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Obsidian Playground: Willowstock (Alternative Expression BIPOC Kink Party)

Hosted by Lord Erebus & Pagans Paradise Crew

Some gatherings are advertised. Others are whispered about. WillowStock is the latter.

Hidden beneath the sweeping branches of an ancient willow, where candlelight flickers against weathered stone and music echoes through the night air, an extraordinary gathering awaits. This BIPOC-centered kinky celebration of alternative culture invites you into a world where goths, punks, emos, metalheads, grunge lovers, scene kids, and every beautifully unconventional soul come together to revel in the freedom of authentic self-expression!

Lose yourself beneath moonlit skies to the sounds that have always lived just outside the mainstream. From the haunting melodies of Evanescence and Deftones to the anthems of My Chemical Romance, Paramore, Linkin Park, Korn, and beyond, the soundtrack of the night celebrates the artists who gave voice to the outsiders. Come dressed in the pieces that make you feel most like yourself! and join us in the shadows, where the strange is celebrated, the different is desired, and every misfit finally feels at home.

EVENT DETAILS

đź•— Doors Open: 9:00 PM (doors close at 10:00 PM sharp)

đź•— Event Ends: 3:00 AM

📍 Location: Private studio near Union Square (full address in confirmation email)

🌟 Accessibility: This is a two flight walk-up space and may not be accessible to all.

WHAT TO EXPECT

  • Opening Circle: Our host will go over the guidelines on consent and mutual desire, ensuring that everyone is aligned in respecting this special, safe space. We'll also provide an overview of the various rooms, stations, and the range of activities available throughout the night.
  • Desire Board: To facilitate new connections and manifest fantasies, attendees will be given an opportunity to manifest their desires for the night by writing them down and pinning them to the Desire board!
  • Multiple Experience Rooms: Each room will be designed to match our attendees' varied tastes and interests, including the

🌿 The Willow Grove: Beneath the sheltering branches of the willow, the noise fades and time slows. A sanctuary for soft touch, sensual exploration, quiet intimacy, and meaningful connection.

🪦 The Mausoleum: The pounding heartbeat of WillowStock, reserved for intense impact play, high-energy scenes, and performances that demand to be seen (and heard!)

🥀 The Conservatory: No festival is complete without a place to wander, refuel, and run into old friends. Grab a snack, hydrate, recharge, and make new connections before heading back into the night.

🌙 The Campground: Every great festival has a place to slip away from the noise. Whether you need a moment to decompress, cuddle, process a scene, or simply breathe, The Campground offers a peaceful retreat beneath the stars.

  • Facilitators: Our staff are all trained and on duty around the clock to ensure that you have a safe and welcoming experience while you are in our space.
  • Live Performances and Demonstrations: We will be offering different exhibitions for you throughout the night for those who are feeling more voyeuristic and are feeling more comfortable to just hang back and watch the excitement!

VENDOR

Special Herbal Vendor Pretty Tokers will be present at the event. For more info on Pretty Tokers check out instagram.com/prettytokers.official (Bring cash and/or have venmo/cashapp ready to go)

WHO CAN ATTEND

Obsidian Playground is an intentional, BIPOC-centered space for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color of all genders and orientations. If you do not identify as BIPOC, you may attend only if you are accompanying a BIPOC partner. We reserve the right to remove anyone who disrupts the comfort or safety of the space. You must be 21+ to attend.

WHAT TO WEAR

For WillowStock, we're celebrating the many faces of alternative culture. Whether you're drawn to goth, punk, emo, grunge, industrial, metal, scene, cyber, or somewhere in between, this is your chance to embrace the version of yourself that refuses to fit neatly into a box! Think moonlit music festivals, underground concerts, forgotten cemeteries, late-night coffee shops, and band tees that have seen a hundred shows.

đź–¤ Femme Looks

(Think: Dark Romance, Punk Princess, Gothic Elegance, Alternative Icon)

  • Corsets, lace, mesh, fishnets, & velvet: Romantic textures that feel timeless.
  • Mini skirts, ripped jeans, oversized cargos, & layered silhouettes: Structured or chaotic—the choice is yours.
  • Leather jackets, trench coats, & oversized hoodies: Effortlessly cool layers.
  • Platform boots, combat boots, or chunky sneakers: Built for dancing until sunrise.
  • Dramatic makeup: Smokey eyes, bold eyeliner, dark lips, graphic liner, or colorful alternative looks.
  • Harnesses, chains, belts, & statement accessories: The more personality, the better.

đź–¤ Masc Looks

(Think: Brooding Frontman, DIY Punk, Industrial Rebel, Underground Legend)

  • Band tees, distressed shirts, mesh tops, & sleeveless layers: Worn-in and expressive.
  • Black denim, ripped jeans, cargos, or leather pants: Texture over perfection.
  • Leather jackets, battle vests, trench coats, & oversized outerwear: Layer with intention.
  • Combat boots, platforms, or classic skate shoes: Comfortable enough for an all-night festival.
  • Chains, rings, bracelets, chokers, & layered necklaces: Small details that tell a story.
  • Long hair, dyed hair, painted nails, eyeliner, or bold styling: Self-expression has no rules.

🦇 Accessories & Extras

  • Studs, spikes, safety pins, chains, & layered jewelry.
  • Fishnets, arm warmers, fingerless gloves, & leg straps.
  • Band patches, enamel pins, and DIY details.
  • Lace, leather, velvet, mesh, PVC, or distressed fabrics.
  • Dark florals, black roses, silver accents, and moon-inspired jewelry.
  • Alternative hair colors, dramatic makeup, and expressive styling are highly encouraged.

⛓ Alternatively...

Fet wear is always welcome! Pair your favorite harnesses, latex, leather, or other kink attire with alternative fashion staples like combat boots, mesh, fishnets, oversized jackets, chains, spikes, or dramatic makeup to create a look that's uniquely your own.

Street clothing, jeans, workout gear, or casual wear will not be permitted. We reserve the right to turn away anyone who does not put in effort. (For any questions, or more details on our community guidelines please see PagansParadise.com)

WHAT TO BRING

  • BYOB/BYOT (Your favorite beverages & toys)
  • Open, curious minds

TICKETS

  • Tier 1 (Lowest Price): $50 - Limited tickets available—grab yours early to save!
  • Tier 2: $60 - Available until sold out
  • Tier 3 (Standard Price): $70
  • Door Price: $80 - Subject to capacity.

LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds or exchanges will not be provided. We repeat: No refunds for this event.

ABOUT US

At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.

📸 Connect with us on Instagram @pagansparadise @obsidianplayground.📩 Join our newsletter at www.pagansparadiseNYC.com & www.Tartaruscoaching.com

đź“§ Any questions or concerns? Email us at tartaruscoaching@hotmail.com.Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.

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