Your monthly Community Whip Practice is back. Join Zee and Praxium as we make space to play and practice with our favorite long impact toys. Whether you're new to whips or a seasoned thrower, Whip Jam is for you.
This month we're focusing on quirts and cats as transitional impact toys for your scene. Learn how to warm up bodies and build sensation with these tools before moving to whips—so your scene flows smoothly from lighter, more contained strikes into full whip play. We'll cover pacing, placement, and how to use quirts and cats to set the stage for whips.
Our space has plenty of dungeon furniture and room to play, practice, and connect with the whip community. You'll find benches, crosses, hardpoints, two lounge areas, and more. Every Whip Jam has fuzzy practice targets and whips to use if you don't have your own or want to try something different. Zee is on hand for advice and guidance, whether you're practicing on a target or a partner.
Whip Jam is a monthly skill-share and practice night for all things stingy—whips, canes, quirts, and more. Each session starts with a demo and mini-lesson led by Zee, then open lab time for hands-on exploration. Whether you're brand new or building your skills, this is your chance to try something new or refine your technique in a supportive space. Spots are limited; come early and ready to play.
If you're curious about or into whip catching (bottoming), or a whip throwing (topping) and looking to find someone, grab a wristband from the front desk. Feel free to talk to Zee, if time allows, for them to provide whip tasting sessions.
Doors open at 6:30 PM. No entry after 8:30PM.
Our lab-style workshops are community-centered educational events focused on skill sharing and learning, not play parties. Guests are expected to bring their own tools, sanitize shared equipment before and after use, and respect the house manager, Dungeon Monitor, and staff. Sex of any kind, breath play or simulated breath play, restraint across the front of the neck, fire, candles, vaping, and smoking are not permitted. These events are not for cruising; please watch from a respectful distance and avoid commenting or intruding on other guest’s labbing experiences, including during aftercare. All Praxium Events are 18+.
This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.
Accessibility Notes
The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to praxium@afterdark-sf.com
Zee (they/them) has been active in kink education for nearly 20 years, with teaching credits from KinkFest, Society of Janus, Bonobo Network, and more. Known for high-impact demos and inclusive, accessible teaching, Zee brings deep experience and playful energy to every class.
Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.
We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.
Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com