Hosted by Alana

This event is for sapphic / gender NC / trans folk.

🖤🌸 Goths vs. Pastels: A Sapphic & FLINTA Kink Party

Darkness Meets Daydreams. Pick Your Poison.

From gothic royalty to pastel perfection, vampy femme fatales to sunshine-soaked troublemakers, Goths vs. Pastels invites you to delve into these iconic energies for a night of delicious contrasts, playful rivalries, unapologetic self-expression, fun flirtations, and so much more.

Whether you are a Morticia, Debbie, Wednesday, Enid, or somewhere in between, all are welcome. Find out who will end up on top in the battle between goths and pastels. Or will the elusive pastel goths broker peace?

Sweet meets sinister.

Cute meets cruel.

Light meets shadow.

What happens when opposites attract?

EVENT DETAILS

🖤 Doors Open: 8:00 PM (Doors close at 9:00 PM sharp for opening circle at 9:15pm)

🖤 Event Ends: 2:00 AM

🖤 Location: Private venue near Union Square (details in confirmation email additional info, check spam/promo folder)

🖤 Accessibility: Walk-up venue

WHAT TO EXPECT:

• Opening Circle & Social Time
• Performance and Music
• Multiple ceiling hard-points, swing, benches and X's
• Optional Group Ice Breakers-Kinky Spin The Bottle, Electro Play Demo, and/or Massage Pit
• Multiple rooms with different energies
• Free party fun time and so much more...

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***WHO IS THIS EVENT FOR? + WHO ISN'T THIS EVENT FOR?***

💋 (21+ only) – This event centers the sapphic & FLINTA (woman, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, and agender) experiences. If you do not identify as sapphic, gender non-binary, or trans - we love you but please attend other Pagan’s Paradise events instead. Please read this carefully because we will not refund your ticket.

Definition (LGBTQIA+ Wiki): Sapphic refers to a woman or woman-aligned person who is attracted to women or woman-aligned genders. This umbrella term includes lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, and queer individuals. We welcome all types of people who identify as gender non-binary or who identify anywhere on the transgender spectrum. If you are seeking a queer event that centers gay men, please check out our Daddy Retreat events.

FLINTA:

Woman, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-Binary, Trans, and Agender Individuals. The term comes from a German Acronym. The F stands for Frauen, which translates in English to women. Because of the acronym, it is frequently translated incorrectly as female.

💡 We trust attendees to respect the spirit of this space. We reserve the right to remove anyone—sapphic or not—whose actions misalign with our values or breach our Community Guidelines. Honor this privileged space as you would your own home.

⛓️🎀 Dress Code Inspiration

Choose your allegiance—or create your own hybrid aesthetic.

Go full gothic royalty, pastel princess, punk menace, candy-colored troublemaker, or dark fairy with a sweet tooth.

We welcome all bodies, expressions, and interpretations. You don't have to fit neatly into either category to belong. Inspirations:

• Gothic finery
• Black lace, leather, velvet
• Fishnets, chains, chokers
• Industrial, punk, and goth clubwear
• Pastel-punk rebels
• Baby pink, lavender, mint, powder blue
• Tulle, bows, ruffles, fluffy textures
• Fairy kei, kawaii, and dreamy glam

We encourage everyone to dress in theme, but kink gear, fet wear, leather, latex, sexy attire and cocktail lounge wear are always welcomed.

What to Avoid:

1. Casual wear like jeans, T-shirts, or sneakers.
2. Glitter

✨ Energy of the Night

This is a celebration of contrast, queer expression, and the joy of being unapologetically yourself.

Expect role play rivalries, chemistry, dramatic fashion, and a room full of people who understand that opposites don't just attract—they can make magic together.

Will the Goths claim the night?

Will the Pastels take over?

Or will the two sides unite in beautiful, chaotic harmony?

You'll have to show up to find out.

Pick your side. Find your people. Embrace your contradictions.

ABOUT US

At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.📸 Connect with us on Instagram @pagansparadise, Alana @princess.babybabe

📩 Join our newsletter at www.pagansparadise.com.📧 Any questions or concerns? Email us at PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com.Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years. The space is inclusive, welcoming, and consent-driven.

Join the event chat, and connect with people before: https://plra.io/m/org/pagans-paradise

COSTS

Tier 1 (Lowest Price): $55 - Limited tickets available—grab yours early to save!

Tier 2: $65 - Available until sold out

Tier 3 (Standard Price): $75

Door Price: $80 - Subject to capacity.

21+ age to join.

LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds or exchanges will not be provided. No refunds for this event.

(Refunds will not be given if you did not read who this is for and got tickets incorrectly)

IMPORTANT NOTICE

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.