A monthly impact workshop presented by Praxium and NyxieNoc & Rain DeGrey- in San Francisco!

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Impact can be more than a moment. It can be a story you build, stretch, and savor.

Join Nyx and special guest @RainDeGrey for a rare, in-person collaboration exploring how ritual, pacing, and tension shape an unforgettable impact scene—from the first glance to the final aftercare. This class dives into the full arc of play: the rituals that build anticipation, the rhythms that carry you through impact, and the intentional choices that guide the landing afterward. Whether subtle or elaborate, ritual creates meaning. It gives structure to power, texture to sensation, and depth to connection.

You’ll explore how to:

• Build tension before a single strike lands
• Use rhythm, voice, and presence to sustain and shift intensity
• Integrate ritual into impact itself for both escalation and release
• Close scenes in ways that feel grounded, satisfying, and complete

From simple dynamics like a structured reprimand, to more immersive archetypes and scenarios, you’ll see how small, intentional choices can transform impact into something cohesive and deeply felt. Expect demonstration, discussion, and the rare opportunity to witness two seasoned presenters weaving their approaches together in real time.

Doors open at 6:30 PM. No entry after 8:30PM.

The Venue

This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to praxium@afterdark-sf.com

Entry

• Presale tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.
• Doors open at 6:30PM. Doors close at 8:30PM and there will be no late entry so please arrive early and plan accordingly.

Inclusivity

• We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructors

• NyxieNoc (any/all pronouns) is a kink presenter, community organizer, and Program Coordinator at Praxium, with a background as a former sex worker, content producer, and consultant. Known for bringing fresh, expansive, and creative perspectives to kink, Nyx has presented for AfterDark, Let it Reign, New Mexico Leather League, Service Oriented Conference, the Portland Leather Alliance, Boundless Events, Nocturnal Events, Bonobo Network, Sex Positive World, DomCon, Kinky Kollege, and Sex Geek Summer Camp. Their teaching emphasizes the power of consent and agency as foundations for safer, more intentional play, while also inviting participants to embrace playful curiosity, imagination, and edge in their explorations. Fun, dynamic, and deeply invested in equity and inclusion, Nyx creates spaces where people can grow, connect, and discover new ways to experience kink with authenticity and joy.
• Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, Kink Academy, Kinkfest, SOJ, PLA, Pure Pleasure, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon in Germany. Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, RISK!, Bawdy Storytelling, Mystery Box Theatre, and she is a multiple crown winner of the Dirty Talk Game Show.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com