Have questions, comments, or need help? Contact the event coordinator via email at exposedpagan@gmail.com or simply comment in the event chat and we will get back to you as soon as possible.
For payment-related inquiries, contact the venue owner at aphroditehopetantra@gmail.com
To purchase tickets via Eventbrite, follow this link:
This is a newbie event, aimed at helping those who may be anxious or unsure about joining the SD Kink community. We are LGBTQ+, BIPOC, and Femme friendly. This space is run by queer femme hosts, no hatred will be tolerated.
Yes, straight allies are welcome! Newbie nights allow men, women, and everyone in between to attend.
Being Tantra based, our goal is to create a deeply connected environment. The opening circle exercises are designed so that by the time the "free play" begins, everyone is comfortable with everyone else. While every party is different based on the energy in the room, this almost always happens.
Also, we seek to create a space that is not only guilt and shame free, but hopes to overcome any past feelings of too-much or not-enoughness. All parts of you are warmly welcomed! This is a great space to "try on" a different version of yourself that you might normally hide or fear expressing.
And we are VERY poly/ENM friendly.
This is a grownups playground where almost anything consensual that people want to do together is ok! From mild affection, sensual massage, cuddling, snuggling, and kissing, to deeply intimate sexual experiences! This is a space to ask for (and possibly receive) your desires completely shame-free! No violence to others or the space at any time is allowed, and nobody ever has to play at this party.
The agreements to be discussed by the facilitators during the opening circle will emphasize security for everyone. You can then explore within your comfort zone, while taking full personal responsibility for your decisions and interactions. Whether this is your first play party or you’ve just come out to support our newcomers, we want you to find this a safe space to enjoy yourself. Our play party is an event of fun, freedom, and sensual adventure!
Being present for the opening circle is required of everyone, as is abiding by the agreements of the event. Also expected are that everyone act with integrity. Cl0th1ng is 0pt1onal. Please arrive between 7:30pm - 8:00pm to be allowed to attend. Doors will close to those who have not attended the opening circle.
We hope you enjoy meeting other interesting and like-minded people and have a great time!
"Conscious space to meet people willing to provide what you ask"
"Very Mind/Soul/Body expanding (belief changing experience)"
“Hosted in a way that was friendly to first time participants. Guided in a way that was clear 4 what was happening. There were no unknowns for expectations. Nice & welcoming group.”
Opening Circle (connection exercises, guidelines & agreements, newbie questions)
Free time!
Closing Circle
Goodbyes & Clean up
Our events are only open to legal adults (18+). Physical interactions should only be within the boundaries of full consent. Consent means being clear on what you are comfortable with and want to do and do not want to do. For example, only a verbal “Yes” means yes; anything else (including “Maybe” and “No”) mean no. By being fully clear, misunderstandings are avoided. Consent also means honoring the limitations of others.
Dress comfortably and sexy!
No wearing shoes inside.
Be street-legal when entering and exiting the venue.
Clothing optional inside
Towels (more than you think you need).
Your own water (in a closed-lid container).
Food and/or non-alcoholic beverages to share with everyone.
Be clean and sober - NO ALCOHOL OR RECREATIONAL DRUGS. (We want people to make informed choices and authentic connections at this party.) Anyone with substances or potentially under the influence will be asked to leave immediately. We have a zero tolerance policy. Thank you for participating with your own amazing energy!
Nobody will be admitted after the doors are locked when the opening circle begins and which everyone MUST be present for. Arriving late is NOT fashionable.
Given After Purchase, San Diego
EARLY BIRD tickets available until Sunday 3/17/2024
This event is advertised in multiple places. (No online RSVP list is a full count of attendees.)
If paying via Eventbrite is problematic for you, please email me at aphroditehopetantra@gmail.com
No Refunds, but you may apply your ticket price to the purchase of a ticket of one of my future events.
UPCOMING EVENTS
SAN DIEGO:
2024-03-16/SA Aphrodite's Queer Play Party:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/744519195957
2024-04-12/FR Friday Play Party:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/805848714197
2023-04 TBA S3xy Workshop
2024-04-20/SA Aphrodite's Queer Play Party:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/744524933117
2024-05-03/FR Friday Play Party:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/816252682747
ONLINE:
RECORDING Getting the Most out of Tantra Events:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/805852435327
Attractive AF
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/741158052687
6pm PDT 1st Tuesday (some 2nd Tuesday)
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FREEBIES
Reignite the Sex God Within (Instant Download) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/360601467697
FACILITATOR
Our newbie nights are co-hosted by Goddess Frankie (pictured) and Goddess Aphrodite (poster). We're excited to bring you a new world of opportunity and involvement at our new beachside location.
Goddess Frankie is a tarot reader and energy masseuse whose goal is to create a safe environment for women and queer folx. They love intimacy and meditative surroundings. On a journey to discover both their own gender and sexual identities, they hope to guide others walking that same, often confusing, path. They are a novel writer and artist in their spare time. They welcome all curious and open-minded people to their parties, seeking to create a safe space for everyone to be themselves.