Safety On and Offline: Vetting, Red Flags, and Ethics

Safety On and Offline: Vetting, Red Flags, and Ethics with Wiley Wolfe

A live and recorded online class by the Wolfe Academy of Desire

7/28 8pm Eastern

Want to make sure your social media profile like here on Plura, FetLife, or other platforms (including dating profiles) are discreet and secure? Not sure if that message you got recently was actually problematic or just rubbed you the wrong way? Want to make sure you're not missing a dangerous red flag when engaging with someone new?

This is the workshop for you!

We Will Cover:

• How to set up and use online profiles including how to keep your identity secure, avoid scams, and get less creepy messages
• Essential ethics to create better, more respectful interactions
• Definitions to distinguish green, yellow, and red flags
• Different ways flags can interact with our perspective including flag blindness, personal flags, and universal flags
• How to vet a potential play partner so you can feel more affirmed in your "yes" or avoid a bad experience
• 18 red flags for anyone of any kink orientation
• 10 red flags specific to Dominants
• 5 red flags specific to submissives
• 11 green flags to inspire your confidence in a good connection

This workshop will also include two free handouts along with a discount code for Patreon-exclusive worksheets related to the topic.

Want to save on the full Intentional Kink series? Get the Total Desire Pass! This will also give you a FREE month on Patreon (meaning you also get those exclusive worksheets free) + 15% off a coaching session.

About the Instructor

Wiley Wolfe (they/them) is a kink educator, coach, and community organizer based in Toronto, Canada with 9+ years experience, and the founder of the Wolfe Academy of Desire online educational initiative and community. Their workshops have been sought after across the U.S. and Canada, including at Dark Odyssey, Kinkfest, and Westcoast Bound, with their online classes reaching kinksters worldwide.

They have worked as a Professional Dominant with hundreds of clients both online and in person, coached kinksters and couples to help them reach their goals, organized 70+ community events, led support groups, created erotic immersive theatre productions, and more. They are currently pursuing a master’s-equivalent certification in sex coaching, and their personal relationships all center power exchange, queerness, polyamory, and risk-informed consent.

Kink is their authenticity practice. They delight in guiding both new and experienced players on their journeys, with a particular focus on self-exploration, deepening intention, and personal growth.

Access:

This class is offered live and online through Zoom. You may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app to join.

The class will be recorded with the recording available to ticketholders for 7 days. After that time, the recording will be available on Patreon for all tiers that have access to the archive. Recordings will not include any open group shares at the end of class.

The free handouts accompanying this class will be supplied at the end of class and will be downloadable for ticketholders to keep. They are not interactive to the class.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

Ticket FAQ:

What's your refund policy?

Refunds are issued up to 24 hours before the workshop. Missed workshops will not be refunded.

I'm not in Canada but I see your tickets are in CAD. Can I still buy them?

Yes! Anyone from any country can buy a ticket. If you're in a country with a stronger dollar (like US, UK, and Europe), these tickets actually will be cheaper for you with the exchange rate - even after any foreign transaction fees from your bank. Just buy as normal!

My card got declined. What happened?

To Troubleshoot:

• Make sure your billing info is correct
• Check if your bank sent you a "suspicious charge" message to approve (if it did, just approve it and try again)
• Turn off Apply Pay "Hide My Email" (this can sometimes cause rejections)
• Try an alternate payment method like PayPal
• Message if you're still having issues!