Monthly Roundtable for Polyamory/Non-Monogamy

The Brooklyn Poly Roundtable is a monthly discussion-centered, community gathering for those who want to learn about and share experiences/perspectives on topics related to non-monogamy and polyamory. This month's topic is:

The Relationship Escalator: Reflections and Alternatives

Lets discuss the set of social scripts that tell us what a "real" relationship looks like and where it should go.

While non-monogamy already challenges exclusivity, so many other assumptions remain: that relationships should merge over time, that more entanglement means more commitment, that continuity equals success, that romantic and sexual always go together, that some relationships are inherently more important than others. Together we'll reflect on which of these we may have internalized without realizing it, which we've actively chosen, and which we're still untangling.

The goal isn't to make an enemy of the escalator, some of its features genuinely fit for some people and some relationships. But NM gives us an opportunity to be more deliberate: what does commitment look like outside those scripts? How do we have intentional conversations about milestones and expectations rather than just sliding into them by default? And how might different relationships in our lives call for different answers?

We look forward to hearing your experiences and reflections!

As always, this space is about learning from each other, holding our different experiences with care, and letting ourselves be shaped by the wisdom that emerges when we gather. We grow through listening, sharing, and remembering that we’re not doing any of this alone.

Approximate Timeline:

• Doors Open - 7 PM

• 7-7:30 - Arrive, get your name tags, say hi, place your drinks/snacks on the table

• 7:30-9 - Group discussion

• 9-10 - Mingle and socialize (and help us clean up the space ;))

Please consider making the $10 donation to help us cover the room rental and contribute to our snack budget. If you can't afford it, come anyway! Feel free to bring a little treat or beverage to share if you feel inclined. We try to have a few snacks available, but more is always welcome.

PLEASE NOTE: This meetup is about creating a safe space for sharing ideas and experiences and having productive and compassionate discussions with old and new friends. It is not a cruising or pickup event, so please do not come with those expectations or intentions as they can make folks uncomfortable and feel unsafe. Help us keep this a safe and supportive space!

Our group values ethics, inclusion, growth and compassion as a means to support each of our unique journeys in developing non-traditional relationships. Please be prepared to bring those values, along with an awareness of the fundamental importance of consent and a respect for all others if you attend our events.

We look forward to welcoming everyone interested or curious about non-monogamy and polyamory :) See you at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture (269 4th Avenue, between Garfield and 1st Street)!

In community,

Clara & Marco