The Alchemy of Fire Play w/ @MrKiltYou
- Hosted by Nocturnal Events
- Hayward, CA -
- 13 people on the list-
"You are playing with fire here."
Are you fascinated by the danger and intensity of fire? Ready to harness its power into a tool that heats up your steaming scenes? Join us at the comprehensive Fire Play 101 workshop, where you'll learn all the essential must-knows when incorporating fire into your BDSM experiences!
In the workshop, we will include...
- Safety and risk management for fire play
- Equipment and setup
- Contact-based fire play using torches
- Demo and Technique
- Optional hands-on exercise if it's within your risk profile
🎟️ Get Your Tickets Here
Event: The Alchemy of Fire Play w/ @MrKiltYou
Date: 21 April, 2024 (Sunday)
Time: 3pm - 7pm
Location: Hayward
(You will receive the address in your confirmation email)
Schedule
3pm: Door Opens
3:15pm - 4:15pm: Lecture
4:15 - 5:30pm: Demo and Hands-on exercise
5:30pm - 6pm: Wind down & Clean up
What should you bring?
Just bring yourself and your notebook! If you are planning to participate in the hands-on exercises, please bring the aftercare essentials for yourself (and your partner.)
The Presenter
Meet @MrKiltYou, a seasoned kinkster with over two decades of passionate involvement in the community. @MrKiltYou have explored the myriad facets of kink, from Shibari to impact play, needle play to fire play, DDLG, and beyond. His journey in service to the BDSM community has been diverse, ranging from conducting facility tours to managing play spaces and co-orchestrating the largest bondage exhibition at Folsom Street Fair for five years.
General Rules
Any violation of the rules might result in a hard ban from our future events. We might also share the incident report to other kink groups, especially in case of severe consent violations.
- Age Restriction: 18+ event.
- Consent matters. Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings. When in doubt, always ask first. Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “no.” and don’t ask again.
- Inclusivity is vital. Create a safe space free from hate speech. Welcome all roles, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, and experiences.
- Cleanliness. Clean up after yourself and respect the venue. It is hard to find kink-friendly space, and we hope this will be an on-going event.
- Preserve the Venue. No vandalism or access to restricted areas.
- Do not share details or the location of the venue with non-attendees. Keep event details and venue location private. Direct inquiries to @Nocturnal_Events.
- Dress vanilla outside of the event area. Be discreet. If you wish to step outside, please at least wear a big coat over your kink wear.
- Nudity is okay, but no penetrative & oral sex. Penetrative & oral sex is not allowed for any gender/orientation (including fingering). Please limit your sensual play on genitals to foreplay only: touching, tying, vibrating, rubbing, slapping, etc. Always put down a mat under your play area if you are planning to be fully naked.
- No Glitter.
- The Hosts are here to help, but not here to parent you.
If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the Host, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.
While we strive to create a safer space, we cannot oversee everything. Use your own judgment when vetting play partners, seek references, ask questions, and trust your instincts if something feels off.
Covid Stuff
- Vaccination is a must. You are considered fully vaccinated two weeks or more after receiving the final dose in a two-dose series (Pfizer-BioNTech or Moderna) or two weeks or more after receiving a single-dose vaccine authorized by the World Health Organization.
- Mask is recommended, but not required. There will be disinfecting wipes / spray and paper towels, and hand sanitizer.
- If you feel sick, stay home.