The Gathering- A Noir Collective Social

Join us for an evening of cupcakes, cocktails, conversation, and community at The Gathering: a relaxed, vanilla social designed for submissive-identifying and s-type individuals looking to connect in a welcoming, low-pressure environment.

Whether you’re a service sweetheart, soft-spoken sub, chaotic brat, shy newcomer, seasoned s-type, or a switch leaning into your submissive side for the evening — there’s a seat at the table for you here.

The evening begins at 6:30 PM with cupcakes, conversation, and collective decompression before transitioning into cocktails and late-night lingering nearby around 7:30 PM.

Expect:

✦ good company

✦ thoughtful conversation

✦ warm, welcoming energy

✦ the kind of conversations that somehow last three hours

A few important notes:

No men.

No dominants.

No exceptions disguised as “technicalities.”

This space is intentionally curated for women and gender non-conforming s-types and submissive-identifying individuals. Switches are welcome when attending in community with their submissive side.

At its core, The Gathering exists to create softer spaces within kink — spaces centered around friendship, laughter, collective care, and authentic connection.

So wear something that makes you feel your best, order the second cocktail, and come gather with us.

Connect. Unwind. Belong.

— Noir Collective