Develop Skills, Build Confidence and Create Intensity.

Sometimes one can crave their play a little…rougher.

Not all BDSM play is elegant and carefully composed. It can also be raw and primal and full of abandon!

But how does one go about engaging in rough play without causing unintended damage to their partner?

Wonder no more! Rain DeGrey, who has extensively explored dominance and rough play on both sides of the coin, will show you how to engage your more primal side. All concepts discussed will be broken down and demonstrated in easily understood detail.

What to expect:

• Scene Negotiation & Planning:
• Learn how to discuss boundaries, intensity, desires, and expectations before play begins.
• Effective Communication Tips:
• Improve verbal and nonverbal communication during rough or high-energy scenes.
• Takedowns:
• Explore safer takedown techniques that create intensity without unnecessary risk.
• Grappling:
• Learn control, restraint, and positioning techniques inspired by grappling and wrestling.
• Rough Sex Techniques:
• Discover ways to add physicality, dominance, and tension into rough play scenes.
• Safer Areas of the Body for Impact & Restraint:
• Understand lower-risk areas for striking, grabbing, and restraint placement.
• Edge Play Techniques:
• Discuss advanced intensity play and the skills needed to approach it more safely.
• Primal Play Ideas:
• Explore chase dynamics, resistance play, and instinct-driven scene ideas.
• Pitfalls to Avoid:
• Learn the most common mistakes people make during rough and primal play.
• What To Do When Things go wrong:
• Gain tools for de-escalation, grounding, and post-scene repair.
• Question & Answer Session:
• Ask questions and get practical feedback on real-world scenarios.

And much, much more!

Come learn how to unleash your inner primal!

This is a pansexual class open to all genders and orientations; everyone is welcome! All that is required is a willingness to learn.

Event Rules

This educational class is focused on learning, not a play party. This event is not for cruising and sex of any kind is not permitted. Guests are expected to respect the instructor, house manager, and staff. No photography or videography is allowed. All Praxium Events are 18+.

The Venue

This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to praxium@afterdark-sf.com

Entry

• Advance tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.

Inclusivity

• We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructor

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

Rain has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, Kink Academy, Kinkfest, SOJ, PLA, Pure Pleasure, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon in Germany.

Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, RISK!, Bawdy Storytelling, Mystery Box Theatre, and she is a multiple crown winner of the Dirty Talk Game Show.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com