Right of the Slash / Submissives Support Circle

A Support Circle for Submissives

Join us for our support group for submissives and switches to gather together and share their experiences and feelings in a safe environment, both in BDSM and life. We meet at 5:30pm every second Sunday of the month at the Todd Community Center in Pomona.

During our time together we will have discussions regarding being in the lifestyle to start us off, allow open group time for anyone to share what they would like, and have craft supplies, coloring books, and other small activities for anyone to pick out and be creative with! Also snacks :3 Later on in the session, we will complete a grounding or breathing exercise as a group to expand our coping skills!

Enjoy a pressure free environment to freely talk in a safe, likeminded space. 💕

Note: This support circle is for sharing experiences and supporting one another, but it is not a group therapy session and is not led by a licensed therapist. If you are experiencing a crisis or need immediate help, please seek a professional or call 911.

How to Attend:

The Todd Community Center has free parking in the lot directly across from its entrance on N Gibbs Street and free street parking is available nearby as well. Our doors will open at 5:30pm, Kittie will begin the support circle with group introductions at 6pm, everyone is welcome to stay until the group ends at 8:30pm. This event is totally free, but we appreciate any donations made to help maintain this community space ❤︎

The Host: Kittie Vicious

Hi! My name is Kittie and I’ve been in the kink community for about 2 years now. I identify as a switch with more submissive leaning tendencies. I believe that BDSM isn’t just about the things you can do, it’s also about taking those experiences and learning from them.

Our experiences with submission can be positive, negative, or a mix of both. Either way, participating in these activities changes your brain. I'm looking to create a safe space for submissives to decompress and discuss our thoughts and feelings together, in an environment of like-minded individuals. I also aim to create this group for any submissives looking for extra peer support for anything going on in your lives.

Event Rules

This support circle is an event held in a private space for anyone who identifies as a submissive to talk freely about their past experiences, relationships, dynamics, and problems in a safe environment with other submissives.

This event is NOT for finding hookups, cruising, or playing. Stay polite when interacting with others and never touch someone without their consent.

Keep in mind:

• Hate speech or harassment of any kind will not be tolerated, including but not limited to racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, and ableism
• Do not touch/hug anyone without consent
• Always ask consent before photographing or filming other attendees and be careful to avoid getting unconsenting persons in the background of your photos
• Be respectful of privacy, don’t press for personal information if someone is uncomfortable sharing it
• Do not out anyone or our group as being part of the kink community
• “Cruising” the RSVP list to send soliciting messages is inappropriate behavior