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Ravishment is a hands-on, interactive class that teaches lovers how to create and enjoy the kind of passionate encounters often found in the steamy chapters of romance literature. We will focus on enhancing physical and emotional connection, emphasizing the art of building anticipation, and creating a safe space for exploring dominance and submission (D/s).

Embark on a journey of discovery and connection with Ravishment. Through learning the basics of D/s, you will open the door to a more passionate, intimate, and fulfilling relationship. Transform the way you connect with your partner(s), embracing the power and beauty of consensual ravishment.The workshop is five hours of instruction, 10AM until 4PM, with an hour-long break for lunch. You are welcome to bring a lunch and make use of the fridge and microwave, order delivery, or leave the event space for lunch. While the workshop is physically interactive for couples, the level of 'activity' is up to you. We will not be using props, bondage gear, or toys, but we will be using our bodies. This is a clothing-on event.

Learning Objectives

• Introduction to D/s Dynamics: Learn the principles of dominance and submission, emphasizing the importance of consent and mutual respect. Explore different D/s archetypes and how they can be adapted to fit your unique relationship dynamic. Learn how to set boundaries and ensure that all activities are enjoyable and consensual for everyone.
• Expressive Communication: Master the use of seductive language and non-verbal cues to communicate your desires. Learn how to communicate your desires and limits effectively. This section includes practical exercises in active listening and expressing needs and boundaries. Develop the confidence to express what you want and to respond passionately to your partner’s needs.
• Physical Techniques: Participate in guided scenarios where you can practice ravishment techniques in a controlled setting. From body language and tone of voice to physical positioning and restraint methods, this segment provides a comprehensive toolkit for creating a safe and exciting D/s experience. You will also receive real-time personalized feedback from instructors to help you refine your approach and build confidence.
• Emotional Intimacy: Understand the importance of emotional connection in enhancing physical intimacy. Practice exercises that deepen trust and vulnerability, ensuring all partners feel cherished and connected. Learn how to use aftercare practices to ensure all parties feel valued and cared for after a scene.
• Building Anticipation: Learn the art of teasing and creating anticipation. Discover techniques to build tension and excitement, making each touch and glance more electrifying.

Who Should Attend?

This workshop is ideal for people of all experience levels who wish to bring the passion of romance and D/s into their relationships. Whether you are new lovers, long-time partners, throuples, or more, Ravishment offers the tools and techniques to create unforgettable, intimate moments that leave you breathless and longing for more.

You may attend with a friend or someone you are comfortable practicing intimate exercises with.

If you attend alone, we can’t guarantee that you’ll have a partner to practice with.

More info:

Please come dressed comfortably. Feel free to bring a change of clothes and arrive early to change.

Shelby will provide hot tea, chocolate, and water. Please plan to bring a bag lunch or have food delivered to the venue.

Lunch break is at 12:30pm

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KINK STORE EVENT CODE OF CONDUCT - By purchasing your ticket(s), you agree to comply with the entire CoC:

Golden Rule

Treat one another with kindness and respect.

Consent

Consent is required for all touch and play at this event. It must be freely given, revocable, informed, engaged, and specific (FRIES).

• Never touch anyone without permission.
• Negotiate all scenes in advance. No up-negotiation during play.
• Do not assume anyone's presence implies availability.
• Do not join or interrupt a scene without invitation.
• If someone asks to be left alone, respect that immediately.
• Obtain explicit consent before photographing or involving others in your scenes.

Privacy and Discretion

What happens here stays here. Treat all information about attendees and activities as confidential. Do not "out" anyone regarding their identity, orientation, kinks, or attendance.

Community Care

Don't yuck someone's yum. This means respecting that others may have different kinks, interests, and ways of expressing themselves. What isn't your thing may be someone else's joy. Keep negative reactions, comments, or judgments about others' consensual interests to yourself. This is an LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC-inclusive space. Everyone is expected to show up with respect and care for others. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for:

• Discrimination or bias based on race, gender, sexuality, disability, or body size.
• Harassment, intimidation, coercion, bullying, or unwanted advances.
• Non-consensual behavior of any kind.
• Misgendering, deadnaming, or invalidating anyone's identity.

Intoxicants & Altered States

We do not sell or serve alcohol at this venue.

We recognize that substances affect capacity to consent, and we prioritize everyone's safety. If you appear unable to give or receive clear consent, a host may check in with you privately. Continued concern may result in being asked to pause play or step outside. This is never a punishment, but a community care measure. Our priority is keeping everyone safe and able to enjoy the space.

Health and Hygiene

• Please stay home if you are feeling sick or experiencing symptoms.
• Be scent-aware: avoid heavy perfumes, colognes, or strongly scented products.
• Be thoughtful and considerate of all bodily odors when attending and throughout events. Come prepared, as personal hygiene is your responsibility. If you need basic hygiene supplies, please ask a host.
• Respect others' disclosed allergies or sensitivities.

Respect the Space

Treat staff, hosts, and the venue with care and courtesy. Return any equipment to its proper place and report any damage or safety concerns to a host immediately.

• Wipe down any surfaces where fluid contact may have occurred.
• If you need cleaning or disinfecting supplies, please ask a host.
• Silicone & oil-based lubricants: Guests must supply their own rubber sheets or protective barriers. These products can permanently damage latex surfaces and furniture, and we cannot allow their use without adequate protection in place.

Scenes and Play

• Be mindful of those in active scenes or aftercare. Do not interrupt, crowd, or hover.
• Respect established play areas, furniture, and equipment; ask a host before using anything unfamiliar.
• Any play considered edge play must be disclosed in advance to event hosts. This includes rope suspension, any form of breath restriction, electrical play, and similar high-risk activities.
• Allow adequate space between scenes and bystanders.

Safewords

Agree on safewords before any play begins.

• "Red" or "Safeword" will immediately stop a scene. Alert hosts if necessary.
• "Yellow" (or equivalent) indicates a limit or request to reduce intensity.
• If verbal safewords are not possible, establish a clear nonverbal signal in advance. For example, three deliberate head shakes as a "no" signal, or dropping a held object.
• Honoring a safeword is non-negotiable. Ignoring one is a serious violation.

Safer Sex

• Communicate openly and honestly about STI status when relevant.
• Safer sex supplies will be available when needed.
• Respect others' safer sex boundaries and practices without question or pressure.

Safety Monitors & Dungeon Monitors

Dungeon Monitors (DMs) and hosts are here to support safety and consent. They have final say and may stop any scene. Please:

• Inform DMs or hosts in advance of any edge or atypical play.
• Follow their instructions promptly and without argument.
• Seek them out immediately if you witness any consent violation.
• Be patient; they may be attending to another matter.

Phones and Photography

No photography, video, or audio recording is permitted unless explicitly stated otherwise for a specific event. Keep your phone stored and screens dimmed in play areas. Violations of this policy are taken extremely seriously.

Aftercare

Aftercare is a vital part of responsible BDSM play. Check in with your play partners following a scene. Be mindful that aftercare needs vary; some may need space, others physical comfort, or time to decompress. Hosts may have a designated aftercare area or resources available. Please ask if you need support.

Newcomers & First-Timers

We welcome people who are new to events like this. If you're unsure about anything, ask a host. No question is too basic. We encourage experienced community members to be patient and welcoming mentors, not gatekeepers.

Concerns and Reporting

If you witness or experience a consent violation or safety concern, please speak with a host or event representative immediately. All reports will be handled with discretion and taken seriously. You will be believed and supported. You may also email dusty@kinkstore.com if you wish to remain anonymous. We are committed to accountability and learning.

Consequences for Violations

Violations of this code of conduct may result in:

• A verbal warning from a host or DM.
• Being asked to stop a scene or activity.
• Being asked to leave the event immediately.
• Being banned from future events.

Serious violations involving non-consent will result in immediate removal and may be reported to relevant community networks.

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Accessibility

We are committed to making Kink Store events as accessible and welcoming as possible.

The main floor entrance is wheelchair accessible. There is one step into the space; a built-in ramp provides easy access throughout. Please note that the upstairs loft area is not currently accessible to persons using wheelchairs or mobility devices. Both restrooms are ADA-compliant.

We welcome guests with all access needs and encourage you to reach out in advance so we can do our best to accommodate you. This includes communication access needs such as ASL or kink-friendly interpretation services, which typically require advance booking. Interpreters accompanying a guest are welcome at no additional charge in that capacity.

To request accommodations or ask about access, please contact us at events@kinkstore.com well in advance of the event.

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Getting There

The official venue address is 1717 Mission Street. However, you will enter through the gate near the end of Erie Street, across from the Public Works venue.

Parking inside the gates is reserved only for vehicles displaying a valid accessible parking placard or license plate and is available on a first-come, first-served basis.

PLEASE DO NOT PARK IN THE LOT IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A VALID ACCESSIBLE PARKING PLACARD OR LICENSE PLATE.

We suggest rideshare, walking, biking, or public transportation.

Look for the HUGE red building with “CITY CENTER” displayed on the inside-facing front wall. The red building is clearly visible from the street.

BART:

16th St Mission Station is about a 10 to 12 minute walk*

Civic Center/UN Plaza Station is about a 15 to 18 minute walk*

*The walking routes pass through areas that can feel intense at night, so we recommend using a rideshare if possible.

BART trip planning: https://www.bart.gov/planner

MUNI (bus & light rail):

Multiple lines run along Mission and Market Street within a few blocks, including the 14, 14R, and 5R

You can plan routes here: https://www.sfmta.com/trip-planner

Give yourself a little extra travel time so you can arrive relaxed and ready to play!

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COVID & Other Contagious Illnesses: Safer-Play Policy

Our events are for people who recognize the ongoing risks of COVID and other contagious illnesses and are willing to take precautions for one another, especially to protect immunocompromised members of our community. Please consider whether this approach aligns with yours before attending.

Under our event policy, please do not attend if you:

• Are sick or experiencing any symptoms, even if your COVID test is negative.
• Have tested positive for COVID within the past 10 days.
• Have had a known exposure to COVID within the past 5 days.

COVID testing is strongly encouraged, though not required.

Molecular tests, including PCR and other NAAT tests, are generally more sensitive than rapid antigen tests. A rapid antigen test is another practical option, but a single negative result does not rule out infection.

Follow your test’s instructions for repeat testing. FDA guidance recommends:

• With symptoms: If your first antigen test is negative, repeat it 48 hours later, for at least two tests total.
• Without symptoms: If your first antigen test is negative, repeat it 48 hours later and again 48 hours after that, for at least three tests total.

If you have symptoms despite a negative rapid test, consider a molecular test or contact your healthcare provider. Please stay home while experiencing symptoms, regardless of your test result.

KN95 masks or better are encouraged, though not required, and are available free at every event. Please ask a house manager if you would like one.

Wearing a mask does not replace our requirement to stay home if you are sick. If you are ill, please do not attend, even if you plan to wear a mask.

Testing resources for San Francisco attendees

• UCSF Health–GoHealth Urgent Care: Offers rapid molecular testing at Bay Area locations. A provider visit is billed with testing, so check your insurance coverage and costs before booking.
• Medi-Cal at-home test access: Ask a participating pharmacy’s pharmacist about covered COVID tests and present your Medi-Cal card. Coverage and quantity limits apply.
• California COVID testing coverage information: Commercial plans regulated by DMHC must cover at least eight tests per member per month; regulated Medi-Cal plans must cover up to four. Check your plan’s process and use in-network providers to avoid possible charges.
• San Francisco assistance: Call 311 for help finding city services, including testing resources. Confirm current availability, eligibility, and costs before visiting.
• FDA test expiration-date lookup: Check whether your test’s expiration date has been extended before using it.