

"Can I hug you?" β†’ "...sure, I guess."

"Are you okay to continue?" β†’ "Mmm, whatever."

If you are uncertain whether enthusiastic consent has been given, treat that uncertainty as your answer. Consent has not been given.

It is always appropriate to pause and check in. You might say something like:

"How would you feel about taking a short break?"

"I want to make sure we're both fully on board... Can we pause for a moment?"

"I wasn't completely certain that was a full yes, so I'd like to stop and check in with you."

Pausing is never the wrong choice. It demonstrates care, self-awareness, and respect for everyone involved and creates space for an honest, comfortable conversation.

Do not assume anyone's presence implies availability.

Thank you for helping us protect and preserve this space for our community.

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KINK STORE EVENT CODE OF CONDUCT - By purchasing your ticket(s), you agree to comply with the entire CoC:

Golden Rules

Treat one another with kindness and respect.

Leave the space better than you found it.

Consent

Consent is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).

  • Never touch anyone without permission.
  • Negotiate all scenes in advance. No up-negotiation during play.
  • Do not assume anyone's presence implies availability.
  • Do not join or interrupt a scene without invitation.
  • If someone asks to be left alone, respect that immediately.
  • Obtain explicit consent before photographing or involving others in your scenes.

Privacy and Discretion

What happens here stays here. Treat all information about attendees and activities as confidential. Do not "out" anyone regarding their identity, orientation, kinks, or attendance.

Community Care

Don't yuck someone's yum. This means respecting that others may have different kinks, interests, and ways of expressing themselves. What isn't your thing may be someone else's joy. Keep negative reactions, comments, or judgments about others' consensual interests to yourself. This is an LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC-inclusive space. Everyone is expected to show up with respect and care for others. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for:

  • Discrimination or bias based on race, gender, sexuality, disability, or body size.
  • Harassment, intimidation, coercion, bullying, or unwanted advances.
  • Non-consensual behavior of any kind.
  • Misgendering, deadnaming, or invalidating anyone's identity.

Intoxicants & Altered States

We do not sell or serve alcohol at this venue.

We recognize that substances affect capacity to consent, and we prioritize everyone's safety. If you appear unable to give or receive clear consent, a host may check in with you privately. Continued concern may result in being asked to pause play or step outside. This is never a punishment, but a community care measure. Our priority is keeping everyone safe and able to enjoy the space.

Health and Hygiene

  • Please stay home if you are feeling sick or experiencing symptoms.
  • Be scent-aware: avoid heavy perfumes, colognes, or strongly scented products.
  • Be thoughtful and considerate of all bodily odors when attending and throughout events. Come prepared, as personal hygiene is your responsibility. If you need basic hygiene supplies, please ask a host.
  • Respect others' disclosed allergies or sensitivities.

Respect the Space

Treat staff, hosts, and the venue with care and courtesy. Return any equipment to its proper place and report any damage or safety concerns to a host immediately.

  • Wipe down any surfaces where fluid contact may have occurred.
  • If you need cleaning or disinfecting supplies, please ask a host.

Scenes and Play

  • Be mindful of those in active scenes or aftercare. Do not interrupt, crowd, or hover.
  • Respect established play areas, furniture, and equipment; ask a host before using anything unfamiliar.
  • Any play considered edge play must be disclosed in advance to event hosts. This includes rope suspension, any form of breath restriction, electrical play, and similar high-risk activities.
  • Allow adequate space between scenes and bystanders.

Safewords

Agree on safewords before any play begins.

  • "Red" or "Safeword" will immediately stop a scene. Alert hosts if necessary.
  • "Yellow" (or equivalent) indicates a limit or request to reduce intensity.
  • If verbal safewords are not possible, establish a clear nonverbal signal in advance. For example, three deliberate head shakes as a "no" signal, or dropping a held object.
  • Honoring a safeword is non-negotiable. Ignoring one is a serious violation.

Safer Sex

  • Communicate openly and honestly about STI status when relevant.
  • Safer sex supplies will be available when needed.
  • Respect others' safer sex boundaries and practices without question or pressure.

Safety Monitors & Dungeon Monitors

Dungeon Monitors (DMs) and hosts are here to support safety and consent. They have final say and may stop any scene. Please:

  • Inform DMs or hosts in advance of any edge or atypical play.
  • Follow their instructions promptly and without argument.
  • Seek them out immediately if you witness any consent violation.
  • Be patient; they may be attending to another matter.

Phones and Photography

No photography, video, or audio recording is permitted unless explicitly stated otherwise for a specific event. Keep your phone stored and screens dimmed in play areas. Violations of this policy are taken extremely seriously.

Aftercare

Aftercare is a vital part of responsible BDSM play. Check in with your play partners following a scene. Be mindful that aftercare needs vary; some may need space, others physical comfort, or time to decompress. Hosts may have a designated aftercare area or resources available. Please ask if you need support.

Newcomers & First-Timers

We welcome people who are new to events like this. If you're unsure about anything, ask a host. No question is too basic. We encourage experienced community members to be patient and welcoming mentors, not gatekeepers.

Concerns and Reporting

If you witness or experience a consent violation or safety concern, please speak with a host or event representative immediately. All reports will be handled with discretion and taken seriously. You will be believed and supported. You may also email dusty@kinkstore.com if you wish to remain anonymous. We are committed to accountability and learning.

Consequences for Violations

Violations of this code of conduct may result in:

  • A verbal warning from a host or DM.
  • Being asked to stop a scene or activity.
  • Being asked to leave the event immediately.
  • Being banned from future events.

Serious violations involving non-consent will result in immediate removal and may be reported to relevant community networks.

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Accessibility

We are committed to making Kink Store events as accessible and welcoming as possible.

The main floor entrance is wheelchair accessible. There is one step further into the space; a portable ramp is available. Please note that the upstairs loft area is not currently accessible to persons using wheelchairs or mobility devices. Both restrooms are ADA-compliant.

We welcome guests with all access needs and encourage you to reach out in advance so we can do our best to accommodate you. This includes communication access needs such as ASL or kink-friendly interpretation services, which typically require advance booking. Interpreters accompanying a guest are welcome at no additional charge in that capacity.

To request accommodations or ask about access, please contact us at events@kinkstore.com well in advance of the event.

Tickets

  • Couples General Admission

    $129 β€’
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  • VIP Couples Admission

    $200 β€’
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