This is a sacred, inclusive space to explore your sensuality, connect deeply with yourself and others, and celebrate pleasure.
San Diego Latihan & Tantric Temple Party w/Monique & Peter
This event is open to all genders and identities
What’s This About?
This is a sacred, inclusive space to explore your sensuality, connect deeply with yourself and others, and celebrate the full range of your vital life-force energy.
Whether you're new to this kind of gathering or a seasoned explorer, this event offers a safe, pressure-free container for authentic connection, play, and joy.
Evening Flow
Doors Open: 7:00 PM
Doors Close: 7:45PM sharp (No late entry)
Opening Circle: Arrive, connect, be seen and heard. We’ll co-create agreements and set the tone.
Latihan Practice: A gentle, guided movement meditation into the unknown—great for releasing tension and embodying presence.
Play Space Opens: After the circle, explore what “temple party” means to you. Engage, witness, cuddle, dance, kiss, rest—there’s no right or wrong way to be here.
Closing Circle: 11:45pm
What to Expect?
A sensual, respectful, and welcoming environment
A mix of guided and freeform activities
Participation is always optional—observers welcome!
Open to individuals and pairs of all genders and orientations
An intentional, inclusive space especially welcoming to trans, queer, and nonbinary folks
Who Should Attend?
This event is for you if:
You’re emotionally and sensually aware—or open to learning
You can communicate clearly and respect boundaries
You’re kind, compassionate, and conduct yourself with integrity
You’re curious, playful, and open-minded
No pressure to "do" anything. You can come just to connect, relax, and soak in the vibe.
What to Bring?
Food and non-alcoholic beverages (for yourself or to share)
Comfortable clothing (or sexy attire is your choice!)
Toys/accessories for shared play (optional)
Protection you feel good about
An open heart, curious mind, and playful attitude
No drugs or alcohol, please. We value presence and connection.
Cost (Love Exchange)
Singles: $89 a few early bird tickets will go for $79
Pairs: $169
@ door $120/single, $200/pair (limited quantity—act fast!)
And if you want to pay us directly, to save money on ticketing fees please check the details below to find out. Also the address is not labeled here, once your purchase is complete please look for a welcome letter with the address and instructions and if you buy the ticket directly though us, just ask us for the address once the purchase in complete.
Please contact us here about either using Venmo, Paypal, or Zelle
619.601.8852 or 619.305.3402
Sliding scale & scholarships available for few female-identified attendees—contact Monique or Peter.
Your Hosts
Monique Darling
Author of Beyond Cuddle Party, Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops over 14 years, including at Yale and on TLC. She helps people awaken to their sensual, spiritual selves through embodiment, play, and connection.
Learn more: www.everydaytantra.com
Peter Petersen
Qigong teacher and massage therapist with 25+ years of experience, Peter supports wellness through breath, movement, and self-awareness. His teachings help people live in their bodies with greater presence and vitality.