The Art of Nipple Pleasure

An exploratory workshop in pleasure & sensation

Everyone remembers an unexpectedly great touch.

What makes nipple touch feel incredible?

Is it technique? Timing? Pressure? Anticipation? Temperature? Confidence? Or the way someone explores the surrounding skin before finally touching the nipple?

Nipples are highly sensitive for many of us, which means the right touch can create pleasure throughout the body. But everyone experiences sensation differently—what feels incredible to one person might feel ticklish, overwhelming, or completely neutral to someone else.

In this playful, educational workshop, we’ll explore the art of nipple and chest pleasure. You’ll learn how communication, anticipation, and variation can make touch more exciting, while discovering techniques involving temperature, pressure, vibration, and different styles of sensation.

Come with someone you’d enjoy exploring with. Bring a partner, a date, a friend with benefits, or someone you’ve been looking for an excuse to get closer to.

Throughout the evening, you’ll have opportunities to practice what you learn through guided exercises—all at your own comfort level.

Every activity is optional and based on enthusiastic consent. There is no expectation to remove clothing, switch partners, or participate in any particular exercise. You’re always welcome to observe, sit something out, or change your mind at any time.

This is an 18+ educational workshop.

Host Bio

Niki Davis-Fainbloom (she/her) is a Canadian-born, New York–based sex educator, researcher, author, and coach. Her work combines up-to-date research, humor, and practical tools to help people build healthier, more satisfying relationships. Since earning her master's degree from New York University, she has facilitated more than 500 sexuality education workshops at organizations including Planned Parenthood, New York University, and the United Nations. Her writing has been featured in MindBodyGreen, Cosmopolitan, and Insider, and her forthcoming book, Fetish: Smash Taboos and Celebrate What Turns You On (Hachette/Balance), explores the psychology, science, and culture of human desire while helping readers approach fetishes with curiosity rather than shame. Find her on Instagram @missbloomsexeducator.

✨Location: Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.

✨Full vaccination against Covid 19 is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.

✨Consent Policy: This is an ASK FIRST event and the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading the policy and behaving appropriately. Please click here to read our consent policy in full.

✨Membership: This event is open to the public. We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed.

Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. You are welcome to inquire at the event about how to join our community. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community.