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𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝑳𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒓: π‘¬π’•π’‰π’Šπ’„π’”, π‘Ίπ’π’—π’†π’“π’†π’Šπ’ˆπ’π’•π’š & the 𝑭𝒆𝒍𝒕 𝑺𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 with Philippe πŸ’š π™π™π™š π™Žπ™šπ™˜π™ͺπ™§π™š π™‰π™šπ™©π™¬π™€π™§π™ 

(Zoom link will be sent in your purchase email) πŸ“§

Who are leaders? Teachers, facilitators, coaches, producers, community organizers, business owners--anyone who holds a π’ˆπ’“π’π’–π’‘ 𝒐𝒓 π’„π’π’π’•π’‚π’Šπ’π’†π’“ for others. 🧭 And with that role comes a kind of power the rest of the room doesn't have: 𝒓𝒐𝒍𝒆 π’‘π’π’˜π’†π’“. Every action and request we make lands with the kind of influence that impacts others because of this.

So what does it mean to lead from a 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 place? 🌿 In this workshop we explore leadership that is π’”π’π’—π’†π’“π’†π’Šπ’ˆπ’ 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’„π’π’π’π’‚π’ƒπ’π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’—π’† at the same time--able to hold 100% π’“π’†π’”π’‘π’π’π’”π’Šπ’ƒπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’•π’š for what happens inside our sphere of influence, with π’‚π’•π’•π’–π’π’†π’Žπ’†π’π’•, 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆, π’„π’π’π’”π’Šπ’…π’†π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, π’„π’π’π’π’‚π’ƒπ’π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’‚π’„π’„π’π’–π’π’•π’‚π’ƒπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’•π’š, and without collapsing into self-blame when we fail. We look at servant leadership (and where service goes sideways), the 𝒇𝒐𝒖𝒓 π’Œπ’Šπ’π’…π’” 𝒐𝒇 π’‘π’π’˜π’†π’“ (personal, status, role, and epistemic), how anxious and avoidant patterns show up when we lead, and the test for where we can actually be trusted. βš–οΈ

Then we get practical. πŸ› οΈ We build toward your own 𝒄𝒐𝒅𝒆 𝒐𝒇 π’†π’•π’‰π’Šπ’„π’” through five layers--core beliefs, core values, personal ethics, personal code, role code--and name the structures a secure leader puts in place 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 π’‡π’‚π’Šπ’π’–π’“π’†: a support pod, an engagement policy, active repair, apologies without justification, ongoing counsel.

Through pair practices and honest inquiry, we'll sit with the questions leaders rarely get asked: What is your responsibility as a leader? What do you teach that no one has ever challenged? Where are responsibilities still sitting π’–π’π’„π’π’‚π’Šπ’Žπ’†π’… in your sphere of influence, and how much power does it cost you? 🀲

You'll leave with the beginnings of your own ethics--π’šπ’π’–π’“ π’—π’†π’“π’”π’Šπ’π’ π’‡π’Šπ’“π’”π’•, mine offered as one possibility among many. πŸ’«

What would become possible if π’•π’‚π’Œπ’Šπ’π’ˆ π’“π’†π’”π’‘π’π’π’”π’Šπ’ƒπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’•π’š was where your power came from?

About π‘·π’‰π’Šπ’π’Šπ’‘π’‘π’†: 🌹

π‘·π’‰π’Šπ’π’Šπ’‘π’‘π’† π‘³π’†π’˜π’Šπ’” is a π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’”π’‰π’Šπ’‘ 𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒐𝒓, 𝒄𝒐𝒂𝒄𝒉, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’‡π’“π’‚π’Žπ’†π’˜π’π’“π’Œ 𝒅𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒍𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒓 with over 23 years of teaching in π’Šπ’π’•π’Šπ’Žπ’‚π’„π’š, π’‚π’•π’•π’‚π’„π’‰π’Žπ’†π’π’•, 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒕, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’„π’π’π’”π’„π’Šπ’π’–π’” π’”π’†π’™π’–π’‚π’π’Šπ’•π’š. He founded π‘¬π’™π’’π’–π’Šπ’”π’Šπ’•π’† ❦ 𝑳𝒐𝒗𝒆 as the home for his body of work--guiding people and communities toward an π’‚π’•π’•π’–π’π’†π’Žπ’†π’π’• 𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 through frameworks of his own development including π‘ͺπ’π’π’”π’Šπ’…π’†π’“π’‚π’•π’† 𝑡𝒐𝒏-π‘΄π’π’π’π’ˆπ’‚π’Žπ’š (π‘ͺ𝑡𝑴), the π‘­π’π’–π’π’…π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ π‘ͺ𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝑺𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 (attunement β†’ connection β†’ trust β†’ consent), and the 7 π‘°π’π’•π’†π’π’π’Šπ’ˆπ’†π’π’„π’†π’”. He co-founded 𝑻𝒉𝒆 π‘±π’π’–π’“π’π’†π’š 𝒕𝒐 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 retreat and 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π‘΅π’†π’•π’˜π’π’“π’Œ membership community, produces the FireLight πŸ”₯ micro-festival near Yosemite, and runs 𝑻𝒉𝒆 π‘Ίπ’π’Žπ’‚π’•π’Šπ’„ π‘·π’π’‚π’šπ’ˆπ’“π’π’–π’π’… weekly class series in San Francisco and Oakland. His five core values--π’‚π’•π’•π’–π’π’†π’Žπ’†π’π’•, 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆, π’„π’π’π’”π’Šπ’…π’†π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, π’„π’π’π’π’‚π’ƒπ’π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 π’‚π’„π’„π’π’–π’π’•π’‚π’ƒπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’•π’š--guide his work as teacher, partner, lover, facilitator, and father. ✨

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IG @scorpiodreaming & @exquisiteheartlove

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✨ 𝑺𝒕𝒆𝒑 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π‘΅π’†π’•π’˜π’π’“π’Œ πŸ’š

A real π’„π’π’Žπ’Žπ’–π’π’Šπ’•π’š 𝒐𝒇 π’‘π’“π’‚π’„π’•π’Šπ’„π’† for people healing from π’Šπ’π’”π’†π’„π’–π’“π’† π’‚π’•π’•π’‚π’„π’‰π’Žπ’†π’π’• β€” where π’π’†π’‚π’“π’π’Šπ’π’ˆ, 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕, and π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ π’ˆπ’“π’π’˜π’•π’‰ happen together. 🌱

If you've spent years trying to heal yourself alone… πŸ˜”

If you've done the books, the therapy, the YouTube videos… πŸ“š

If you've found yourself repeating the same patterns even when you "know better"… πŸ”„

You already know: π‘¨π’•π’•π’‚π’„π’‰π’Žπ’†π’π’• π’˜π’π’–π’π’…π’” 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍 π’Šπ’ π’Šπ’”π’π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’. π‘»π’‰π’†π’š 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍 π’Šπ’ π’„π’π’π’π’†π’„π’•π’Šπ’π’. πŸ’ž

This community exists to give you that connection β€” with 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆, π’ˆπ’–π’Šπ’…π’‚π’π’„π’†, and a π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ π’‡π’Šπ’†π’π’… that actually supports 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π’•π’“π’‚π’π’”π’‡π’π’“π’Žπ’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’. ✨

✨ π‘΄π’†π’Žπ’ƒπ’†π’“π’”π’‰π’Šπ’‘ π‘Άπ’‘π’•π’Šπ’π’π’” 🎫

🌱 π‘Ίπ’Šπ’π’ˆπ’π’† π‘Ύπ’π’“π’Œπ’”π’‰π’π’‘ 𝑷𝒂𝒔𝒔 β€” $27

For those who simply want to attend a monthly workshop without joining the community.

A great entry point β€” join us, learn with us, explore your edges.

🌿 π‘΄π’π’π’•π’‰π’π’š π‘΄π’†π’Žπ’ƒπ’†π’“π’”π’‰π’Šπ’‘ β€” $20/month

Full access to everything: workshops, integration calls, community space, resources, replays.

https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-monthly

🌿 𝑳𝒂𝒖𝒏𝒄𝒉 π‘Ίπ’‘π’†π’„π’Šπ’‚π’ 𝑨𝒏𝒏𝒖𝒂𝒍 β€” $199

A full year of support for less than the cost of a single coaching session.

https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-annual

🌿 π‘³π’Šπ’‡π’†π’•π’Šπ’Žπ’† π‘΄π’†π’Žπ’ƒπ’†π’“π’”π’‰π’Šπ’‘ β€” $99 (Founding 150 Only) πŸ”₯

A one-time contribution to stay part of 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π‘΅π’†π’•π’˜π’π’“π’Œ forever.

https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-lifetime

✨ 𝑻𝒉𝒆 π‘­π’π’–π’π’…π’Šπ’π’ˆ π‘΄π’†π’Žπ’ƒπ’†π’“ π‘ͺπ’Šπ’“π’„π’π’† πŸ‘‘

A rare, never-to-be-repeated opportunity for the first 150 people who want to help shape the future of this community. (60 spots are already sold!) ⚑

Instead of crowns, here are the relational icons we'll anchor this tier in β€” signifying π’„π’π’π’π’‚π’ƒπ’π’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, 𝒄𝒐-π’„π’“π’†π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, and π’‰π’–π’Žπ’‚π’ π’„π’π’π’π’†π’„π’•π’Šπ’π’:

🀝 π‘ͺ𝒐-π‘ͺ𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 π‘ͺπ’π’Žπ’Žπ’–π’π’Šπ’•π’š

You're part of the original group that helps us build this space in a way that truly serves people.

πŸ•ŠοΈ π‘Έπ’–π’‚π’“π’•π’†π’“π’π’š 𝑭𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔 π‘΄π’†π’†π’•π’Šπ’π’ˆπ’”

Private, collaborative calls where you help steer themes, offerings, and improvements.

πŸ’ž 𝑭𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔-π‘Άπ’π’π’š π‘Άπ’‘π’‘π’π’“π’•π’–π’π’Šπ’•π’Šπ’†π’”

Unique pricing, private gatherings, relational practice intensives, and special events reserved for the inner circle.

πŸ“˜ π‘·π’†π’“π’Žπ’‚π’π’†π’π’• 𝑭𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔 π‘Ήπ’†π’„π’π’ˆπ’π’Šπ’•π’Šπ’π’

Your name lives inside the community as part of the original lineage β€” the people who said yes early and helped build a 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ π’†π’„π’π’”π’šπ’”π’•π’†π’Ž from the ground up.

🌱 π‘³π’Šπ’‡π’†π’•π’Šπ’Žπ’† 𝑨𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔

A single contribution that keeps you in the community forever. 𝑡𝒐 π’“π’†π’π’†π’˜π’‚π’π’”. 𝑡𝒐 π’”π’–π’ƒπ’”π’„π’“π’Šπ’‘π’•π’Šπ’π’π’”. 𝑬𝒗𝒆𝒓. ♾️

This tier disappears the moment all 150 places are taken. ⏰

✨ 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒀𝒐𝒖 π‘Ήπ’†π’„π’†π’Šπ’—π’† π‘¬π’—π’†π’“π’š 𝑴𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉 πŸ“…

❀️ π‘­π’Šπ’“π’”π’• π‘»π’‰π’–π’“π’”π’…π’‚π’š – π‘³π’Šπ’—π’† π‘Ύπ’π’“π’Œπ’”π’‰π’π’‘

High-calibre teaching from rotating experts in π’‚π’•π’•π’‚π’„π’‰π’Žπ’†π’π’•, π’„π’π’Žπ’Žπ’–π’π’Šπ’„π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’, π’„π’π’π’‡π’π’Šπ’„π’• π’“π’†π’‘π’‚π’Šπ’“, 𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒐𝒖𝒔 π’”π’šπ’”π’•π’†π’Ž π’˜π’π’“π’Œ, π’ƒπ’π’–π’π’…π’‚π’“π’Šπ’†π’”, π’Šπ’π’•π’Šπ’Žπ’‚π’„π’š, and π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ π’”π’Œπ’Šπ’π’-π’ƒπ’–π’Šπ’π’…π’Šπ’π’ˆ. πŸŽ“

❀️ π‘»π’‰π’Šπ’“π’… π‘»π’‰π’–π’“π’”π’…π’‚π’š – π‘°π’π’•π’†π’ˆπ’“π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’ & π‘ͺπ’π’Žπ’Žπ’–π’π’Šπ’•π’š π‘ͺπ’Šπ’“π’„π’π’†

Guided reflection + dialogue + shared practice + live coaching to make the learning part of your actual life. πŸŒ€

*We're planning lots more for the community in the months and years to come. πŸš€

This is the space to practice 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒆 π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’ˆ in real time β€” with π’ˆπ’–π’Šπ’…π’‚π’π’„π’†, 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆, π’˜π’‚π’“π’Žπ’•π’‰, and π’‚π’„π’„π’π’–π’π’•π’‚π’ƒπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’•π’š. πŸ’š

✨ 𝒀𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 π‘°π’π’—π’Šπ’•π’†π’… πŸ’Œ

Come experience what becomes possible when π’‰π’†π’‚π’π’Šπ’π’ˆ becomes π’“π’†π’π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’, π’„π’π’π’”π’Šπ’”π’•π’†π’π’•, and 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒆𝒅 β€” not another solo journey where you're left to figure it out yourself. 🌈

We'd love to have you with us. πŸ’«πŸ€—

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