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WETWARE Play Party

WETWARE

Introvert-centered • Cyberpunk Vibes • Sober & Structured

Get to know yourself and others Intellectually and/or Sensually.

What if a play party was designed for curious minds, shy explorers, and people who like their connection intentional?

Wetware blends futuristic aesthetics, synth-driven soundscapes, and structured social tools to help you communicate desires, boundaries, and curiosity with clarity. Think LED nametags as digital dance cards, cozy cuddle spaces, creative sensation stations, and opt-in zones for intellectual and sensual exploration.

Whether you’re here for deep conversation, playful kink, creative expression, or low-pressure connection, this is a space built to reduce social friction and encourage consent-forward interaction.

✨ Select Sundays @ 2pm

🥤 Potluck style

🚫 Sober event

💜 NOTAFLOF available

Come experiment with connection — intellectually, socially, and sensually.

Get to know yourself and others, Intellectually and/or Sensually. In cyberpunk culture, Wetware can refer to Brain or Body. At Wetware, we seek to explore just how erotic it can be to experiment with all the squishy bits, both intellectually and physically through various social friction reduction tools.

The core principle of this party is: Don’t Make Assumptions! At Wetware, one can never be too cautious, too odd, too considerate, too creative, too inquisitive. Approach every situation and person without bias or preconception about what one may or may not fancy. Broadcast boundaries, desires and permissions while utilizing Informed, Affirmative, Active Consent. Avoiding assumptions also means trying not to over estimate or under estimate yourself.

WETWARE has unique structured activities and social tools to facilitate strange new connections…

  • Programmable LED nametags (for sale or for loan with a deposit) to get creative and informative. Repurpose the nametag as a digital dance card for streamlined group play that can include kinks, permitted individuals, STI test requirements, or favorite conversation topics. Download the iLEDcolor mobile app to pre-program what you want!
  • Cuddle spaces like a little hammock cocoon
  • Curated conversation and masturbation location to fap ‘n’ chat in as a transition between socializing and sexing
  • Interactive play tools like a sex vibrating thrusting stroking dildo blender bike utilizing pedal power for mechanical and electrical output and self pleasure that squishes fruits into smoothies
  • Touch table for sensation play or a happy ending with nipple play, penis milking, or vulva queening ergonomics
  • Creative & reflective spaces including erotic figure drawing

And perhaps more… to come…

Activities are opt-in, facilitated by volunteers, and designed to reduce social friction while encouraging consent-forward communication.

Music

Get Down & Beat Down to Synthwave, Spacesynth

Lounge & Scrounge to Chillsynth, Vaporwave

Grind & Gush to Instrumental Prog Rock, Instrumental Prog Funk

TICKETS

You must be a Mission Control member, or guest of a member to attend.

Tickets are $0 for Alliance members and $50 for regular members and guests. Alliance members you are eligible for ALLY discounts and your free tickets will show up MAGICALLY in the ticket section. Please select “Ally Discounts” for your free ticket.

NOTAFLOF: No one is turned away for lack of funds. We have a limited number of NOTAFLOF tickets. If you aren't able to volunteer and need a discounted ticket, let us know by emailing gamelianumu@gmail.com

Please support Mission Control with an annual membership! Alliance members get into this party and many other events for FREE.

VOLUNTEERING

Mission Control and WETWARE are completely volunteer run. Volunteers get free tickets! We strongly encourage anyone seeking free or discounted tickets to take one of the volunteer shifts. They're generally fun and easy.

Get your volunteer tickets on the event ticket page.

SAFETY

PAL System: To help keep our event safe and consensual, Mission Control’s PAL System is used. You and your PAL need to know each other well enough that you have an idea of each other's character enough to say "yes, I trust that this person will be a good and trustworthy event attendee.” To attend, you MUST arrive & leave with a responsible partner, your “PAL” for the night. There's no need to be a couple, but you are both responsible for each other during the party.

COVID: We encourage folks to have a COVID vaccination. You must bring a negative result from a same-day rapid test. For at-home tests, please name and date the test result card, and take a photo of the card to present with your ID at time of entry. A limited number of COVID rapid tests will be available at the door for $20 each. Taking a test on site will require a wait of at least 15 minutes before entering the event. Masks are available at the door and we support people who choose to wear them.

Incident Reporting: We seek to create a space that is very safe and welcoming. Please reach out to a host ASAP if there are any consent violations, or anyone makes you feel uncomfortable. You can also fill out the Mission Control Alliance Event Incident Report form: https://forms.gle/qynPQzDBrHwCQX6z7

ACCESSIBILITY

We regret to inform you that this venue space is not fully wheelchair-friendly. While the first floor is accessible, there are stairs leading to other areas of the venue, which may pose a challenge for individuals with mobility impairments. As of June 2026, bathrooms are equipped with wheelchair-accessible facilities. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause and are committed to making accommodations wherever possible. If you have specific accessibility needs or require further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact us in advance, and we will do our utmost to assist you.

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