Spark: A Couples Workshop to Turn Up the Electricity

You already know how to be partners. Come remember what it feels like to be lovers.

You can love the hell out of someone and still get a little too good at running a life together.

Calendars. Dinner. Work. Laundry. Plans. Bills.

Excellent teamwork.

Not always a lot of heat.

Spark is a two-hour guided date night for couples who want more of the part that gets buried underneath all of that:

flirting, attraction, anticipation, curiosity, play, and the delicious feeling that the person you know so well can still surprise you.

Nothing has to be wrong.

You don’t need to fix your relationship.

You’re here to turn your attention toward each other and see what happens.

What happens at Spark

I’ll guide you through a progression of experiences that start easy and gradually become more playful and charged.

You’ll explore what helps each of you open toward desire, what quietly pulls you away from it, and what makes each of you feel genuinely wanted.

You’ll experiment with attention, words, space, flirting, proximity, anticipation, and letting attraction be visible without immediately needing to do anything about it.

Because desire gets a lot more interesting when it doesn’t become obligation.

You can want your partner. You can let them know. And both of you still get to choose what happens next.

Everything is fully clothed.

Every intimate experience is with your own partner.

Everything is opt-in.

No performing for the room.

Just the two of you getting unusually curious about each other.

You might especially like Spark if…

You’re happy together, but sometimes feel more like partners in the business of life than lovers.

You miss flirting with each other.

You want date night to include more than a nice meal.

You’re curious about what actually makes your partner feel wanted.

Or you simply think there should still be things to discover after you’ve known someone for a while.

You get way more than a great date night.

Your ticket includes:

• Your Spark Map gives you a personalized picture of what helps each of you move toward desire and what makes you feel most wanted.
• Flirting That Lands This guide helps you translate what you learn about your partner into words, attention, gestures, energy, and pacing that works for them
• The Date Night Guide Three date-night blueprints built around the feeling you want to create together.
• 7 Days of Spark For the week after the workshop, you’ll get one tiny invitation each day to keep playing with what you discovered.
• 1 Private 45-minute Spark Integration Session with Heather so the things you discover in the room have somewhere to go afterward.

About Heather

I’m Heather Atles.

I help people get better at the parts of intimacy that don’t become easy just because you love each other.

My work includes desire, pleasure, attraction, boundaries, shame, flirting, kink, asking for what you want, saying what you don’t, and creating intimate relationships that have room for both wanting and choice.

I’m certified in the Somatica™ Method and bring more than 20 years of work in shame resiliency, pleasure, and embodied connection.

Spark is playful, experiential, and very much meant to be lived rather than analyzed.

Saturday, September 19 · 6–8pm

Mission Yoga · San Francisco

Early Bird: $147 per couple through September 11

General Admission: $197 per couple

One ticket includes both partners.

Limited to 10 couples.

The workshop ends at 8. What happens next is up to you.