Spank Jam: Multi-Player Mode - An Impact Workshop

Presented by AfterDark and NyxieNoc - in San Francisco!

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Impact scenes do not have to stop at two people.

This month’s SpankJam explores the unique energy, communication, creativity, and coordination involved in multi-person impact scenes. From multiple tops working together, to shared scenes with several bottoms, to structured impact games and rotating dynamics, we will dive into the physical and psychological logistics of expanding play beyond one-on-one interaction.

We’ll discuss:

• Negotiating multi-person scenes
• Communication and consent in fast-moving environments
• Managing attention, pacing, and emotional bandwidth
• Safety considerations with multiple participants
• Building rhythm and flow between several players
• Impact games and playful scene structures
• Creating group scenes that feel collaborative instead of chaotic

Expect demonstrations, discussion, and practical strategies for making larger impact scenes feel intentional, connected, and fun for everyone involved. This class is great for curious beginners, experienced players looking to expand their scene skills, and anyone interested in the social and connective possibilities of group play.

Doors open at 6:30 PM. No entry after 8:30PM.

Event Rules & Guidelines

Our lab-style workshops are community-centered educational events focused on skill sharing and learning, not play parties. Guests are expected to bring their own tools, sanitize shared equipment before and after use, and respect the house manager, Dungeon Monitor, and staff. Sex of any kind, breath play or simulated breath play, restraint across the front of the neck, fire, candles, vaping, and smoking are not permitted. These events are not for cruising; please watch from a respectful distance and avoid commenting or intruding on other guest’s labbing experiences, including during aftercare. All AfterDark Events are 18+.

The Venue

This event will take place at Paradox, at 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to info@afterdark-events.com.

Entry

• Doors open at 6:30PM. Doors close at 8:30PM and there will be no late entry so please arrive early and plan accordingly.
• Advance tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• Community Angel Tickets contribute to affordable kink education for those who need it. These tickets help keep classes affordable and help fund Financial Access Tickets to those in need. Please consider supporting our community if you are able.
• We have a limited number of financial access tickets available. If you are in need of a financial access ticket, please email us at info@afterdark-events.com
• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.

Inclusivity & Safety

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required.

About Your Instructor

NyxieNoc (any/all pronouns) is a kink presenter, community organizer, and Program Coordinator at Praxium, with a background as a former sex worker, content producer, and consultant. Known for bringing fresh, expansive, and creative perspectives to kink, Nyx has presented for AfterDark, Let it Reign, New Mexico Leather League, Service Oriented Conference, the Portland Leather Alliance,Boundless Events, Nocturnal Events, Bonobo Network, Sex Positive World, DomCon,Kinky Kollege, and Sex Geek Summer Camp. Their teaching emphasizes the power of consent and agency as foundations for safer, more intentional play, while also inviting participants to embrace playful curiosity, imagination, and edge in their explorations. Fun, dynamic, and deeply invested in equity and inclusion, Nyx creates spaces where people can grow, connect, and discover new ways to experience kink with authenticity and joy.

About AfterDark Events

AfterDark Events is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group that organizes exciting, inclusive, curated kink and sex-positive events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community.

Find us on FetLife, Plura, Instagram, and Forbidden Tickets.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We are dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge and honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, our events provide opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at info@afterdark-events.com