The BAMMS Holiday Party

[This event is primarily promoted on Whappz, as well as other places like Fetlife, and usually has 50-90 attendees, which won’t be reflected in RSVPs here]

The nights are growing longer, the holidays are approaching, and the naughty list is filling up fast!

Join BAMMS for a festive holiday gathering filled with mischief, sizzling hot fun, cherry-red bottoms and merry mingling at the Folsom Street Center—home of the world-famous Folsom Street Fair!

Come safely and consensually explore your spanking interests and fantasies, from real discipline and traditional corporal punishment to playful and erotic spanking, classic roleplays and dom/sub power exchanges.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Our front lounge offers a relaxed, friendly atmosphere for meeting and chatting with like-minded people, with plentiful food and refreshments and free storage for belongings.

Our large first-floor playspace features a mix of public and more private areas, while the cozier upstairs playspace offers semi-private nooks and a designated Lavender Zone for more sexual activity.

BAMMS parties are primarily geared toward and attended by men, adult boys/bois, male-identifying/presenting and masculine-of-center people interested in m/m spanking. However, all adults 18+ are welcome, regardless of gender, sexuality, ethnicity, background or experience level.

Newcomers are especially welcome! We know attending your first party can feel intimidating, so our friendly hosts and newcomer ambassadors are available to answer questions, help you feel comfortable and make introductions. There's never any pressure to play.

Consent, respect, inclusivity and communication are central to our events, with clear House Rules and friendly monitors helping maintain a welcoming environment.

Since bringing our parties back during Pride 2025, we've received wonderful feedback and are building an amazing, friendly community. Whether you're a regular or a first-timer, we'd love to celebrate the holidays with you!

ADMISSION & ACCESSIBILITY

Everyone must be 18+, present valid ID, agree to our House Rules and sign a waiver.

Standard admission is $40.

Recognizing that financial means generally increase with age, and wanting to make our parties accessible to younger people who may have limited resources, we offer the following discounts:

Under 30: 75% discount ($10)

Under 40: 50% discount ($20)

Under 50: 25% discount ($30)

Advance tickets are available through Forbidden Tickets. Cash at the door is preferred, and Cash App is also accepted.

GETTING HERE

Easy by transit or car! We're about three blocks from Civic Center BART/Muni, with plenty of non-metered parking on nearby side streets.

FULL DETAILS

Visit www.sfbamms.org for complete event information, House Rules, newcomer guidance, directions and more.

Come reconnect with familiar faces, make exciting new connections and help us close out the year with a deliciously naughty holiday celebration!