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Non-monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver - JULY Event

Welcome to the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver! We will be meeting the THIRD Monday of the month at Cross and Crows Books . Bring your ideas, questions and opinions!

July Topic: Privacy, Transparency & Consent

Non-monogamy often involves balancing transparency with privacy. We may want to keep our partners informed while also respecting our own boundaries and the privacy of other partners. Finding that balance isn't always straightforward. What do we have consent to share? How much do we tell our partners? Where is the line between privacy and secrecy?

This month, we're exploring how privacy, transparency, and consent show up in our relationships and polycules. While honesty is often held up as a core value in non-monogamy, people can have very different expectations around communication, disclosure and trust.

Some questions we may explore:

-What is the difference between privacy and secrecy?

-What information do you expect partners to share with you? What information do you expect partners to keep to themselves?

-How do you navigate consent when talking about partners with other partners?

-How do we handle situations where different people have different expectations around disclosure?

This is a peer-to-peer discussion about respecting the autonomy and privacy of everyone involved while not being dishonest about our non-monogamy.

The Specifics:

Date: July 20, 2026

Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pm

(Doors open at 7pm for this event and we start the discussion at 7:30pm)

Where: Cross and Crows Books - 2836 Commercial Drive

Cost: by donation ($2-5) or shopping at the bookstore! This covers our rental fee.

Who can attend: Those who practice non-monogamy or are curious about it - We ask that if you engage in our space that your partners have knowledge of your practice or interest.

Health/Safety: Please do not attend if you are sick (even if it's not covid). I will bring my air filter for the space. Stay vaccinated. Please leave your perfumes/body spray at home.

We will be continuing the no mandatory masks for 2026 . See pinned post in the feature section of the group.

Accessibility: Technically a wheelchair accessible entrance (has a slope) but not a washroom. Semi low stim - you can hear the sky train pass. The book store is closed to the public but staff are there so event attendees can shop. Variety of chair styles/sizes available.

What to expect during this event

7:00pm - Door open - show up anytime between 7pm and 7:30pm to find yourself a chair, browse the book store (you can shop) and settle in.

7:30pm - Discussion begins

-Read the Norms

-Introductions & Ice Breaker question.

-July Topic: Privacy, Transparency & Consent

10 min break

-Announcements & Discussion cont.

9pm Wrap-up - check out at the bookstore or order a book for pick up.

9:10pm You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.