Wild Jam - A Primal Play Workshop (October)

Presented by AfterDark and FaeTea!

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Join us on a journey into the exciting world of primal play every first Thursday of the month! Our monthly peer-led workshop has been designed for all experience levels - from beginners to advanced players. Wild Jam is for those who are eager to explore their primal kink in a safe, consensual, and fun environment.

At the start of each workshop, we’ll go over the house rules and discuss or demonstrate an aspect of primal play. After that, you'll have the opportunity to engage in hands-on play sessions. These sessions are designed to foster an environment of mutual learning and sharing, so you can dive deeper into primal play with your fellow attendees. The focus is on experiential learning within a safe and structured container, helping everyone move at their own pace and comfort level.

Doors open at 6:30PM and close at 8:30PM.

Event Rules & Guidelines

Our lab-style workshops are community-centered educational events focused on skill sharing and learning, not play parties. Guests are expected to bring their own tools, sanitize shared equipment before and after use, and respect the house manager, Dungeon Monitor, and staff. Sex of any kind, breath play or simulated breath play, restraint across the front of the neck, fire, candles, vaping, and smoking are not permitted. These events are not for cruising; please watch from a respectful distance and avoid commenting or intruding on other guest’s labbing experiences, including during aftercare. All AfterDark Events are 18+.

1. Ask for affirmative consent before touching, engaging in play or escalation of play.
2. Don’t cruise for play. Emphasize skill sharing, learning, and respectful socializing. Voyeurism is also encouraged as a learning tool.
3. Depending on the number of attendees, available play spaces may be limited. Be prepared to wait or get creative with your playspace.
4. Clean your mats after using them.
5. No photography, please put phones away in your pockets, bags or the provided lockers.

The Venue

Wild Jam will take place at Paradox, at 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

The comfy mats, atmospheric lighting, rhythmic music, etc. will enhance your learning experience, helping you immerse yourself fully in the primal ambiance. For Wild Jam we will be focusing floor play and putting out lots of mats. Whether you're curious about how to start exploring your primal side or you're looking for a supportive community to share and grow with, Wild Jam is the perfect starting point. Come join us for an evening where you can let go of inhibitions and connect with your primal self in an educational, playful and welcoming setting.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to info@afterdark-events.com.

Entry

• Doors open at 6:30PM. Doors close at 8:30PM and there will be no late entry so please arrive early and plan accordingly.
• Advance tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
• Community Angel Tickets contribute to affordable kink education for those who need it. These tickets help keep classes affordable and help fund Financial Access Tickets to those in need. Please consider supporting our community if you are able.
• We have a limited number of financial access tickets available. If you are in need of a financial access ticket, please email us at info@afterdark-events.com
• Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.

Inclusivity & Safety

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructors

• FaeTea (she/her) has been in the community for 10 years – savoring learning and experiencing all the kink scene has to offer and offering what she has in return. She is a thrilled and thrilling bottom, submissive, polyamorous, pansexual, queerling femme who lives all aspects of her life from a Primal headspace. When not being kinky, FaeTea explores the world through hikes, board games, and random crafts. She enjoys learning and using new skills, and working down with a book or a podcast.
• Sully (OgreWithUmbrella) has been doing kink for more than 10 years, house topped for 2 years and helps host Wild Jam and the Saga parties. They specialize in the ridiculous and finding the joy and silliness in pain, sexuality, and primal. Their goal is to make kink feel safe and accessible for everyone because everyone deserves to be kinky.

About AfterDark Events

AfterDark Events is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent, and disabled led group that organizes exciting, inclusive, curated kink and sex-positive events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community.

Find us on FetLife, Plura, Instagram, and Forbidden Tickets.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We are dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge and honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, our events provide opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at info@afterdark-events.com