(NEW LOCATION IS @ THE KINK STORE)
RSVP: tinyurl.com/neonknots
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Kink.com & Twisted Windows invite you to get tangled after dark at The Kink Store in the heart of San Francisco.
Blacklights. Bright rope. Delicious tension.
Kick off Halloween weekend at The Kink Store, where neon lights catch every curve and the night is yours to explore.
Come for the rope, linger for the chemistry, and follow your curiosity into a night of bondage, play, and connection.
See, be seen, and scene! Tie someone who catches your eye, surrender to a trusted partner's ropes, or settle in and enjoy the show. Every invitation starts with consent. Where the evening goes is yours to negotiate.
Throughout the space, you'll find:
Room to get tangled: a rope-forward play space with dedicated suspension points.
A little hands-on color: interactive neon body paint.
A soundtrack for the night: a DJ and high-energy music.
A glow worth dressing for: blacklights, neon, and UV-reactive details.
Ways to break the tension: icebreakers and interactive activities for meeting new people.
Space to get comfortable: cozy spots for getting horizontal and play equipment throughout the dungeon.
Start the night hands-on
From 8–9pm, Twisted Windows leads an interactive activity to get you playing, glowing, and connecting. Join in or enjoy watching as the evening warms up.
At 9pm, the lights go down, the blacklights come up, and open play continues until 12am.
Neon, UV-reactive looks, and Halloween attire are enthusiastically encouraged, never required. Wear something that begs to be seen.
Rope lovers, bring your gear. Everyone else, bring your curiosity and your sexy self.
Friday, October 30
Doors: 7:30pm
Interactive activity: 8–9pm
Open play: 9pm–12am
One ticket. Full evening. 18+ only.
NEW LOCATION:
The Kink Store SF
224 6th Street (at Howard), San Francisco, CA 94103
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ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).
Examples of enthusiastic consent:
"Can I give you a hug?" → "Yes! I'd love that!"
"Want to try (blank) together?" → "Absolutely, I've been wanting to try that!"
Examples of Non-Enthusiastic (or Absent/Unclear) Consent:
"Can I hug you?" → "...sure" or "...I guess."
"Are you okay to continue?" → "Mmm, whatever/I don't know..."
If you are uncertain whether enthusiastic consent has been given, treat that uncertainty as your answer. Consent has not been given.
It is always appropriate to pause and check in. You might say something like:
"How would you feel about taking a short break?"
"I want to make sure we're both fully on board... Can we pause for a moment?"
"I wasn't completely certain that was a full yes, so I'd like to stop and check in with you."
Pausing is never the wrong choice. It demonstrates care, self-awareness, and respect for everyone involved and creates space for an honest, comfortable conversation.
Do not assume anyone's presence implies availability.
Negotiate all scenes in advance. No up-negotiation during play.
Be mindful of those in active scenes or aftercare. Do not interrupt, crowd, or hover.
Wipe down any surfaces with disinfectant or degreaser where fluid/lube contact may have occurred. We will have Cavicide for disinfecting and isopropyl alcohol for lube degreasing.
We have on-site dungeon monitors to help maintain a safer space for everyone. If someone is lurking, hovering, or watching without actively participating in a scene, please report it to a dungeon monitor immediately. We take this seriously and will ask anyone violating this policy to leave.
Thank you for helping us protect and preserve this space for our community.
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KINK.COM CODE OF CONDUCT - By purchasing your ticket(s), you agree to comply with the entire CoC:
Golden Rules
Treat one another with kindness and respect.
Leave the space better than you found it.
Consent
Consent is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).
Privacy and Discretion
What happens here stays here. Treat all information about attendees and activities as confidential. Do not "out" anyone regarding their identity, orientation, kinks, or attendance.
Community Care
Don't yuck someone's yum. This means respecting that others may have different kinks, interests, and ways of expressing themselves. What isn't your thing may be someone else's joy. Keep negative reactions, comments, or judgments about others' consensual interests to yourself. This is an LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC-inclusive space. Everyone is expected to show up with respect and care for others. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for:
Intoxicants & Altered States
We do not sell or serve alcohol at this venue.
We recognize that substances affect capacity to consent, and we prioritize everyone's safety. If you appear unable to give or receive clear consent, a host may check in with you privately. Continued concern may result in being asked to pause play or step outside. This is never a punishment, but a community care measure. Our priority is keeping everyone safe and able to enjoy the space.
Health and Hygiene
Respect the Space
Treat staff, hosts, and the venue with care and courtesy. Return any equipment to its proper place and report any damage or safety concerns to a host immediately.
Scenes and Play
Safewords
Agree on safewords before any play begins.
Safer Sex
Safety Monitors & Dungeon Monitors
Dungeon Monitors (DMs) and hosts are here to support safety and consent. They have final say and may stop any scene. Please:
Phones and Photography
No photography, video, or audio recording is permitted unless explicitly stated otherwise for a specific event. Keep your phone stored and screens dimmed in play areas. Violations of this policy are taken extremely seriously.
Aftercare
Aftercare is a vital part of responsible BDSM play. Check in with your play partners following a scene. Be mindful that aftercare needs vary; some may need space, others physical comfort, or time to decompress. Hosts may have a designated aftercare area or resources available. Please ask if you need support.
Newcomers & First-Timers
We welcome people who are new to events like this. If you're unsure about anything, ask a host. No question is too basic. We encourage experienced community members to be patient and welcoming mentors, not gatekeepers.
Concerns and Reporting
If you witness or experience a consent violation or safety concern, please speak with a host or event representative immediately. All reports will be handled with discretion and taken seriously. You will be believed and supported. You may also email dusty@kinkstore.com if you wish to remain anonymous. We are committed to accountability and learning.
Consequences for Violations
Violations of this code of conduct may result in:
Serious violations involving non-consent will result in immediate removal and may be reported to relevant community networks.
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Accessibility
The Penthouse at The Kink.com Center is fully ADA-accessible. The venue features two elevators, ADA-compliant restrooms, and step-free entry throughout.
We welcome guests with all access needs and encourage you to reach out in advance so we can do our best to accommodate you. This includes communication access needs such as ASL or kink-friendly interpretation services for educational events, which typically require advance booking. Interpreters and aides accompanying a guest are always welcome in that capacity at no additional charge.
To request accommodations or ask about access, contact us at events@kinkstore.com well in advance of the event.
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Getting There
The official venue address is 1717 Mission Street. However, you will enter through the gate near the end of Erie Street, across from the Public Works venue.
Parking inside the gates is reserved only for vehicles displaying a valid accessible parking placard or license plate and is available on a first-come, first-served basis.
PLEASE DO NOT PARK IN THE LOT IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A VALID ACCESSIBLE PARKING PLACARD OR LICENSE PLATE.
We suggest rideshare, walking, biking, or public transportation.
Look for the HUGE red building with “CITY CENTER” displayed on the inside-facing front wall. The red building is clearly visible from the street.
BART:
16th St Mission Station is about a 10 to 12 minute walk*
Civic Center/UN Plaza Station is about a 15 to 18 minute walk*
*The walking routes pass through areas that can feel intense at night, so we recommend using a rideshare if possible.
BART trip planning: https://www.bart.gov/planner
MUNI (bus & light rail):
Multiple lines run along Mission and Market Street within a few blocks, including the 14, 14R, and 5R
You can plan routes here: https://www.sfmta.com/trip-planner
Give yourself a little extra travel time so you can arrive relaxed and ready to play!
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COVID & Other Contagious Illnesses: Safer-Play Policy
Our events are for people who recognize the ongoing risks of COVID and other contagious illnesses and are willing to take precautions for one another, especially to protect immunocompromised members of our community. Please consider whether this approach aligns with yours before attending.
Under our event policy, please do not attend if you:
COVID testing is strongly encouraged, though not required.
Molecular tests, including PCR and other NAAT tests, are generally more sensitive than rapid antigen tests. A rapid antigen test is another practical option, but a single negative result does not rule out infection.
Follow your test’s instructions for repeat testing. FDA guidance recommends:
If you have symptoms despite a negative rapid test, consider a molecular test or contact your healthcare provider. Please stay home while experiencing symptoms, regardless of your test result.
KN95 masks or better are encouraged, though not required, and are available free at every event. Please ask a house manager if you would like one.
Wearing a mask does not replace our requirement to stay home if you are sick. If you are ill, please do not attend, even if you plan to wear a mask.
Testing resources for San Francisco attendees
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