Whip Jam - Different Strokes for Different Folks

A Whip Skillshare presented by Zee and AfterDark - in San Francisco!

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Your monthly Community Whip Practice is back. Join Zee and Praxium as we make space to play and practice with our favorite long impact toys. Whether you're new to whips or a seasoned thrower, Whip Jam is for you.

This month we're focusing on different techniques for different parts of the body. We'll explore how to vary your approach for shoulders, back, chests, thighs, and other areas—adjusting angle, intensity, and swing to suit each zone. It’s a chance to build a more intentional toolkit and learn how to tailor your whip play to the body in front of you.

Our space has plenty of dungeon furniture and room to play, practice, and connect with the whip community. You’ll find benches, crosses, hardpoints, two lounge areas, and more. Every Whip Jam has fuzzy practice targets and whips to use if you don’t have your own or want to try something different. Zee is on hand for advice and guidance, whether you’re practicing on a target or a partner.

Whip Jam is a monthly skill-share and practice night for all things stingy—whips, canes, quirts, and more. Each session starts with a demo and mini-lesson led by Zee, then open lab time for hands-on exploration. Whether you’re brand new or building your skills, this is your chance to try something new or refine your technique in a supportive space. Spots are limited; come early and ready to play.

If you're curious about or into whip catching (bottoming), or a whip throwing (topping) and looking to find someone, grab a wristband from the front desk. Feel free to talk to Zee, if time allows, for them to provide whip tasting sessions.

Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 8:30PM.

Event Rules & Guidelines

Our lab-style workshops are community-centered educational events focused on skill sharing and learning, not play parties. Guests are expected to bring their own tools, sanitize shared equipment before and after use, and respect the house manager, Dungeon Monitor, and staff. Sex of any kind, breath play or simulated breath play, restraint across the front of the neck, fire, candles, vaping, and smoking are not permitted. These events are not for cruising; please watch from a respectful distance and avoid commenting or intruding on other guest’s labbing experiences, including during aftercare. All AfterDark Events are 18+.

The Venue

This event will take place at Paradox, at 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to info@afterdark-events.com.

Entry

• Doors open at 6:30PM. Doors close at 8:30PM and there will be no late entry so please arrive early and plan accordingly.
• Advance tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• Community Angel Tickets contribute to affordable kink education for those who need it. These tickets help keep classes affordable and help fund Financial Access Tickets to those in need. Please consider supporting our community if you are able.
• We have a limited number of financial access tickets available. If you are in need of a financial access ticket, please email us at info@afterdark-events.com
• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.

Inclusivity & Safety

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructor

• Zee (they/them) has been active in kink education for nearly 20 years, with teaching credits from KinkFest, Society of Janus, Bonobo Network, and more. Known for high-impact demos and inclusive, accessible teaching, Zee brings deep experience and playful energy to every class.

About AfterDark Events

AfterDark Events is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group that organizes exciting, inclusive, curated kink and sex-positive events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community.

Find us on FetLife, Plura, Instagram, and Forbidden Tickets.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We are dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge and honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, our events provide opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at info@afterdark-events.com