Red is open exclusively to queer guests who identify as other than cis-gender male.

What is red to you? The color of passion, the heat of fire. Blood, the liquid life force in us all. Dig deeper and you’ll uncover even more. Do you see red paisley and think of plunging your fist deep inside a greedy and hungry hole? Does it scream CODE RED….where sensuality and sex collide? You’re only limited by your own imagination.

It’s Not Only About The Boys…

It’s known as Folsom’s Dirty little brother, but let’s face it, boys aren’t the only ones who know how to have a dirty and unforgettable time. Join us in claiming space Dore Weekend away from the cis-male gaze. Let our bodies gyrate to beats from our resident DJ Sucia, get lost in the scent of sex and desire that fills the air. Are you daring enough to make that move you’ve been dying to make? No time like the present.

Red…. an evening to satiate your hunger, in whatever form it growls from within you. Sleaze, debauchery, perversion, exquisite agony... Only you get to choose your own adventure.

Red... Will Feature:

• Experienced house tops that can give you a taste of your heart’s desire.
• The ambience of a grimy back alley with the luxuries of a vibrant dungeon playspace with hardpoints, St. Andrew crosses, massage tables, spanking benches, cages and so much more.
• Live DJ Sucia cultivating the energy that will urge your body to move.
• Social space with ice-breakers to help you connect with new people.
• Stickers, nametags, and wristband system to facilitate connections.
• Sensual room for erotic play.
• Cozy cuddle room for aftercare, pre-care, and non-sexual intimate touch.
• Delectable bites to fuel your body as you dance, play, or fuck the night away.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION: Red is open exclusively to queer guests who identify as other than cis-gender male.

We want to thank everyone for their understanding in the cultivation of an exclusive safe space for our demographic. **This party is designed to be an opportunity for all those who identify as other than cis-gender male to exclusively come together in a space just for them**.

The Venue

RED will take place at Stopgap in San Francisco. The exact address will be shared with ticket holders. For planning purposes, it is in SoMA and a 10 minute walk from the UN Plaza/Civic Center BART station.

Stopgap is the newest and oldest kink venue in San Francisco! While a new venue in its current iteration, the two floor building itself has a rich history in the kink community as one of the prior locations of the SF Citadel. It features a large and fully equipped dungeon playspace with equipment from the Citadel that has been restored plus much of AfterDark's own equipment. Stopgap provides safety and hygiene supplies, clean sheets, and more, elevating kink experiences for guests and offers turnkey solutions to organizers, content-producers, and others.

Accessibility

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor, which includes lockers, social areas, two bathrooms, and an accessible play space. There are no steps on the ground floor. The bathrooms are each single stall with grab bars on the wall and toilets mounted to the floor. The basement of the venue contains more play areas and can only be reached via stairs.

There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.

It is important to note that this is a dance party, which means the music upstairs will be loud and there will be flashing lights. We encourage everyone to do what you need to in order to take care of yourself within this environment. We will have earplugs available on site for those individuals who may want to dampen the noise level.

If you have any accessibility questions, please email us in advance at info@afterdark-events.com

COVID-19 safety measures

We are not requiring rapid tests for this event. We ask that you help us keep the space safer by not attending if you have symptoms of COVID-19, a cold, the flu, or another respiratory illness. If you need to miss the event for that reason, contact us and we will gladly give you a credit for a future event.

Tickets:

This event WILL sell out in advance of the event date. Purchase your tickets as early as possible for the best available prices and to guarantee your spot - don’t miss out! Each tier has a fixed number of tickets. **All sales are final and are non-refundable.** Ticket transfers may be accommodated on a case-by-case basis & will incur a $10 transfer fee. Please email us at info@afterdark-events.com to transfer your ticket.

Dress Code:

Dress to kill. What makes you feel sexy, confident, ready to take on the world? Is it fetish wear? Is it leather? Is it a skimpy lingerie that leaves little to the imagination? Whatever it is, we want it here. Bring it. While dressing to the theme is strongly encouraged in order to help maintain the immersive ambiance of the night, lingerie or general fetishwear are also welcome as are dungeon blacks. We encourage you to dress up - make an effort to impress but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out.

Organizers

This event is presented by the AfterDark Events team each of whom bring many years of experience organizing events in the kinky community starting with the founding of Mystique, SPANK!, Element, Aura, and a number of other epic parties. Feel free to reach out to them info@afterdark-events.com with any questions or concerns before, during or after the event.

Your hosts for this event are Amande, and DnR (Devilish duo @DandyButch and @-Feral-Kitty-), who are eager to take you down a dark path where fantasies can come true. Dare you join us for an evening of deviance? Dare you not?

Connect

As with all AfterDark events, we'll have role stickers at the party to help identify and spark connections. In addition - we will be using our wristband system to help people appropriately initiate social interactions. People who are comfortable being respectfully approached about the possibility of play will be wearing yellow wristbands. If you see someone wearing a red wristband, that indicates that they prefer to not be approached about play, but may be open to conversations on other topics. Let them bring up play, don’t bring it up to them..

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.