Swipe Right IRL: Poly Speed Dating Event

Like speed dating, but queerer, non-monogamous, and way less awkward.

Tired of swiping? Same. Swipe Right IRL is a structured, low-pressure connection event for people who are consensually non-monogamous — or exploring CNM — and want to meet other humans face-to-face. Think speed dating, but without the gender binary, the weird assumptions, or the pressure to force every interaction into one narrow box.

Here, every conversation is a chance for connection — whether that looks like friendship, flirtation, romance, community, or something you can’t quite name yet. You’ll have a series of short one-on-one conversations in a queer- and nonbinary-inclusive environment designed to make meeting new people feel easier, more grounded, and a lot more human.

Come as you are: awkward, charming, shy, sparkling, curious, hopeful - just bring your full weird, wonderful self. The only requirement is that you identify as polyamorous, open, or otherwise consensually non-monogamous, and that you’re showing up in search of real connection. This event is consent-centered, welcoming, and open to the many ways people connect.