*An enchanting evening awaits, steeped in refined protocol, the elegance of white-glove silver service, and the delicate interplay of power and pleasure.*
At the core of this FemDom-centered affair lies a tribute to high protocol etiquette, authority, and the exquisite nuances of intentional power dynamics. Our evening commences with a formal four-course dinner, artfully presented with the grace of white-gloved silver service, before seamlessly evolving into an intimate play party and cigar social.
This soirée is designed for Dominants (with one remaining spot for a non-female identifying Dominant, personally known to Slayr) and service-oriented submissives of all identities who appreciate the sophistication of high protocol and the allure of a meticulously crafted ambiance.
*Femdoms, Femtops, lifestyle or professional, and domestic service submissives of any identity are warmly welcomed. This High Protocol Dinner is suited for those with experience; we kindly ask that inexperienced submissives or those requiring aftercare refrain from attending. Space is limited, and vetting must be completed promptly, as the event will reach capacity.* *To honor our community values, attendance is exclusive to active members of one year or more, who share established mutual connections within our circle.*
**The Dinner Experience**
• A sumptuous four-course menu, lovingly curated by Slayr’s personal chef
• Impeccable White Glove Silver Service
• Formal seating arrangements
• High-protocol etiquette woven throughout the evening
• Vegan options available
Throughout dinner, we shall focus on the art of protocol, engaging conversation, and the elegance of service. This dining experience is not a play session; we kindly request that all attendees uphold the ambiance of refinement and decorum that defines our enchanting dinner service.
**Evening Schedule** (Timeliness is paramount)
3:30 PM Doors Open
4:00 PM – Arrival of submissives for high protocol training and table placements. (Submissives must arrive on time, prepared for training, and service. Exact roles will be discussed and assigned the week prior to the event.)
5:45-6:00 PM – Arrival of Dominants and introductions.
6:30 PM – Introductions of submissives.
7:00 PM – The exquisite dinner service begins.
9:00 PM – Dessert and coffee are served.
9:30 PM – Transition into socializing and play.
9:30 PM – 11:00 PM – Open socializing, a cigar lounge, and D/s play.
**After Dinner**
As the dinner service concludes and the duties of service are fulfilled, the evening transforms into a more relaxed and inviting atmosphere. Guests are warmly invited to enjoy:
• A delightful cigar and engaging conversation
• Negotiated Dominant/submissive play
**Dress Code**
Elegant attire is essential.
**Dominants:**
Formal evening wear, leather, fetish fashion, cocktail attire, or clothing that reflects your authority and personal style. Genitals must be covered during dinner service and in all outside areas at all times.
**Submissives:**
All-black formal attire. A keen attention to grooming, presentation, and protocol is expected. Genitals must be covered during dinner service and in all outside areas at all times.
**Protocol Expectations**
This gathering embraces high protocol. While attendees shall never face punishment for minor missteps, a deep respect for the structure of the evening is essential.
Courtesy, attentiveness, discretion, and reverence for authority dynamics are paramount. More information will be shared regarding exact protocols for the evening for both sides of the slash.
**Consent and Conduct**
Consent is sacred. All play must be consensual and negotiated, honoring the designated spaces.
This is an immersive event, and attendees are expected to be aware of their personal risk levels.
Attendance is limited to vetted 12 Dominants and 12 submissives, ensuring an intimate and thoughtfully curated atmosphere.
If you find joy in the elegance of service, the beauty of protocol, and the power of intentional D/s dynamics, we warmly invite you to join us at Slayr's Table.
**General Things to Know:**
**Transportation/Accessibility.**
Public Transportation:
Fruitvale Bart: 30-minute walk/11-minute bike ride.
AC Transit: Lines 20, 21, 19.
Ferry: The ferry is a lovely option for those coming from SF. A ride-share may be necessary from the Alameda terminal, as some bus services may be limited.
**Parking.** Street parking is available, though a short walk may be required. Please be mindful of the small driveways in the neighborhood and refrain from blocking any. If closer parking is needed, especially for those bringing more items, please contact the house ahead of time, and we shall do our utmost to accommodate. **Submissives** should park on a cross street to allow closer spots for Dominant guests.
**Front Steps Entrance:** 4 Cement Steps. No Railings.
**Back Steps to the Garden:** 4 Wooden Steps with treads; a Railing is provided.
**1 Bathroom.** While our singular bathroom may lack a locking door, its heated bidet is a delightful luxury. Upon exiting, please leave the door ajar and refrain from entering if the door is closed.
A smoking area awaits in the backyard.
**Pets.** Our home is graced by both a dog and a cat. The space will be cleaned on the day of the event, with HEPA filters running and windows open. Cat roams freely, while the dog will be in the dog run in the side yard.
**Scent Sensitivity.** The soaps in our home have fragrance; it is not scent-free. Strong body odor without deodorant is not appreciated. Good hygiene is essential.
**Etiquette.** We kindly ask that you refrain from conversations that may dampen the spirit of the evening, such as personal tragedies, politics, debates, religion, or other heavy topics. Let us help maintain the playful tone and environment of the event.
**Play** is permitted, though space is limited, and no specific area is designated. Please note that breath play and scat play are not allowed. Everyone is responsible for their own aftercare needs.
**Photos.** (With the prior consent of all parties involved) Please be mindful of backgrounds, and refrain from taking photos in the kitchen or in front of the piano.
Location details will be provided the day prior to the event.
East Bay San Francisco Oakland Bay Area.
White Gloves will be provided.