IncognitoSD Presents Sleepy Hollow: Wide Awake

Spooky season at Incognito SD features our first annual Play Party, Sleepy Hollow: Wide Awake. This is a swinger forward party with BDSM features and spaces.

All attendees must apply for vetting to be eligible to purchase tickets.

• Doors open at 8:30pm and the mandatory orientation is at 9:30pm. Doors close at 10:30pm. No exceptions.
• Wristband system: green wristbands will be provided to attendees who are cleared with verified STI testing within two weeks of the event.
• Attire is sexy but full coverage until inside the venue is absolutely necessary. On-theme is encouraged but not mandatory.
• Designated dungeon access included.
• Light snacks and non-alcoholic refreshments provided.

$150 for couples, $100 for single males, and $75 for single females.

More details will be provided with invitations.

Apply at incognitosd.com/sleepyhollow. Use the password sleepyhollow when prompted.

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We're less than 2 weeks out! Here are some FAQ's that get into the details if you have any burning questions but tickets are selling out so if you haven't applied and purchased your ticket yet, make sure you do soon!

Q, DO THAVE TO BE A MEMBER TO ATTEND?

A. No! The party is open to members and non-members alike. Of course it helps us know who you are already, but still fill out an application for the event regardless.

IncognitoSD membership does have its other perks, though, like the option to rent the space for personal use such as content shoots, private sessions, or even your own parties. That, plus discounted access to our other social and educational events. All of that is outlined on our website but you can always hit us up if you have questions

Q. DO WE HAVE TO COME IN COSTUME?

A. Absolutely not, but arriving dressed to the theme is certainly encouraged! You don't have stay in costume either, nor do we expect you to; inside you can wear as little or as much as you'd like, but please make sure you're clothed outside to respect our surroundings.

Just keep it classy - this is an exclusive, cultivated event and each attendee is expected show up looking respectable so, at a minimum, no street clothes.

Q. IS THIS EXCLUSIVELY FOR PEOPLE INTO BDSM?

A. This is a play-possible party that is welcoming to swingers and kinksters of all kinds and not just those into dungeon play. In fact, you don't have to play at all, but can just socialize and enjoy the party.

Our downstairs will be more accommodating space-wise for "general activities" than usual but we'll still have much of our dungeon furniture out and available. Our Rose Asylum is not open yet but the Ballroom and Glow Room will be fully decked out. The upstairs great room will also be open for the party.

Q. DO I HAVE TO GET STD TESTED TO ATTEND?

A. No, current STD/STI testing is not mandatory for attendance but we do encourage it if you plan on playing with new partners. We'll be using a wristband system so attendees can easily recognize others who have provided current negative STD tests. From there, it's the honor system.

It's up to you whether you want to wear a wristband or approach someone without a wristband but if you do play with someone without one, you're expected to forfeit yours.

The goal is to help create a safe environment, not police people’s health. If you have questions about what testing is right for you personally or in general, please discuss this with your medical provider.

Q. WHAT STD TESTS ARE EXPECTED AND WHEN?

A. If you want a wristband, we are requiring a standard panel of negative STD/STI tests performed within 2 weeks of the event (between 10/10-10/24). You don't have to provide these ahead of time but can present a copy on arrival.

A complete panel includes genital gonorrhea and chlamydia (and also oral or anal if appropriate), HIV, syphilis, and hepatitis. It does not include HSV or other active genital infections, but we do expect attendees to disclose these and forego a wristband, if applicable.

The date's coming up soon so let us know if you have any questions!

-INSD