🧑‍🎓🍎😈 Slut Era Semester: Back to School, Pt. 3: Creating Your Safer Sex Elevator Speech 💬💕🛗

Know What You Need To Say — And Hear — So YOU Can Have a Kick-Ass Safer Sex Conversation!

Summer might be over... Your Slut Era doesn’t have to be. 🍂🎃❤️‍🔥

It’s Week 3 of your Slut Era Semester, and tonight we’re studying a subject almost everybody knows they’re supposed to understand...

But hardly anybody actually got taught:

How the heck do you have “The Talk?!” 😳💬

If you’re going to fill your autumn and winter with pleasure, romance, intimacy, dating, hookups, and shenanigans...

Why not feel more confident that your safer-sex conversation is on point?

Consider this your study guide. 📝😈

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CLASS DESCRIPTION

Pop quiz! 📝

Someone you’re excited about asks:

“When were you last tested?”

Do you...

A) Answer confidently

B) Ask some useful questions of your own

C) Clearly explain your needs, boundaries, and risk tolerances

D) Suddenly forget every word you’ve ever learned and consider fleeing the room 😳

If you picked D...

You. Are. Not. Alone.

We all know we’re “supposed” to have The Talk before we get our freak on...

But who actually taught us what to INCLUDE?!

What should you share?

What do you want to ask?

How much information is enough?

What does someone else’s answer actually tell you?

How do you talk about STIs without turning the conversation into an awkward medical intake form?

And how do you figure out your own needs first, so you’re not trying to invent them while somebody sexy is staring at you?

Safer-sex conversations are skills.

And skills can be learned. 🧑‍🎓

Join internationally known sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, creator of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech, for a LIVE, 2-hour Zoom class designed to help you create a safer-sex conversation that is informed, useful, shame-free, and customized to YOU.

And here’s something people sometimes forget...

A GREAT safer-sex conversation can be HOT. 🔥

Why?

Because hearing someone clearly communicate about their sexual health, boundaries, desires, testing, and needs tells you a LOT.

It tells you they’ve thought about this stuff.

It gives you useful information for making your own decisions.

It shows you something about how they communicate.

And if someone can use their words before you get naked...

That may give you more information about how they’ll use their words during whatever you decide to do together. 😈

Knowing your shit?

#THATIsSexy.

In this LIVE, 2-hour Zoom workshop, we’ll nerd out on:

💬 What “safer sex” actually means — and what it doesn’t

🛠️ Harm Reduction and Risk Reduction approaches to sexual health

🛗 Reid’s P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Safer Sex Elevator Speech framework so you don’t have to reinvent “The Talk” every single time

❤️‍🩹 The difference between health safety factors and emotional safety factors

🧠 Why separating different kinds of risk and safety can make these conversations clearer and less overwhelming

🧪 STI testing basics and useful questions you may want to ask

🦠 Less-scary ways to educate yourself about STIs and think through what different risks mean for YOU

🛡️ Figuring out your own barrier and risk-reduction needs

💬 What you may want to share — and what you may want to HEAR

👂 How to listen for useful information in someone else’s answers

🎯 How to communicate your needs, boundaries, desires, and risk tolerances clearly

💕 How to choose lovers and play partners whose choices and communication are compatible with your standards

🤝 Ways to respond with more care and less shame when someone discloses an STI diagnosis or exposure

And, of course...

We’ll have time for questions, worksheets, laughs, examples, and plenty of #BrainSex. 🧠💦

Why create an “Elevator Speech?”

Because you shouldn’t need a 47-slide PowerPoint presentation every time someone cute wants to make out with you. 😂

The goal isn’t to memorize some robotic script.

And it’s definitely not about saying all the “right” words so somebody agrees to have sex with you.

It’s about getting familiar enough with your own information, questions, needs, boundaries, and risk tolerances that you can communicate them clearly...

And give the other person room to do the same.

Good communication isn’t a trick for getting a YES.

It helps everybody have better information for deciding what their authentic YES, NO, or MAYBE actually is.

And THAT is useful information.

This class might be especially useful if...

😬 You dread having “The Talk”

🤷 You aren’t really sure what you’re supposed to disclose or ask

🧪 STI testing terminology makes your eyes glaze over

😳 You know what you want to say until there’s an actual sexy human in front of you

💬 You want to get better at talking about barriers, testing, boundaries, or risk

💕 You’d like these conversations to feel less clinical and more human

🧠 You want an actual framework you can return to rather than making everything up from scratch

🔥 Or you simply want your communication skills to be as sexy as the activities you’re communicating about

No perfect answers required.

This is school, remember? You’re allowed to be here to LEARN. 🧑‍🎓

You’ll leave with:

🛗 A deeper understanding of Reid’s P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Safer Sex Elevator Speech

💬 A clearer sense of what YOU may need to say

👂 Better questions and a clearer idea of what you need to hear

🛡️ More awareness of your own health and emotional-safety considerations

🎯 A framework you can customize for your actual life

😂 Hopefully a few laughs about a topic that doesn’t have to feel so terrifying

🔥 And more confidence when it’s time to use your words

Be the person who knows what they need.

Be the person who can ask good questions.

Be the person who knows their shit. #THATIsSexy 😈

🎓 THIS IS WEEK 3 OF YOUR SLUT ERA SEMESTER!

Your “Slut Era” doesn’t have to mean sleeping with a bunch of people.

Though it certainly can. 😇

Maybe your Slut Era means...

More pleasure with your long-term partner.

More confidence dating or flirting.

Better hookups.

More cuddling.

More lovers.

Deeper intimacy with the lover(s) you already have.

Exploring fantasies.

Finding new communities.

Speaking up for what you want.

Or simply getting more intentional about your love and sex life.

Your Slut Era gets to mean whatever YOU want it to mean.

And slutty doesn’t have to mean chaotic.

Maybe all you need is a kick-ass syllabus! 😈📚

Tonight’s assignment?

Upgrade “The Talk.” 💬💕🛗

🗓️ LIVE + REPLAY DETAILS

Tuesday, September 15th, 2026

5:30–7:30pm PACIFIC / 8:30–10:30pm EASTERN

LIVE on Zoom

Can’t attend LIVE?

No detention. 😇

The LIVE call will be recorded and available to all ticket holders for 7 days after the class. And if you miss the replay window, you’ll get lifetime access to the original class recording plus all worksheets and handouts!

No need to hold yourself back a grade. 🧑‍🎓

📚 TAKE THE WHOLE SLUT ERA SEMESTER!

Join Reid for one class — or come back to school for all four Tuesday nights:

❤️‍🩹💋 WEEK 1 — SEPTEMBER 1

Hookups Without Heartache

Taking Your Casual Sex Seriously!

Replay available!

Bit.ly/hookups-without-heartache

🌶️🪣💕😈 WEEK 2 — SEPTEMBER 8

Building Your Spicy Bucket List

Get Clear About What You Actually Want!

Replay available!

Bit.ly/build-your-bucket-list

💬💕🛗 WEEK 3 — SEPTEMBER 15

Creating Your Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Know What You Need To Say — And Hear!

Bit.ly/safersextalk

✅🤩❤️‍🔥 WEEK 4 — SEPTEMBER 22

Creating Your Slut Era Game Plan

Stop Guessing. Start Caressing.

Bit.ly/slut-era-game-plan

All four classes are Tuesdays, LIVE on Zoom from 5:30–7:30pm PACIFIC / 8:30–10:30pm EASTERN.

Come to the class that calls to you most...

Or enroll in the whole darn semester.

YOU. DO. YOU. It’s your education, after all.

Let’s declare pleasure your major this school year! 🎓🍎😈

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Everything comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee.

Join us. Do the class. Watch the replay. Dive into the materials.

And if you think Reid wasted your time, just ask for your money back!

Boom! Done! 👍

How’s THAT for taking the risk out of going back to school?

ABOUT REID...

As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler and HBO's "Sex Diaries," Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 80,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

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