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Yes, Madame: Submissive Etiquette 101

Madame Lilith’s submissive Training Hour

A foundational class for submissives looking to deepen their presence, poise, and responsiveness in D/s dynamics. Whether you're new to power exchange or refining skills you already have, this class covers the building blocks of graceful submission.

Submission is not weakness. It is discipline, precision, and surrender offered by choice — and choice demands skill.

Madame Lilith does not teach submission as performance. She teaches it as devotion.

Under Her instruction, you'll learn to occupy the space beneath your Dominant with intention: exact in posture, disciplined in silence, fluent in the language between a Domme and the one who serves Her.

What we'll cover:

* Positioning and stillness as a form of devotion

* Verbal and nonverbal protocols (address, eye contact, tone)

* The rites of permission — asking, waiting, receiving

* Anticipating needs vs. waiting for instruction

* Negotiating limits and expectations before you kneel

* Safewords, check-ins, and maintaining agency within structure

* Aftercare — the tenderness that follows discipline

Who it's for: submissives at any experience level who want to approach their dynamic with more intention, confidence, and skill — not to lose themselves, but to show up fully.

Dominants are welcome to attend alongside their submissive or on their own. Sharpen your own hand and deepen your fluency in what you require and what is offered to you.

Consent, clear communication, and mutual respect are the backbone of everything taught here. This isn't about erasing your voice — it's about learning to use it well, even on your knees.

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Who are we?

The Taillors are a group of kinksters led by femme-identifying Dommes. We're headquartered in a residential dungeon in Brooklyn, but also host events in partner spaces in Manhattan. We are dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle and community, and offer a range of ways to be involved.

What is this event?

Our workshops are social, group gatherings that bring members of the BDSM community together in a playful and educational setting.

DOOR TIMES:

Doors for the event will open precisely 5 minutes before starting time and close precisely at 10 minutes after. Please arrive on time for all events.

TICKET TYPES:

Participating Sub Ticket: to participate and be used during demos. We welcome participating subs of all genders.

Participating Domme Ticket: For outside dommes, or dominant femme identifying folk who wish to participate as much as allowed by the host.

Dress Code:

CDUS (Clothed Dominant, Unclothed Submissive) encouraged. Cross-Dressing and fetishwear appreciated.

GOOD TO KNOW:

This event is 21+- The Taillor Collective plays SSC (safe, sane, and consensual)

STILL HAVE QUESTIONS?

Call or text us at +1 (347) 855 4877, or send an email to events@taillors.com

NO REFUNDS

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