The Party Isn't Over: Desire After Body Shifts

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to start time. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific. No day-of cancellations.

Have you ever looked at your changing body and thought, “Well… this is new”? This workshop is for kinky, slutty, pleasure-forward people who still want to fuck, flirt, play, and feel desirable on their own terms—even as aging, menopause, shifting libido, sore joints, hormonal chaos, and brain fog start making themselves known without asking for consent. Join Dirty Lola for an honest, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about what it means to stay sexual when your body (and sometimes your brain) starts rewriting the rules.

Together, participants will explore how to adapt the sexy things they love: how kink can evolve, desire can be rerouted, and pleasure can be renegotiated when energy, lubrication, erections, orgasms, or focus don’t behave the way they used to. This isn’t about getting back to “normal”—it’s about learning new tricks, new rhythms, and new definitions of what counts as hot. Expect practical tools, shared wisdom, language for naming what’s changing, resources for learning more, and space to grieve what’s shifting without giving up the filthy joy of being a sexual being. Aging doesn’t mean the party’s over—it just means the playlist changes, the lighting gets better, and everyone’s more intentional about where they put their knees.

Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.

Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm.